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    9 ingredients for taming your slave, results guaranteed…


    Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.


    This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.


    Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.


    This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.


    Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.


    Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.


    As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.


    slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.


    Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. 

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    The best way I’ve heard submission described was at M/s conference in 08. Submission is not following your Master. It is preceding him, clearing the path, and reporting back to him on any pitfalls or problems you see ahead. It is trusting him, to guide and navigate, to keep you safe.

    The most common way I’ve heard Dominance described uses words that I wouldn’t use to describe a dog. Especially today – there are a LOT of anti-Dominant posts, and a lot of “Submissives Deserve XYZ” posts. But one thing I’ve almost never heard…what do Dominants deserve? Where is our “10” list?

    1. Know your Responsibilities.

    Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to be forgiving and understanding. We have the responsibility to be strong and independent. We have the responsibility to be wise and patient, and to be controlled and in control of ourselves and our partners. We have to accept accountability for whatever happens with the submissive. We have the responsibility to take responsibility (and accountability) for both our actions, and (often) our submissives’ actions. Well, submissive responsibilities exist too. (No, not “suck my dick daily” kinds of responsibilities. Those are play rules, or relationship kinks.) Responsibilities in submission are supposed to include communication with your Dominant. Having patience with the relationship. Working to build trust with your partner. And having realistic expectations of the relationship, while understanding the meaning of discretion when things need work. You know…all the stuff below?

    2. Remember Patience?

    Patience is a virtue, virtue is a grace, and grace is a little girl… When you start dating someone – you don’t ask them to marry you the first week out. Nor the first month, or (hopefully) the first year. So why are you in a rush to be “collared” immediately? Why is there this pressure to invent a myriad variety of “collars” to validate every single status change in the relationship? Date. Hang out. Talk. The same with fetishes. I understand you are a HUGE anal slut. But let’s build up to that. Yes, I can probably put together a scene with 23 different ass sensation toys, and a half dozen different positions, with FancyRopeWork ™. But why? Let’s share other experiences. Let’s learn each other before moving into what should be a permanent relationship. It takes time before a dominant becomes YOUR Master. It takes time for us to learn your little idiosyncrasies. It takes experience to recognize your body language, and to be able to intuit your fears and your feelings. There will be false starts, and stops, and pitfalls, and awkward situations. If you actually want a relationship with your Dominant…be realistic about it. (see #3) Expecting us to immediately rock your world…it happens sometimes. But most of the time, it takes time and effort before we know you well enough to really rock out.

    3. Have Realistic Expectations.

    You aren’t perfect? Well, neither am We. We’re learning every day. A good Dominant (one who will eventually be worthy of the title “Master”) is constantly working on those imperfections, through self-help, personal exploration, educational classes, and reading. Expecting a 29 year old to pay for all your dates, have a fully equipped dungeon, be the perfect boyfriend, help pay your rent when you’re behind, god-like lover, and be a Master-of-All-Toys is, frankly, naive. It takes a lot of work to build a relationship - and that relationship has to be built from both ends. We understand that you are sacrificing a lot when you surrender your body - often, so are we (see #9). We are as giving as we can be of our time, our money, and our emotions. It hurts us just as much when we’re dropped, dumped, manipulated or lied to. But, you may have noticed, we don’t have “Dominant support” groups, by and large. So while you’re risking more of your body and heart on the front end – we’re risking a hell of a lot of our soul and our mind on the back end. If we’re with you, and making an honest effort…respect that. We respect you (even when we’re calling you cunts while whipping your ass) for your ability to take pain and suffering and then turn it into something amazing. We recognize your talents and efforts. Please, recognize ours.

    4. Consistency.

    It’s a real roller coaster ride to have a submissive who is one person in the morning, another at night, and a complete third when he skips his meds (see #7). And roller coasters are fun…but they don’t make for great daily activities. We’re going to do the best we can to enforce the rules consistently. To respond to your needs as much as we can, when we can. To be the same Dominant on Monday that we are Saturday night. What we ask in return? The same thing from you. Make the effort (see #9) to follow those rules. Don’t give us the A#1 effort Saturday night at the party, and then just coast on the relationship for the rest of the week. There’s something to be said for a sub who is the same Monday through Sunday in his level of devotion, his level of commitment, and his level of caring. We honestly don’t care if that level is low, medium, high, or barely existent. We’ll work with that – that’s what a Dominant does. We motivate, we train, and we guide. But if you’re giving us a different persona and a different level of submission every other day… the greatest Master in the scene couldn’t deal with that 24/7. Neither can we.

    5. Discretion within the relationship.

    Yeah, so. Going online and chatting in a slaves group, or on Fet, about how your Master doesn’t scratch your itch, or how you’re so disappointed he didn’t do SexyMoveA#1 last night? That’s not cool. We don’t (believe it or not) go around gossiping with every Dominant we know about how tight your ass was last night, or how funny you looked sobbing after an emotional edge play scene. Please have the same courtesy - don’t assume that just because you’re the submissive, you can talk about anything in our relationship that you want to and call it “submissive sharing”. If you have a genuine issue in the relationship - we should be the first person you talk to about it. Not your online friends. See #10 about that. This is not an endorsement of abuse. If you are being abused (physically, emotionally, financially, psychologically, sexually, etc.), for the love of God, go to your local shelter. Your nearest victim advocate. Or the closest police station. But please bear in mind – below that particular level? Relationships will always have problems…talking to your partner solves a LOT of them.

    6. Trust. (No really, actual trust, not “earn it or else” trust)

    No, this doesn’t mean trust me immediately from word one. That would be insane. But this ties in with #8 and #9. You’ve heard the old adage “trust takes time”? Well, trust also takes effort. And communication (see #10). From both parties. Trust is a two way street. If your Dominant has to constantly prove that he’s worthy of your trust, then why are you with him? I was once with a btm who had me convinced that it was a Dominant’s job to constantly be earning and re-earning trust. I heard the mantra of “a Master /earns/ trust” at least once a day. The entire relationship was one long marathon of constant effort to “earn” his trust by doing everything he wanted, and never disagreeing with him. It took a slap ‘round the head and shoulders by a senior Dominant and very trusted friend before I realized that I was being used.

    7. Sanity.

    This is a no brainer. But unfortunately, it rarely gets spoken of in our lifestyle. If you have depression, bi-polar, manic episodes, or have been described by previous friends, dominants or family members as a “wild and crazy” type…the odds are that you, in fact, need therapy. Possibly medication. There’s no shame in that – a HUGE percentage of people in this modern world have psychological issues that need to be addressed with pills or therapy. Please seek it BEFORE approaching a dominant. We, in return, will attempt to do the same for our own issues. Entering deeply emotional and effort-related relationships should be done AFTER the mental health issues are addressed and under control.

    8. Stop Recycling the Past.

    Your last Dominant hurt you. Or didn’t measure up. I understand that, personally. My last submissive didn’t either (see #7). But that said…this is us, starting fresh. I certainly want to know if your last Dom was abusive, hurtful, or cruel. You need to know if my last submissive was, too. That’s part of the whole “communication skills” thing in #10 and it will affect how we interact. I do NOT, however, need to hear a daily address list of the A-Z of everything you ever disliked about him…or a weekly update on how I compare to him. Considering that I probably don’t do any of the former, and don’t care about the latter. This is a new relationship. You wouldn’t enjoy me constantly comparing you, out loud, to my last girl. You wouldn’t enjoy an intimate partner constantly comparing you to their last lover. I don’t enjoy it either. Keep the past, in the past.

    9. Honest Effort and Understanding.

    You want us to know how hard submission is? Well, we want you to know how hard Domination is. We have to think in three dimensions about the emotional and psychological impact of everything from our tone of voice to our tools, from our clothes and cologne to our cock and cunt hair. It’s exhausting at times, and just like submissives…sometimes we burn out. Sometimes we’re too tired to be SparkleMasterLeatherDom/me. And just like we are expected (by our Dominant brothers and sisters, if not by our submissives) to be consistently understanding and supportive of slaves rights and feelings…we deserve a little consideration ourselves.

    10. Communication Skills.

    Domination AND submission. Master AND slave. Top AND bottom. Please note the “and”. You AND me. Kenova AND Cassie. Snowy AND Toy. The “and”? That has a lot of meaning. It means that just as much as you expect us, the Dominants, to communicate with you about your training and performance…we expect the same. We deserve the same. If you have concerns - you need to talk to us, not post it on Fetlife. If you feel hurt, you need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with your Dom, not slam them to all of your friends. If you honestly believe that your Dom has problems? Talk to them about it. Be a big girl/boy/boi/slave/slut/whore/bottom/queer/toy/androgyne. But if you can’t communicate at least as well as you expect your Dominant to communicate to you? If you aren’t making the honest effort (see #9) to become a better communicator? Then you’re the problem, not the Dom.

