The art of pulling our when to end LOVE MAKING? 

    There is a growing awareness about the importance of taking time when approaching the Yoni (the vagina). I posted about it a couple of days ago.

    But what about pulling out? Many women (and some men) have had the experience of not only being entered prematurely, but also being left prematurely. This is relevant to intercourse, and other forms of intimacy, as well as to the closing of a relationship/separation, be it with someone you spent only one night with or years together. Usually sex ends with ejaculation of the male partner. He ejaculates, pulls the lingam (penis) out of the yoni (vagina), it is perhaps followed by a moment of cuddles and voilá.

    And the yoni… is left exposed, vulnerable, raw and open. The woman either feels numbed and empty, or silently frustrated. So what does a conscious pulling out look like? It includes: 1. Providing time and space to let the closing happen naturally. If you are an anxious type, I know it may be hard to stay present. But, don’t worry, I guarantee a natural closing will happen. The less you rush it, the sooner it will actually occur. Here is a very simple practical piece of advice for sex: Before entering a yoni feel into whether she is open and inviting. If you cannot feel – ask.Before leaving a yoni feel whether she is ready for you to go. If you cannot feel – ask. The best way to end the intercourse is to keep the genitals together, let the erection go down naturally, and still stay “plugged in” after the erection is gone. Then you will feel that the lingam naturally slides out of the yoni, or the woman will feel when she is ready to release him and she will gently push him out. This provides such a warm field of connection, nourishment and intimacy. This of course ties in with the subject of ejaculation mastery. Which I have written about too. If the man has ejaculated don’t let that be a reason to disconnect. I recommend that you keep your bodies close and the man covers the Yoni with his hand and holds her like that for a while. Wait until your bodies naturally feel ready to separate. 2. Calling your partner the morning after intimacy/sex. It such a simple gesture, and it can be just a small text saying “thank you”, yet it offers a great deal of a sense of being held and cared for. Being with a partner who honors these things provides such a deep sense of care. This care is actually a superpower, so lacking in this world. Sleepy, unconscious parts of us have no idea what care means. *We can only understand what real care means from parts of our consciousness that are really AWAKE.* Abrupt disconnection leaves a sense of in-completion and is much more likely to lead to neediness and clinginess.

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    Prerequisite for soul nourishing intimacy is meeting your partner body to body.

    ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We spend many hours of the day glued to a screen. I’m that we are completely ignoring the body and engaging the mind. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If we are stuck in our minds, we are not able to deepen in intimacy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We need to develop the habit to landing in the body. Only then we will be able to deepen in intimacy. We need an embodied experience of love, it nourishes is deeper than anything. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So what to do? You need to take time to get into your body. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ How? Dance, move, do yoga, work in the garden, cook. Do what brings you openness. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ To practice sacred sexuality and intimacy we need to prioritise the body.

    delhicouplefun

    Girls just wanna have fun.

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    Back door entry on the beach

    If on beach such bombshell one will get to bang he would be one of the luckiest dude on the earth. He did not get only one instead he got two hot and sexy chick to bang. He is rotating and fucking them turn by turn. These girls also enjoys his big dick and when one is getting fucked other one records and this goes so on. See the happiness on his face. 

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    suck-sex-ful enjoyment

    Swapping has crossed all boundaries and barriers of society. These college going students are trying to enjoy and experience this and see how they are performing. They both exchanged their respective partners with each other and initiated things with them. Other couple were hesitating after swap but once they saw other two performing they also started enjoying the environment. 

    kizimmm

    Karısını sikerken kızının göğüslerini okşuyor bayılıyorum böyle modern ailelere….

    yesbaysikicikayseri

    Amına sokuyum gavat

    lovesex564

    Very sexy

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    Threesome fun

    Threesomes are one of those intriguing things that seem to be at the forefront of sexual bucket lists for people, whether it be in the fantasies of lad mag-lovin' men, the bitter reality of couples seeking that unicorn third (the unicorn being a hot bi babe that puts out), or of course girls like me who think if one cock is good, two is even better. There's that memorable threesome with the guys in Shortbus, and the L Word has more than one in the series- everyone's getting in on the action, and have been for a while!