Does your wife still tease you about your circumcision? What were your first few times together like after you'd healed?
Definitely. I’ve mentioned this many times before. My circumcision, my lack of a foreskin, my loss of sensitivity, my scar, my permanent exposure to her gaze, my dependence on her for real satisfaction -- they’ve all become permanent fixtures in our sexual dialogue.
Just the other night we were in bed leading up to sex and I whispered in her ear to “grab onto what’s left of my foreskin.” She giggled, wrapped her little hand around my tight shaft, and pulled the immovably tight skin so hard I thought it was going to tear away from the glans. Seeing me writhe with the painful pleasure she whispered back in my ear, “see, much better without all that loose skin, isn’t it?”
Another recent occasion where it came up was when I was in the shower and she was in the bathroom talking. She randomly paused, finally breaking her silence with, “you know, I really do like you better this way...”
Without looking over at her, “what way is that?”
I smiled, still not looking over at her.
“It’s just... better this way. I like the way the water runs over the head. I like that I can see all of it all the time. It’s just... mine.”
“It sure is babe, it sure is...”
We waited quite a while after my foreskin was removed before having sex again; a few months at least. It was important to both of us that I be completely healed and our first time be a demonstration of just how great sex with a circumcised penis truly is. That was the whole point of having me circumcised, after all.
The first few times were great. There was huge build up and excitement on both of our parts. She was like a kid playing with a new toy on Christmas, I felt desirable like never before. We fucked intensely, she ground herself up against me relentlessly, and I came buckets into her every time. The biggest surprise for me was that I was actually more sensitive immediately after having my foreskin removed than before and had to work very hard to control myself. This settled down over the next year or two but when your glans has been sheltered your whole life it takes time for it to toughen up into the masculine organ it ought to be. Of course, it didn’t help that she was merciless with her talk and teasing during those first few times, telling me what a good boy I was for getting it cut off for her, how much better she likes me now that I’m not intact, asking me if I wished I could have it back and then taunting me that I never would, asking me if I could even feel her anymore, and so on....