    Source: https://fetlife.com/users/118131/posts/1053481



    ^ required reading for every faggot


    57 Ways to Humiliate a Sub Faggot

    Humiliation is an important part of every faggot’s training. When a Man humiliates a faggot, He’s teaching him humility (a faggot must remain humble and not allow his ego to get in the way of his ability to serve and obey superior Men), respect (a faggot must learn to show appreciation and esteem to superior Men) and obedience (a faggot must learn to cede all control to superior Men). Plus, it’s just plain fun to embarrass or shame a faggot sometimes — and faggots exist to amuse as much as they do to serve.

    Unfortunately, faggots have very little shame. Therefore, it can sometimes be difficult to imagine new ways to humiliate them. With that in mind, i’ve created a the following list of 57 ways for Men to humiliate Their faggots. Go forth, Men, and have fun playing with your subs!

    • Make him wear a butt plug and send him to the gym to workout — ensuring that he changes and showers in the locker room with the butt plug still in.
    • Cum on his face or in his hair, then send him out to run errands for You; make it clear that he’ll be severely punished if he returns and You discover that he’s wiped the cum off.
    • Call or text him at will and order him to piss his pants and send You a picture of it. If You do it when You know he’s out in public — at a bar, perhaps, or on the train during their evening commute home from work — even better.
    • Serve him his dinner in a dog bowl and make him eat it — sans utensils — kneeling like an animal on the floor next to You while You sit and eat Your dinner at the table like the Man You are.
    • Make him serve as a piece of furniture — a footrest, perhaps, or a coffee table on which people can set their drinks — during Your next party.
    • Make him address You as “Sir” in public. He should already be doing it in private, but addressing You that way in public will take Your power dynamic to a whole new level. To kick it up yet another notch, make him call You “Master.”
    • Outfit him with an ashtray mouth gag and station him on Your patio for smokers to use during Your next get-together.
    • Spontaneously order him to jerk off to completion in front of You or others in a random or inopportune time and/or place. Then, make him eat his load.
    • Forbid him from using the restroom for the day and make him wear a diaper, instead. Let him know you’ll be inspecting the diaper later, so he’d better make use of it.
    • Make him use the bathroom — piss and/or shit, Your choice — in front of You or others.
    • Perform an unannounced strip search and/or cavity check in an unexpected time or place — out at a bar, for instance, or in the parking lot when You’re out running errands.
    • Piss or cum into his food; make him eat it while You watch.
    • Forbid him to walk in front of You; faggots have to crawl on all fours.
    • Lock him in a cage naked during Your next party and let Your guests ogle at him like a zoo animal.
    • Dress him in slutty clothes and send him out in public to run errands for You.
    • Make him give himself an enema while You watch.
    • Make him use the urinal in a public mensroom with his pants around his ankles; or, if he has to shit, make him do so in a stall with the door wide open. Alternatively, or in addition, require that he always keep the door wide open when he’s using the bathroom at home.
    • Make him wear a leash and collar in Your presence. Or, even better, out in public.
    • Forbid him from making eye contact with You.
    • Handcuff him in public.
    • Make him kneel in a public restroom with the word “toilet” written on his forehead.
    • Lock his cock in a chastity device.
    • Lock his cock in a chastity device, then make him change at the gym, the swimming pool, the beach, etc., with the cock cage on.
    • Shave his head.
    • Shave all his body hair.
    • Scold him like he’s a little boy.
    • Reprimand him in public when he does something bad.
    • Spank him in public.
    • Write “faggot” on his face or body with suntan lotion, then take him sunbathing and let the sun “brand” him.
    • Make him wear a T-shirt out in public that says “i’m a faggot,” or “slave,” or “pussyboy,” or “cumdump.”
    • Put him in a timeout, standing naked in the corner facing the wall for a period of time.
    • Spit in his face — bonus if it’s a loogie — and make him keep it there to dry. Forbid him from wiping it off.
    • Take him to the bathhouse with messages like “breed me” or “i drink piss” or “cocksucker” written all over his body in permanent marker.
    • Next time he’s eating Your ass, rip a fart in his face.
    • Next time You take a dump, take Your finger — or even Your turd itself — and wipe a streak of shit on his upper lip. Demand that he wear Your shit mustache there all day.
    • Make him suck a dildo in a public place — in the car on the highway during rush hour, for example — so others can see.
    • Only allow him to use the bathroom outside, like a dog.
    • Make him eat things out of Your ass.
    • Gag him with Your cock until he pukes, then make him lick up his vomit.
    • Make him sleep on the floor next to your bed, instead of in the bed.
    • Slap him. Hard.
    • Make him lick your shoes or boots — on command, in public.
    • Pee next to him at the urinal when You’re out and about; turn and face him so that You piss on him instead of in the urinal. Laugh, and make him walk around with Your piss all over him.
    • Make him wipe Your ass for Your. Either with toilet paper, with his hand or with his tongue. All three are extremely humiliating.
    • Make him verbally recite a list of five, 10, 20 — whatever — things he loves and admires about You.
    • Cut or a rip a hole in the seat of his pants and send him out wearing them without underwear on underneath.
    • Give him an enema and then take him on a walk around the neighborhood with it still in. Make sure he’s wearing light-colored pants or shorts. Heheheh.
    • Make him flash his hole to strangers in the car on the highway, at a rest stop, or another location of Your choosing.
    • Whenever You need to use the toilet — at home or in public — escort him in with You and make him lick it clean for You so you have a pristine place to relieve Yourself.
    • Clip a clothes pin to his tongue and make him say “i am a faggot” 10 times until he’s drooling all over himself.
    • After you fuck him, hose him off naked in the yard like a dirty animal.
    • Make him approach a stranger and “confess” something dirty and embarrassing. Like, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i like to sniff Men’s asses.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and my cunt is filled with cum right now.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i drink piss.”
    • Make him make animal noises for You on command: “Bark like a dog!” Or, “Meow like a cat!” Or, “Show me what sound a pig makes!”
    • Make him clean his cunt every time he shits. Pre-mix a cleaning solution for him to use — Your piss, perhaps, mixed with some dish soap — and store it in a spray bottle labeled “fag bath” or “cunt cleaner.” Make him display this cleaner next to the toilet in his home, where any guests are sure to see it.
    • Take him into a photobooth and make him pose for pictures with Your cock in his mouth, then walk away and make him leave the pictures for the next patron to find — not knowing who will find them or what they’ll do with them.
    • Make him approach a stranger at a bar, in a bathroom or at a sex club and beg for their cock, piss or cum.
    • Make him dust Your home using a feather duster stuck up his ass.

    All these are pretty hot, even if i’m not such a fan of public humiliation!


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    A Slave’s Diet

    There are few limitations to the ideal diet for a slave and given time every Dom/me will find the best solution. If you’re still looking for some inspiration, here’s some ideas about what and how a slave should eat.

    1.) A realistic gruel should be something that keeps the slave nourished but is simple enough that preparing it or washing out its bowl won’t distract the slave from its duties for too long. Consider fuelling your car. You want it to run and run well - you don’t ask it how it likes its fuel the best.

    Any slave-food should also be void of any taste - the reason a slave should eat is hunger, not because its feeling like a gourmet all of a sudden. Keeping it as tasteless as possible might even make the occasional addition of a little cum very welcome.

    I’m thinking unseasoned scrambled egg and pieces of white bread in a bowl full of water would fit these criteria nicely. 

    Another option: Soggy cereals mixed with bits of cooked liver. Or cooked rice put through the blender and then mixed with water. There’s always Soylent, if you’re feeling particularly generous. Maybe you can remember something particularly bland you’ve eaten in your life time and think of ways to rob it even that last bit of taste.

    2.) Preferably a slave should eat from a single bowl on the floor, ideally metal because its easy to clean and can’t be confused with a humans piece of kitchenware. Maybe even write its petname onto it with permanent-marker, just to be sure. Keeping the bowl clean and out of the way of its Master’s feet is obviously part of the slave’s duties.

    Its bowl is both for eating and for drinking - seperating solids and fluids is a luxury that has no room in a slave’s life. Both goes into the same stomach. If a slave can’t be bothred to finish its water before dinner-time, its gruel goes into the water. If it doesn’t finish its dinner (and you allow that) the next time it gets water it will be swimming with pieces of gruel. A great way to assure it will get its proteins nevertheless.

    The bowl obviously has no business in the cupboard where real people keep their kitchenware or in the dishwasher. A brush, a litte soap (cheap and rationed!) and the hose in the garden should be enough to keep it clean. If the Master’s place doesn’t have a garden (or a hose) or the slave cannot be trusted outside, a cold shower can do it. This way, it cleans two things at once. One benefit of allowing it only one single bowl for which the slave is personally responsible is that it will quickly grow attached to that bowl. It will react strongly if you threaten to take it away as punishment for any light misbehaviour. 

    If you’re bored, you might even hide it and when your slave’s mealtime approach it, observe its increasing panic as it looks for its bowl (while trying to hide what it’s doing from you to avoid punishment for its carelessness). It knows that if it doesn’t find its stupid bowl before mealtime is over, it won’t get anything to eat.

    For additional fun, put the bowl back before the next mealtime arrives. When the slave wants to continue its search, it will find the bowl exactly where it put it. But it already looked there, right? How can that be? It might even dare asking you for help with its search and you can reveal the bowl exactly where it belongs and chide your slave for its stupidity and show it why it needs a Master. It just can’t get by on its own. A great fun for everyone, right?

    Tipp: When eating, I particuarly recommend a small bowl and cuffing the hands of the slave behind its back. That way, the slave has a harder time eating. This will not only make the slave feel more sated in the end, but burying its face deep in the gruel is a nice, disgusting way to reinforce its status. You might even take a picture of its gruel-smeared face and have it make it its phone wallpaper. So adorable! 

    Of course, when or whether you allow it to wash off the food from its face is up to you.

    3) Food can and should reinforce the slave’s status and the current satisfaction of its Master with its services. There are plenty of good ways to punish a slave via its food - mostly, ruining it with the help of some spices or body fluids of the Master’s choice.

  • Especially if the slave complains about the lack of taste to its food, a few nice spoons of hot sauce in its food should cheer it up. It better be grateful!
  • If you feel like your slave didn’t keep up with its cleaning, you might take away its bowl for a while and have it lick its food directly from the floor. You’ll be surprised how motivated your slave suddenly is to keep the floor clean. (Works best for kitchens and bathrooms, not so much for any room with carpet.)
  • If you feel your slave spends too much time lazing about or you feel it uses its meal-times to postpone its duties, you can apply a time-limit. Estimate or secretly measure the time your slave usually takes to feed - and then cut it in half. 
  • Watch it eat like a pig, trying to slurp down as much gruel as possible before you take the bowl away. The hurry will even help the slave overcome any hesitations about the food being ‘disgusted’ and help it learn that the taste doesn’t matter as long as it gives the slave the energy to fulfil its duties. To be helpful, you can remind it how many seconds it still has left every once in a while.

  • You want a task done quickly? Tell your slave to do it after preparing its food. The gruel will taste even worse cold so it’ll hurry with your task to be allowed to eat something warm. Of course, the results of it work still need to pass muster, so it better doesn’t work half-heartedly!
  • As I said, an easy way to punish your slave is to take away the bowl - and there better be no argument about it! You can do that whenever you want - just get up and remove it or wait until mealtime has arrived and the gruel is in the bowl. Then order your slave to flush it down the toilet.
  • To make eating additionally difficult for a naughty slave you can do various things:

  • put your slave in a corset. Eating on your knees with your hands behind your back in a corset? Not easy.
  • Frozen peas where it will place its knees. Not only is it painful, but your slave won’t miss the irony that the food you use to punish your slave is better than the food it gets to eat.
  • A blindfold. Better do that outside though. You can even spice that up with an additonal flick from your riding crop when it doesn’t expect it.
  • I’m a nice person, so I will mention that one advantage of a particularly bland gruel is that the slave will appreciate anything that has a taste even more. You can reward it by adding a flew slices of orange or an apple to its gruel or even allow it a bite from your food for real people. But be sure that it earned such luxury or you spoil it.

    Tipp: If you have a long-haired slave, the question whether its allowed to tie back its hair or not before eating from its bowl (again, no hands allowed!) is a simple but entertaining form of punishment. Or just entertaining.

    4.) Outside foo
    d is obviously a problem. Slaves are like animals - the moment you turn your eyes off them, they’ll eat anything put in front of them. And since they go around pretending to be people in their every-day life, they’ll get a lot of it. Cookies at the christmas party at work? Check. They go to the movies with their ‘friends’ and order popcorn. Try your neighbour’s cake when she drops by.

    They’re practically stealing food meant for real people - not to mention confusing their own minds with these notions of humanity. The best thing you can do is make sure that your slave thinks twice about taking up any offer

  • Enforce honesty. The moment it’s at your place it must report anything it has eaten since it last saw you. If that was a long while or your slave has ‘poor memory’ a journal might help. OR: Have it create an Instagram account where it posts pictures of everything it eats. To any other person it will only look like a complete tool but its a great way for you and the world to keep track.
  • Make a catalogue of punishments for any wrong or unneccessary foods: Making its gruel more water-y for a few days, additional time added to its chastity, a nasty quick flogging before its next meal, washing out its mouth with soap or any of the punishments described above. Be creative. And then: Save the catalogue on your slaves phone so that it will always have it with it. No: “I didn’t know…” or “I wasn’t sure it was on the catalogue!” No excuses. Best make it google docs, so that you can add any new ideas you come up with - your slave better check its catalogue once in a while!
  • Have your slave write up a list of its favourite foods. Then when it’s finished, you order your slave to pick 3 ingredients from the list that it will from now on claim to be allergic against. It will be forced to recline any offer of foods containing it - it can’t even give in one time, otherwise it’ll look like a liar in front of people it knows. Now you control when and whether it will eat its favourite foods. You might even order it to become vegetarian or vegan to the public.
  • Order your slave to carry a small bag of salt or hot sauce or any other taste not to its liking around with it. If it can get away with it, it is to ruin its own food- This way it’ll be conditioned to dislike people-food, especially any not served at your place.
  • Alcohol is a no-go (and you can easily test your slave for it). If anything, it should happily endure the mockery for ordering water at the pub if it means it gets actual clean water that’s not from a little bowl on the floor mixed with gruel and tasting of metal. More than it deserves!
  • If it can’t control itself, have it wear a corset under its clothes in public - maybe even lock it on. It really helps against hunger!
  • If your slave can get away with it, it should take any food home with it rather than eat it at work or elsewhere. At home, it can hand its food over to you, an actual person. While it’s eating its portion of gruel you can inform it exactly how delicious the food it brought you is.
  • Ten Commandments of Permanent Chastity

Commandment #1. As your owner owns every part of you, He is entitled to determine which bits are used and when. Your owner therefore has the right to secure your genitals in any sort of chastity device of His choosing whenever He likes and for whatever period He likes.

Commandment #2. Your owner does not require any reason or justification to lock you in a chastity device. The fact that He wants to is reason enough. Whether you do or don’t want his to is irrelevant. You gave Him the right to make the choice for you.

Commandment #3. You may not attempt to remove or circumvent any device with which you owner fits you. You are obliged to co-operate with your owner in the fitting of the device, help Him in the securing of your genitals and draw His attention to any shortcomings in the functioning of the device so that He may ensure that it performs as He intends. An attempt to remove the device will and should be harshly punished.

    Commandment #4. You must keep yourself clean and well cared for so that the wearing of the device is not impeded on health grounds and you can continue to be locked up for as long as He wants. This includes submitting to prostate milking to keep you clean internally.

    Commandment #5. Your owner has locked up your genitals to deprive you of the ability to play with yourself, attain erection or orgasm. They are no longer for your pleasure: they are for His pleasure and enjoyment. You’re wants and needs are no longer relevant.

    If trying to get erect causes you discomfort, then don’t do it!

    Commandment #6. You are obliged to keep your owner informed of your experiences in wearing your device. You should look at and touch the locked up area regularly to remind yourself of what you used to be able to use and enjoy, which He has locked away from you. Let Him know how that makes you feel. He enjoys hearing about your suffering. If He does not, you will soon be fitted with a gag to stop your pathetic whining.

    Commandment #7. Your owner is entitled to tease you about your lack of ability to attain an erection or gain any satisfaction. He has taken it away from you and wants to enjoy his power over you. He can get satisfaction whenever He wants: you can’t. Tough. In future many of your duties will include giving Him such pleasure, whether through your cunt hole or your mouth.

    Commandment #8. He probably finds your lock up amusing. You are not entitled to have your neutered status kept secret. He may decide to inform your friends, boss, or family as he see fit, or just random strangers in the street. If He wants to show off your condition, He can and will.

    You are no longer a man, but a chastity bitch, you exist for His pleasure in whatever form He decides to take it in.

Commandment #9. Your owner is entitled to stimulate you by exposure to erotic material, direct contact or otherwise so that He can enjoy the fact you gain only discomfort, not pleasure from it. You will never touch your unlocked pathetic excuse for a cock again, from now you will be bound with your arms behind your back whenever you are unlocked for cleaning or to shave off the pubic hair. You will already be shaving the rest of you hair off on your own, He does not want to waste His time shaving the rest of you this is your responsibility, Fail to keep up with this duty satisfactorily will result in the loss of your eyebrows on a 1st offense and a following offense will result in a loss of all hair any where. Fail a 3rd time and this status will be made permanent.

Commandment #10. You should take pleasure in the fact that your owner takes the time to control the use of His property and happy that it gives Him some amusement. You should always thank Him for securing you in chastity and let Him know how grateful you are to have your genitals locked up under His control. You should always be happy if He decides to extend your time in chastity and tell Him how much you would like to continue to be locked and serve Him. Ask yourself do you want to be home alone sitting in front of your computer… jacking off alone, or down on your knee’s sucking His cock where you belong?

    How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

    1:  You  need to get into his head.

    -Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

    -Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

    -Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

    - Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

    -Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

    - Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

    2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

    - Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

    - You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

    - Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

    - Long term bondage

    - Corner time

    - Food restrictions

    - Writing standards/lines\

    - Write a book report or essay.

    - Ground him/take away privileges.

    - Wash his mouth out with soap.

    - Make him do anything he hates.

    - Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

    - Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

    3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

    - Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

    -Humiliate him often.

    - 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

    - If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

    - Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

    - Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

    4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

    - Talk sexy to him.

    -Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

    - Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

    - Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

    - Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

    - Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

    - Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

    - Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

    - Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

    5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

    -      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

    -      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

    -      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

    -      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

    -      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

    -      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

    -      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

    -      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

    6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

    - Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

    - Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

    - Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

    - Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

    - Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

    - Make him masturbate for You.

    - Slap him in the face.

    - Spit on him.

    - Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

    - Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

    - Talk down to him in front of others

    7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

    - If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

    - Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

    - Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

    - Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

    - Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

    - Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

    8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

    - You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

    - Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

    - Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

    - You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

    - Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

    9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

    - If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

    -  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

    -Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

    -  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

    - Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

    - If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

    -Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

    - By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

    -Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

    Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

    Found this list on tumblr and removed some and added some suggestion for an alpha on how to abuse a slave.

    • Sit back and make him suck your dick, nice and slow.
    • Train him to deepthroat your cock.
    • Fuck his face, balls-deep, like it’s a pussy.
    • Cock slap him.
    • Make him lick your sweaty balls.
    • Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car).
    • Spit on him.
    • Make him clean your sweaty ass after you work out.
    • Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
    • Piss on him.
    • Piss down his throat.
    • Piss in his ass.
    • Make him drink your piss from a glass.
    • Piss on a pair of underwear, or a jock strap, then wring it out over his face.
    • Finger his hole.
    • Fuck his ass.
    • Spank him.
    • Paddle him or whip him.
    • Fuck him with a dildo.
    • Tie him up and use his holes.
    • Smack or slap his face.
    • Call him names.
    • Tag team him with a buddy.
    • Gangbang him with a group of friends or strangers.
    • Whore him out to friends or strangers.
    • Make him sniff and lick your piss- and/or cum-stained underwear.
    • Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him.
    • Cum on his face.
    • Cum on his face and make him wear the load out in public.
    • Cum on his ass.
    • Cum directly down his throat.
    • Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog.
    • Organize a bukkake and cover his face with multiple cum loads.
    • Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock.
    • Cum on the floor or a table and make him lick it up.
    • Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass.
    • Cum on food and make him eat it.
    • Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo.
    • Flick or twist his nipples.
    • Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body.
    • Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store).
    • Piss on his underwear then make him wear them home.
    • Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet.
    • Don’t let him cum.
    • Make him ask your permission to jerk off or cum.
    • Make him eat his own cum.
    • Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch.
    • Make him watch while you fuck another faggot.
    • Position him beneath you while you’re fucking another faggot and make him lick your cock as it goes in and out of the faggot’s hole.
    • Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot.
    • Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him.
    • Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot.
    • Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass.
    • Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock.
    • Blindfold him when you use him.
    • Fist his hole.
    • Cum in his ass.
    • Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch.
    • Make him and another faggot fuck themselves on a double-ended dildo while you watch.
    • Make him lick your feet.
    • Use him as a footrest.
    • Make him give you a massage or footrub.
    • Take him to a bar; when his beer’s empty, refill the glass or bottle with your piss and make him drink it in public.
    • Make him pee at the urinal (e.g., at the movies, at the gym, at the bar) with his pants around his ankles so everyone knows he’s a faggot.
    • Shave his body.
    • Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
    • Save your piss in a bucket, and make him bathe with it.
    • Keep him in chastity.
    • Decide what he wears.
    • Make him wear a collar and leash.
    • Keep him in a cage.
    • Make him do domestic chores for you (e.g., laundry, cleaning, shopping).
    • Make him sniff poppers, then use him.
    • Make him wear a ball gag.
    • Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog.
    • Make him eat his meals out of a dog dish.
    • Make him service anonymous cock at a gloryhole.
    • Engage him in forced workouts.
    • Make him beg for your cock.
    • Feed him your pre-cum.
    • Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.”
    • Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole.
    • Make him lick you head to toe
    • Make him drink a bottle of your piss left somewhere in a public place and order him to tape it!
    • Go in to a club’s bathroomat the same time and order him to leave his half full glass of his cocktail in the toilet before you and add to the cocktail your piss, leave him the glass somewhere and order him to drink it in front of you.
    • Go to a public bathroom together and while standing in front of urinals make him put your head down to your urinal and drink your piss.
    • Make a video you raping him, cuming in his ass and forcing him to drink your piss and post it on tumblr claiming ownership of him.
    • Make him wear a puppy tail and take him for a walk outside.
    • Make him wear women’s lingery and fuck him like a whore.
    • Mummify him and fuck him in his mouth and ass.
    • Tie him up with chains or rope and let him sleep on the floor next to your bed.
    • Choke him while you fuck him in missionary position.
    • Pull his hair while you fuck him in doggy position.
    • Make him wear a collar showing your ownership in public.
    • Make him come to your work place and service you in anyway you need.
    • Make him wear a cock cage.
    • Make him wear ball weights.
    • Make him give you his social profile passwords to monitor his communication.
    • Make him raport sexual contacts with other guys.
    • Make him write an online diary of all sexual contacts and sub duties.

    How to Become More Passive as a Faggot

    You may have heard people preach the benefits of being assertive. While it’s definitely true that you should be able to articulate and defend yourself if you are in any sort of threat or danger, there’s something to be said for being the one who always lets others get their way.

    You won’t be seen as an angry, shrill, cunt and in fact will increase your potential for making others happy, avoiding conflict, and, most importantly, putting others (particularly Men) before yourself.

    If you are a passive person, it’s important to surround yourself with people you trust that can defend and stand up for you if necessary. That’s one of the reasons why finding a true Man to be your valiant white knight is so important for a passive faggot.

    Passivity is not a negative trait- in fact for faggots it’s an aspirational ideal that will prime you to become the perfect, moldable resource for a Man to please Himself with. I’m trying more and more to be as passive as possible and I encourage other faggots to be as well.

    Here’s my advice for becoming more passive.

    1. Realize it’s not about you

    It’s a big world we live in filled with many accomplished Men that are smarter, stronger, and more successful than us fags are. We’re really nothing special so quit wasting the energy on feeling entitled to things.

    I’m realizing more and more that by channeling the negative energy away from being upset over not getting my way I’m able to able to devote myself fully to more important things like skincare and exercise.

    2. Accept blame as the default

    We all make mistakes. Some fags more than others. While it’s true that sometimes you technically aren’t at fault when others are upset with you, often it’s better just to take the blame anyway.

    You’ll avoid making others even angrier, and then you can move on instead of just arguing. This will also make you easier it easier for a Man to discipline you when you take blame and adjust your behavior to His liking.

    3. Apologize more

    Saying “sorry” as often as possible shows others that you are not only kind-hearted and sensitive to their needs, but also a pushover. Men will find this adorable!

    4. Pick your battles (or don’t!)

    Only contradict someone if it’s an absolute necessity. Trust me, at least 90% of the time it just isn’t worth it. An argumentative faggot is really just a joke, so don’t get angry or pushy about anything.

    Better yet, depend on Men to do the confrontation for you.

    5. Keep your opinions to yourself

    Most people don’t want to hear a pushy faggot droning on about how it’s too cold outside or how their boss at work is an asshole. You’ll usually just come across as being whiny and a bitch.

    Just remember again that you’re nothing special and aren’t entitled to anything and move on. A Man with His true masculine intelligence will always have better standing to express His opinions.

    6. Accept the benefits of giving in

    You’ll be more well-liked, appear more approachable, but most importantly more easy for a Man to control. The more you learn to just give in to others, the more naturally submissive you’ll be!


    Required daily reading maybe?


    this will change your life.

    Ten Things a faggot Needs From a Dominant

              (The writing below is some of this faggot’s original content.)

    Ten Things a faggot Needs From a Dominant…

    • Rules
    • Structure & Routine
    • Consequences
    • Honesty and Trust
    • Proper Nutrition & Rest
    • Humiliation & Degradation
    • Chores & Responsibilities
    • Goals and Special Projects
    • Hard Use and Abuse
    • Assurances (A Second Chance)

    Thanks again to fistfuckgaygr for providing valuable insight into a few things a Dominant needs from His submissive creatures.  After reading fistfuckgaygr’s blog posting, this faggot thought it might be a good idea to compose a similar posting from a faggot’s perspective – this faggot’s perspective anyway.  And while BDSM activities are inherently grounded in a deep, dark sexual nature, this faggot also realizes there is much more to being a Man’s slave than simply serving Him sexually.  It is attempting to remember that important construct as it scribes this post.  Although parts of this writing do resemble sexual content, this posting was composed in a concerted effort and with the express intention to increase its quality of service to the Master.


    As a noun, RULES are “a set of explicit or understood regulations or principles governing conduct”. As a verb, the Master RULES His faggot when He “exercises ultimate power or authority” over that property.  Rules should be clear and understood by both parties. Rules not only define the expected actions of the sub, but they also serve to define the parameters of the relationship between a Dominant and His slave. It is an important dynamic for the faggot to be given clear and distinct rules which it is then expected to abide by and those rules should always lend themselves to making the Master’s life better.  

    Examples of rules may include:

  • Following proper protocol when addressing a Superior
  • Knowing when it may or may not speak freely
  • Responding immediately to orders and commands
  • Being home and completely available to Him (aside from work responsibilities)
  • Having to ask permission for anything/everything beyond its normal pre-defined routine
  • Without rules, faggots run amuck and gain ego, losing focus on what’s important to both parties.  And that is having the Master in charge – in total Control of the faggot. This quite simply, is what they both want.  So, the Dominant should always feel comfortable and secure in making Rules for the faggot to follow.  And likewise, the faggot should accept each new rule with a sense of gratitude for a Man who is willing to provide firm control and structure to its life. The more rules imposed upon the faggot, the better opportunity it has to improve the life of its Master.

    Structure and Routine

    As rules provide the framework for expected behaviors, structure is what gives those rules meaning. Structure is the organizational foundation on which a rich and dynamic relationship is built.  And without structure, a faggot is likely to wander aimlessly throughout the relationship never quite addressing the Master’s needs in an efficient and effective manner that enhances the quality of His life. Routine is the use of structure to develop patterns of (in) behavior that further guide the faggot’s daily actions. Routine equips the faggot with the knowledge and skill set needed to accomplish tasks at various intervals with a consistent degree of quality.  It’s important for the faggot to know what is expected of it and what its daily responsibilities are – structure and routine help the faggot learn the Master’s expectations and the parameters of its responsibilities in the relationship.  Routine (and structure alike) both provide the faggot with ample opportunity to study and learn from the Master and to carefully discern His likes and dislikes and sub-sequently respond appropriately to His daily needs and desires.

    Examples of structured routine might include:

  • Properly greeting the Master upon (either of T/them) entering a room
  • Maintaining a clean and orderly household for the Master – without being instructed
  • Preparing His morning coffee or other meals as He prefers them – without being instructed
  • Sitting in a particular spot when not directly serving the Master’s needs or desires
  • Waking up, addressing the Master’s day, going to work, returning home, addressing the Master’s evening, addressing the Master’s night, sleeping, wake up again…
  • Consequences

    For every action… there need not be an equal and opposite reaction.  However, there are (and will be) times when the faggot’s action(s) require some degree of corrective measure. When the faggot fails to follow the rules set forth by the Master, or when the faggot lacks structure and routine, this could result in the faggot falling short of its true potential.  It would therefore necessitate the firm hand of the Master to set the faggot back on the right track.  It may be something as simple as the Master looking down at it and saying “Excuse ME…?” Or it may be something requiring a more sub-stantial reinforcement of the structure and agreed upon rules. Such as putting the faggot in a particular physical and mental state where it can ponder its actions and why those actions were not appropriate.  Or – it might even be something that requires a more strict and rigid punishment in order to curb in-sub-ordinate behavior. “Spare the rod, spoil the child.”  

    A lack of discipline contributes to laziness which in turn leads to a lesser quality of service provided to the Master.  Even good boys need spankings sometimes to help them remember (a) Who is in Charge and (b) what the faggot’s role and purpose truly is in this relationship. And while every act may not require correction, there should be a well thought out Program of Discipline that the Master imposes upon His property.  Perhaps a point system where each violation incurs a certain number of points and when the faggot “earns a certain number of points” it is disciplined appropriately. Other times – the faggot’s actions may require a more immediate response, based on a multi-tier level of punishment depending upon the severity of the infraction.

    Examples:  Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Infractions may include (or exceed):

  • Level 1 – An attention commanding smack across the face…  
  • Level 2 – An unexpected and surprisingly powerful punch to the gut followed by some corner time for the faggot to reflect upon its     indiscretion
  • Level 3 – Binding the faggot and subjecting it to a more intense, rigorous and long-term beating coupled with repeated affirmations of what it did wrong and why it was wrong and what it will do in the future to improve its quality of service to and for the Master
  • Whichever level of consequence the Master feels is best suited for the faggot at the time of infraction and that will bring about the best positive outcome – He will decide. And the faggot knows that He employs punishment and other consequences only to help it become a better faggot for Him and to help it make His life better.  The ultimate goal of both Master and slave.

    Honesty and Trust

    Honesty and trust are the guiding principles that give the previous three constructs validity.  Much like fistfuckgaygr explained in the original post, trust is not earned overnight.  It requires complete and open communication, takes a long time to build and it is most definitely a two-way street. When it was younger (like a teenager) and worried about getting into trouble, the faggot would sometimes conjure up some mistruths in the hopes it could avoid receiving a punishment.  It soon realized that telling one lie would lead to another and eventually it couldn’t remember any of its stories. So many years ago, the faggot realized it was simply easier to always tell the truth – no matter what.  And it continues to practice that policy today.  As a faggot who, over the past several months, has been diligently “working to demonstrate its value and dedication and commitment to the Master in the hope that HE will decide to take ownership of it” the faggot has never shared a mistruth with the Master.  Ever.  Furthermore, if the Master is really in charge – He also has no need to lie.  About anything. Ever.  

    Trust is absolutely critical in a BDSM situation.  In another similar posting by fistfuckgaygr on what it means to be a slave, this faggot agrees that “Even a simple “white lie” can destroy the trust so necessary to really establish [and maintain] this type of relationship”.  This sense of complete and utter trust is even more critical when the Master wishes to subject His object to various forms of extreme acts of depravity.  Even after months or years of developing a strong sense of trust, one lie or mistruth can cause significant and unfortunate results.  Therefore, even “little white lies” are totally unacceptable.

    Proper Nutrition and Rest

    In order to fully serve the Master, the faggot should be fairly well nourished and should acquire a fair amount of sleep.  This is not for the comfort of the faggot as much as it is to ensure quality service is delivered to the Master.  You see, when a faggot gets overly hungry its blood sugar may drop.  And before it realizes it, the faggot has become somewhat of a cranky bitch.  Same principle applies for rest.  While everybody likes to sleep, especially on the weekends, a faggot (only) needs a fair amount of sleep in order to provide a level of high quality service to the Master. If the faggot is deprived of sleep (which by the way – is within the rights of the Master) then it again may become somewhat cranky and as a result, the quality of service and its usefulness is therefore diminished.  It’s really just about finding a balance between acceptable levels of deprivation and the quality of services required by the Master.

    Humiliation & Degradation

    When it comes to subjecting the faggot to humiliation, much of that is conjured up during sexual games. However, the Master should know that in addition to the Dominant fix He gets by humiliating a faggot, the faggot also internalizes much of that action beyond sexual means and accepts that type of treatment as part of the BDSM relationship.  In doing so, the faggot realizes, recognizes and accepts its position within this dynamic and it is because of the humiliating acts that the faggot learns to become submissive and to remain in a subservient position in relation to the Master.  There are many forms of effective humiliation including verbal, sexual, physical, psychological and emotional humiliation. Any of these types of humiliation can be employed at any time the Master feels like He needs to put the faggot back down in its place.  Faggots realize they innately respond with Respect for the Master when this occurs.

    The Master once asked, “I wonder what is the most depraved thing I can do to you…”  Like humiliation, degrading a faggot, whether during sexual acts or other times, helps to put it in its rightful place below the Master. In fact, humiliation and degradation oftentimes go hand-in-hand.  Forcing a faggot to engage in degrading acts (for the Master’s entertainment let’s say) can bring about a significant amount of humiliation upon the faggot.  These two constructs working together are highly effective in pushing the faggot to the depths of its own level of submission and free it to become a slave that follows orders and meets the Master’s expectations with increasing levels of quality.

    Chores & Responsibilities

    Faggots need to be kept busy when not engaged in direct service of the Master.  This is important for a couple of reasons.  First, it keeps the faggot out of trouble by not giving it the opportunity to run amuck.  Also, and more importantly, it provides the Master with on-going indirect service that helps to make His life easier.  By taking care of errands, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, grocery shopping (with proper permission to leave the house) maintaining a clean house, tending to other animals in the dwelling, etc., the faggot performs services for the Master much as a maid or personal assistant might provide. The key difference is that the Master doesn’t have to pay someone else to complete these services.  He owns the faggot and so He simply orders the faggot to take care of these tasks and the faggot does it.  The faggot views this kind of work as meaningful tasks that allow the Master to focus on other more important activities.  Activities which make Him happy.   And isn’t that what this is all about anyway?

    Goals and Special Projects

    In addition to routine chores and other responsibilities, faggots should constantly be working on a set of clearly defined goals as well as being assigned any special projects to work on during their spare time.  This sub-sequently provides the Master with additional pleasure or leisure time since He has passed the assigned task off to His property.  Goals might be physical or intellectual in nature. Things like making the faggot workout in order to tone its belly so it can therefore accept more direct and high impact abuse when the Master wishes to use it as His personal punching bag.  Goals might also include planning a trip for the Master (and slave) and being diligent in its work to ensure the journey will be both relaxing and enjoyable for Him.  Of course, finding new and exciting ways to honor and show Him respect is always a goal the faggot should be working on accomplishing.  Special projects might involve work around the house, preparing for a special event, conducting research on specialized equipment, tools and toys for the Master’s use and entertainment, taking care of any out-of-the-ordinary tasks to help make the Master’s life better and more enjoyable, etc. The length of time spent on special projects can vary depending upon the nature of the assignment as well as the depth to which the Master requires the slave’s services.

    Hard Use and Abuse

    It goes without saying that the faggot was born to serve a Man who captures it and to serve Him in all ways that suit His needs and desires.  And of course, that includes being the object of His desire – in other words – what that really means is the faggot is the subject of His abuse.   Whether engaged in a fun Saturday afternoon of sexual deviance or if the faggot simply opens its mouth one too many times when the Master is seeking some quiet solitude, He holds unmitigated Rights to treat the faggot as nicely or as sadistically as He enjoys at any given moment. While the faggot may beg and plead for mercy – and it may even cry out in pain (simply gag it), the faggot requires this significant level of abuse in order to frequently remind it of its true place in the hierarchy of nature.  It is there to serve.  Of course, on the flip side of things, the Master could also decide He wants the faggot around simply to provide Him with meaningful companionship – much like a pet – while allowing Him to continue His regular activities.

    Assurances (A Second Chance)

    Even with the best laid out Rules and forms of structure, all faggots fuck-up.  And as a result, all faggots require appropriate punishment and abuse when they do.  And as indicated above, that abuse should be MEANingful.  So, MEANingful that the faggot learns something from each lesson. And therefore it works harder and with more focus to please the Master and satisfy His needs and desires.  This is a very simple, but complex concept and after a good beating, the faggot should know in its heart that it was beaten because the Master cares for it and He wants it to be the very best faggot it can be.  Period. And while the faggot will always strive to do the best job it can, eventually something will occur that the faggot does (or does not do) that is considered a major infraction.  It may be so out of the norm for the faggot, that even the Master is surprised and has temporary fleeting thoughts of discarding the piece of property.  Please, please, please always give the faggot a second chance to demonstrate its adoration, commitment and dedication for the Master. And if the faggot has been beaten down to a point where it appears mopey, etc., just give it a bit of time to rebound.  Having a temporary mopey attitude is not a sign that the faggot dislikes its place in the relationship. It simply the faggot’s processing of (a) what it did wrong, (b) how disappointed it is in itself and © how it wants to do better for the Master. Every thought it has – be it good or bad, is always centered on the Master and what makes Him happy.

    Opportunity to Worship Him and Honor Him on its own accord

    Finally, the faggot is in this relationship because it absolutely adores this Man.  It looks up to Him naturally and with such a high degree of Respect and gratitude for what He has done and for what He will do in the future. It sometimes may feel the need (or innate faggot desire) to show homage to the Master –even before being ordered to Worship Him.  It is not the faggot’s sexual desire that is the driving motivation steering it to begin touching, rubbing, smelling, kissing or licking or sucking on the Master.  But rather, it is a method the faggot recognizes as a sign of admiration for the Master.  And it sometimes wishes to show that display of affection for Him without being told. (Unless of course, it goes against the RULES , then see the CONSEQUENCES section of this posting.)  Obviously, the faggot is learning there are also many other ways in which it can show the Master honor, respect and worship.  And it is working on improving the quality of service in which it demonstrates those characteristics, attitudes, thoughts and feelings. And while the faggot has attempted to write this blog posting from a place not centered in sexual activity, it realizes much of this narrative still emerges from sexually based underpinnings.  It recognizes, realizes, and accepts the fact that it still has a great deal to learn and it is so incredibly appreciative that it has someONE to train it properly.  And it looks forward to a life-long career of serving this Man.


    I like inflicting pain, suffering, and humiliation. I will train you to serve me. Your focus will be entirely on my pleasure. You’re a toy I own, control, and use however I want. It’s not up to you to decide how much you can take, that’s my job. What makes me different from many other doms is that, while I sometime enjoy using force to dominate you, I get turned on by knowing that you enjoy being my slave. You’ll beg for me to push you past your limits because you know it will bring me pleasure. That doesn’t mean that you will enjoy what I do with/to you. You may be compelled to pull away or push me off, know that I do not respond well to that. That is just your physical reaction to the discomfort, you must fight past that for me as I will pin you down and go harder. I will skull fuck you, gag you, humiliate you, choke you, have you suck me for long periods of time (even while I'm soft), impact play (spanking, whipping, punching, slapping, kicking, flogging, etc.), have you clean my hole, go multiple rounds, spit on you, work your balls (slapping/ball busting), have you worship me, bite your nipples, tie you up, stretch your ass open. I often use electro, clamps, toys, belt, whips, flog, collar, rope, chastity/cock cage, etc. While ultimately up to me, I am open and can get into other pervy/kinks things that turn you on. If you beg me. I enjoy making my boy cum, if they’ve earned it. Sessions can often be long (some sessions last over 24 hours), intense, and athletic so you must be strong and have incredible stamina. I am looking for another laid back guy with a good personality, who can take orders and be affectionate to please me. Be open to trying all sorts of kinky naked activities and open to forming a deep connection. You must have very few/no limits without hesitation or resistance. Whatever I want, whenever I want. You’ll need to have enough experience that you know this is what you want. If you cum once and suddenly you’re no longer ‘in the mood’ then this is not for you. I need a pervy boy bitch who knows his place and who has an insane sex drive. I am clean, neg, and discreet. What happens and what you share can stay between us. Straight? In a relationship? It's all good. Your gender and sexual orientation does not matter to me. I am also open to connecting with couples and like minded doms. I’m particularly fond of other bi/pan guys. I know what I like and what I need. And I am a man that demands nothing less. I am not always hard, rough, and aggressive. But I have found it is hard to find a compatible partner if I am not upfront and honest about what I want/need. I can also be gentle and affectionate too. Nothing is sexier than holding you, tasting your tears, while I express how grateful I am for you submitting to me after an intense long session. I am open to interviewing perspective boys, before we even meet there is a rigorous process, to make sure you are ready to submit completely. You will learn what I desire and expect of you. I will learn about you, things that very few people know. Honesty is important to me. I will not lie to you and you do not lie to me. If all this is too much for you to start off, that is not necessarily a deal breaker but you must eventually be capable of what I need. If you’re not serious about fully submitting, I don’t want to waste our time. But know, so many fantasies could come true if you submit completely. You will call me Master, Daddy, or Sir. I am looking for something ongoing, if we click. We’ll start with a day then a weekend then more and more. We’ll develop trust, respect, and well rounded relationship (become bros, hangout, cuddle, etc.) but when I snap my fingers you’ll be kneeling at my feet ready to be used no matter what. I’m not asking you to give up your life or job outside of our relationship, simply to commit in a deeper way than most other relationships. You must be prepared to follow my rules and orders, submitting not just physical but also mental.


    This document is not a legally binding contract, this document is intended to structure the consensual relationship between Master and slave and to define boundaries, goals,  and expectations of both parties involved. The contract can be rewritten and revised as the relationship changes, new goals are needed or either party feels that a revision is necessary. In the beginning stages of the relationship there will be a probationary period where Master(s) and slave will sit down to do an evaluation every 3 months of the first year and every 6 months in the 2nd year to determine the progress, goals met, and evaluate how the relationship is working for both parties. In this evaluation both parties can either revise the contract or terminate contract (see termination of contract section)

     slave’s Affirmation

    slave affirms that it is signing this contract of its own free will without pressure or coercion of any kind, that it is of sound mind and body and is not under the influence of drugs or alcohol. slave further affirms that it fully understands the meaning and implications of this contract and explicitly requests it be enforced in full, and at all times, as defined below for the duration of the contract. __

     slave understands that it will be used for sex as a sex slave, financial domination where the Master(s) will control all money and assets, as a domestic slave completing tasks for master at any property master chooses, and also as a pain slave for bondage and punishment sessions that will be real, inescapable, and may also be severely painful. __

     slave understands that it will not be permitted to wear any clothing when serving master regardless of location (where socially and legally acceptable) unless master decides otherwise__



    slave requests that no third party group, individual, organisation or body interfere in any way to prevent slave from fulfilling its obligations of servitude and obedience to Master as defined in this contract and for the full term of the contract.


      Section 1 : Expectations of the Master(s)

    1.     The master accepts the responsibility of the slave's body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The master agrees to care for the slave , to arrange for the safety and well-being o f the slave , as long as they own the slave. The master also accepts the commitment to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, punish the slave, love the slave, and use the slave as they see fit. Masters must be honest about all expectations of slaves, emotionally, physically, and mentally.

    2.     Housing, food, bills, clothing, and hygienic products may fall under the responsibility of the Master(s) as determined by the Master(s) prior to the signing of this contract.

    3.     Other non essentials such as (but not limited to) cars, allowance, travel expenses, etc. will be given as reasonable accommodation should the need arise.

    4.     Master(s) will respect all hard limits discussed prior to the signing of this contract.

    5.     Master(s) must explain any and all punishment when given especially when given for a specific reason. This will happen after the punishment is completed. This requirement is so that the slave can learn and grow from his mistake and not make the same ones again in the future. Master(s) must make sure the slave completely understands why a punishment is being given, even if it is just because the Master(s) feels like it.

    6.     Master shall be required to give aftercare after any session in a manner that is suitable to the play session and its intensity.

     Section 2: Expectations of Slave(s)

    1.     The slave agrees to submit completely to the Master(s) in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave's veto (see section 3) applies. The slave also agrees that, once entered into the Slavery Contract, their body belongs to their master(s), to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the slave's possessions likewise belong to the master, including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as they see fit. The slave agrees to please the master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said master(s).

    2.     Slaves will be fully honest about all mental and physical well being when prompted by Master(s). This includes during play, while serving, and any other situation the Master(s) deems it important to know such things. There will be no repercussions to the slave for sharing the well being whether positive or negative. Slave(s) will also share when they desire to experience new things, and do not need the prompting of Master(s) to share this.

    3.     Slave(s) will be required to keep a daily journal. This journal is a space for a sub to explore and explain the inner workings of its mind during its day to day service. This journal will be fully accessible to Master(s). The Master(s) may not punish for the things written in this journal. This journal is a safe space for the slave(s) to understand themselves and their service better.

    4.     Slaves will not pursue new partners, lovers, Doms, or Masters without the expressed permission from the Master(s).

    5.     Slaves will be required research weekly about submission and Domination. They will record things in their journal that they are interested in trying or would like to learn more about.

    6.     Slaves must learn what the term “sub drop” is prior to signing this contract. Slaves will not be allowed to sign this contract until they can fully describe what it is and how to avoid it.

    7.     The slave will seek to learn how to please the Master(s) better, and will gracefully accept any criticism in whatever form the Master(s) chooses. The slave renounces all rights to privacy or concealment from the Master(s). The slave will answer truthfully and completely, to the best of the slave's knowledge, any and all questions the Master(s) may ask of the slave. The slave understands and agrees that any failure by the slave to comply fully with the Master(s)'s desires shall be regarded as sufficient cause for any punishment the Master(s) deem appropriate.

    8.     The slave agrees to take all the experiences that occur during the enslavement, as a chance to learn and grow, and use them to improve the service to its Master(s).

    9.     The slave unconditionally accepts, as the Master(s)'s right, anything the Master(s) may choose to do with the slave, whether as punishment, for the Master(s)'s amusement, or for whatever purpose the Master(s) desire, no matter how painful, unpleasant, or uncomfortable to the slave.

      Section 3: slave’s Veto

    The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the master, at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both master and slave:

    A.    Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave .

    B.    Where said command may cause extreme damage to slave's life, such as losing their job, causing family stress, etc.

    C.    Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm to the slave.

    D.    Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past

     Section 4: Rules for Slave

    1.     Slave should always remove clothing as soon as he gets home unless Master(s) has laid out clothing for the slave to wear.

    2.     Slave should fold clothes neatly or place them in the laundry whenever he gets undressed.

    3.     The slave is to kneel in present posture whenever the Master(s) is due to arrive and wait quietly.

    4.     Whenever the Master(s) is present in a room, the slave must ask permission to enter in the following fashion: “Would it please you if your slave entered the room.”

    5.     The slave will kneel in the room until the Master(s) gives permission that he may move or proceed with cleaning.

    6.     The slave will wear and gratefully accept any toys the Master(s) chooses to insert or adorn him with while cleaning or in any other circumstance.

    7.     The slave will not speak unless spoken to and may request an opportunity to speak if there is something pressing to discuss during those periods of time when the Master(s) commands silence.

    8.     The slave may request an opportunity to serve the Dominant in the following way: “Would it please you to have your slave serve you?”

    9.     The slave does not sleep with the Master(s)  unless it is the express wish of the owner and then this must be seen as a privilege. It can be taken away as a form of punishment.

    10.  The slave will always thank the Master(s) for an opportunity to serve whether it was doing a chore or being flogged.

    11.  The slave will keep their eyes averted while being punished. While being given a command or verbal reprimand, the slave will look the Master(s) in the eye to acknowledge understanding.

    12.  The slave will address the Master(s) not by their first name, but by the title preferred by that dominant

    13.  Punishment and or discipline take precedence over any other command.

    14.  A slave must show gratitude for punishment and or discipline.

    15.  A slave must take correction gracefully and maintain a grateful presence around the house after the fact.

    16.  A slave must confess to disobedience and take responsibility even when the Master(s) is not present and beg for punishment and or discipline.

    17.  A slave must always maintain the punishment position in these cases.

    18.  The slave must be available for sexual service whenever the Master(s)t or his approved guests require it

    19.  The slave must always be ready for any form of sexual service, which would mean that his body must be prepared in order to make it easy for the dominant or guests to use him or her.

    20.  The slave will not be allowed to have an orgasm without permission.

    21.  The slave will shave any body hair and maintain this at all times. Failure to do so will result in punishment.

    22.  The slave will be clean and pleasant to all the senses at all times.

    23.  The slave is not allowed to touch himself without permission in a sexual manner.

    24.  Slave will always address its Master(s) as Sir in public

    25.  When in public with the Master(s) the slave is to show respect to the Master(s) but the slave may act in a relaxed manner. What the relaxed manner is will be discussed prior to the outing.

    26.  The slave will please whomever the Master(s) deem is appropriate. The Masters will never put a slave into danger in this regard.

     Section 5: Appearance

    1.     A Slave shall be expected to follow all “normal” day to day hygienic practices.

    a.     Brushing teeth twice a day

    b.     Wearing deodorant

    c.     Showering at least once a day

    2.     A slave must be hairless from the neck down, all other hair will be determined by the Master(s). To be hairless the slave must shave. If it is determined that a slave must be waxed, then the Master(s) will take on this financial responsibility.

    3.     A slave will be expected to have a daily “uniform.” this includes:

    a.     Collar

    b.     Chastity

    c.     Jock Strap

    d.     Shorts will be provided when a slave needs to answer the door

    4.     A slave’s outfit for outside of the home will be chosen and provided by the Master(s). It will be socially acceptable for the situation that they are going into.

    5.     The Master(s) hold the sole right to change a slave’s appearance. This includes hair style, muscularity, clothing, and beard length.

     Section 6: Daily Duties

    1.     Cleaning of the house (apartement) as set forth by Master(s)

    2.     Dishes

    3.     Meal Prep

    4.     Grocery Shopping

    5.     Laundry

    6.     Yard Work

    7.     Have breakfast prepared

     Section 7: Punishment

    The slave agrees to accept any punishment the master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.

    Rules of Punishment

    Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm. Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:

    1.     Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn

    2.     Burning the body

    3.     Drastic loss of circulation

    4.     Causing internal bleeding

    5.     Loss of consciousness

    6.     Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time

      Permanent Bodily Harm

    Since the body of the slave now belongs to the master , it is the master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should the slave so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:

    1.     Death

    2.     Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.

    3.     Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave .

    4.     Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave .

    5.     Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave .

    6.     Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases

     Section 8: Hard Limits

    A hard limit is something that must not be done. Violating a hard limit is often considered just cause for ending a scene or even the Master/slave relationship. Hard limits will always be respected by Master(s) and slave(s) as long as they are discussed before signing this contract. This contract cannot be signed by either party unless these are discussed

      Master Matt’s Hard Limits

    1.     Scat

    2.     ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Love)

    3.     Women

    4.     Children

    5.     Animals

    6.     Snuff

    7.     Drugs

    8.     Severe body modifications

    9.     Broken Bones

    10.  Feminization/CD/Sissification


                 Master Joe’s Hard Limits

    1.     Scat

    2.     ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Love)

    3.     Women

    4.     Children

    5.     Animals

    6.     Snuff

    7.     Drugs

    8.     Severe body modifications

    9.     Broken Bones

    10.  Feminization/CD/Sissification

    11.  Pain (giving or receiving)

    12.  Blood


    Slaves Hard Limits

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      Section 9: Exercise

    The slave will be required to maintain a physique that is pleasing to his Master(s) and will change to accommodate these desires. The slave shall be required to exercise every day to a routine that is put together by Master(s) or a person they deem suitable to this task (i.e. personal trainers, etc.). Reasonable accommodations will be given for pre-existing illness/injury but a slave will be required to work to the fullest of their abilities and may be put through forced workouts.

     Section 10: Hierarchy and Communication

    The Hierarchy of the Master(s) house goes as follows:

    1.     Master(s)

    2.     boys/Alphas

    3.     subs/pups

    4.     Slaves

    The level of communication will be different for each level of the hierarchy. Slaves will always show respect to those higher then them. They will be given the appropriate titles for each member of the household so they may call them by the proper term.

     Master and slave acknowledge that each brings into the relationship their past experiences, and their own values and personalities. Master and slave agree that personal responsibility is necessary and desirable within the relationship. Thus, Master and slave agree to be responsible for their own emotional reactions, to deal with their own issues without undue fuss, and if these issues cannot be resolved personally then to talk about these issues with each other -- but not assign blame for the issues or for causing the issues on each other. (Example: If Master says something that deeply hurts slave emotionally, and slave cannot resolve the internal issue alone, slave shall bring the matter up with Master and ask for assistance. Master shall not take responsibility for the emotional pain, but will take responsibility for saying what he said -- and will communicate with slave so that slave will feel supported in dealing with the emotional pain.)

     Master and slave acknowledge that a relationship can only be based on honesty and integrity, tempered with humor, warmth, and trust. Thus, all communication between Master and slave shall be open and honest as much as possible, with the intent of causing as little emotional, mental, or other harm to the other party as possible. (If there is something to be said that is unpleasant, it shall be presented in a manner that is respectful to the other party's feelings, as much as possible or warranted, given the circumstances.)

     Master and slave agree that the other is worthy of respect, and that one of the foundations of Master's and slave's relationship is the respect that they hold for each other. In the event that this respect is ever lost, there is no hope for the relationship to continue, and thus Master and slave agree to not do anything that may cause a loss of respect in each other's eyes.

     Master and slave further agree to trust that the other is committed to the relationship, and committed to not causing harm to either themselves or the other. In light of this, Master and slave agree to constantly reinforce that trust as much as possible and desirable without being disrespectful of the other.

      Section 11: Secrecy

    All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both master and slave agree (i.e. collar.). Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.

     Should both parties agree upon it, the relationship can be shared on social media (tumblr, etc).  With prior discussion of this contract, the photos and videos taken while a slave submits are property of the Master(s) and are free to be used as they so choose.

     I __________________________________________ give the Master(s) permission to use my photos in the following ways on social media:            __ How ever they so choose

               __ My body can be shown but not my face

               __ A case by case basis with the photos and where they are shared

               __ Not at all


     Section 12: Drug and Alcohol use

    The Master(s) household has a strictly enforced no drugs policy (unless prescribed by a doctor). Slaves will be allowed to drink with the permission of the Master(s) but not to the point of drunkenness.

     Section 13: Safe Word/Soft Word

    A safe word is a word used only in a situation where the the slave cannot handle the situation he is in. This is not to be used except for in extreme cases where the slave is in danger of bodily harm. If it is used to an excess, the slave’s position will be reevaluated. (This is a condition known as "control via safeword", and is not acceptable in any situation.)

    Safe Word: _______________________

     A soft word is used in a situation where a slave may be getting close to their limit but they do not want the scene to end. This will inform the Dom of their mental/emotional/physical state and be able to make determine the best course of action. Whether that is to end the scene or continue and help them push through the limit.

    Soft Word: ________________________

     Section 14: Financial

    Any forms of finances shall fall under the control of the Master(s), this includes any financial wealth and assets that the slave may have prior to signing this contract. Within a week of this contract being signed, the slave must add the Master(s) name(s) to any and all bank accounts and other forms of finances. All finances shall be discussed before the signing of this contract. This includes financial wealth, assets, debts, etc.

     Slave will be required to be a contributing members of the family if the masters are not at

    a point in their lives that they can fully support a slave. 100% of slaves earning will be turned over to the Master(s) for complete control to do with as they wish. Ex: pay bills, provide food, buy new toys, etc.

     If a slave comes into this relationship with debt, that debt must be discussed with Master(s) prior to signing this contract. This debt will be discussed and decided upon on the responsibility of the Master(s) in relation to this debt.


    The slave shall be given a monthly allowance to spend as they wish without asking permission from the Master(s). This allowance however can be cut back or taken away at any time by the Master(s) as punishment. Monthly allowance shall be set based on family income. At the time of the signing of this contract, that monthly allowance is $___


    Master(s) shall set up a financial account for slave in order to allow slave to have funds to start over shall Master(s) and slave decide to go their separate ways in a mutually agreed upon situation. This will consist of ten percent of any and all revenue that sub/slave generates while working outside the home. Said account shall require two signatures to withdraw funds.

      Any goods slave buys for Master or any goods it brings into Master’s home for Master’s personal use or for His use on slave will remain Master’s property at the lapse, termination, breach or transfer of the contract.

      Section 15: Legal

    A General Power of attorney shall be signed to Master Matthew Bushey so that control of the finances and assets will remain under the control of Master. If this contract is terminated, the General Power of Attorney will be returned to the slave.

     A Medical Power of Attorney (or Proxy) will be signed to Master Joseph Geyer by both Master Matthew Bushey and the slave. Scenes of this nature can be physically taxing and stressful. Should either party be unable to make medical decisions, Master Joe will make these decisions based on previously discussed wants and needs (i.e. life support, etc.). Should this contract be terminated, the Medical Power of Attorney shall be returned to slave.

     Slave shall not bring a lawsuit against the Master(s) during or after the extent of this contract for things defined within this contract. (i.e. physical pain, confinement, financial repercussions). The Master(s) in turn shall not bring any lawsuit against the slave for the things defined within this document.

      Section 16: Equals Now

    Master and slave acknowledge that their needs and desires in a relationship are paramount, and thus may at any time call a session of renegotiation as equals if they feel their needs are not being met (or incrementally moved toward). This is a very serious request, as it is essentially "safewording" the relationship, and must not be done lightly. This renegotiation may be accomplished by saying to the other, "Equals now, please," with no supporting words or address mannerisms. The responding party shall take this as a sign of serious breach of the letter or spirit of this agreement, and react accordingly (in most circumstances, immediately ceasing any and all other activities going on at the time to focus on the problem identified and communicated by the distressed party). In the event of Master calling “Equals Now” slave shall discuss this with the understanding that a defining need of Master is not being met, and shall commit to cooperatively finding a resolution to the problem and implementing it. In the event of slave calling Equals Now, Master shall discuss the problem with the understanding that slave feels that continuing on the course that Master has set will run contrary to fulfillment of slave's needs, and will cooperatively find a resolution to the problem and implement it.

     In the event this second calling of “Equals Now” does not accomplish the needed result, the distressed party may suspend the Master(s)/slave portion of the relationship for 72 hours (to be implemented as in-house separation), during which time Master and slave agree to work, as equals, towards finding workable solutions to the lack of fulfillment felt in the relationship by the distressed party. If this does not work, either party may terminate the relationship without rancor, as the needs that drive the relationship cannot be met.

    Limitation of Equals Now: In deference to the fact that having “Equals Now” called is a very stressful action (it should ONLY be used in the event of a destructive breakdown of the relationship), if either Master or slave call “Equals Now” for no less than 3 things that are deemed frivolous or unimportant (things that are not deep, abiding needs for the person who is distressed), the responding party may choose to terminate the relationship with prejudice, as the essential trust placed in the other party shall have been breached. (This is a condition known as "control via safeword", and is not acceptable in any situation.)

           Section 17: Alteration of Contract

     This contract may not be altered, except when both master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.

     Section 18: Termination of Contract

     This contract can be terminated in 2 situations. 1. Should both parties come to agreement during an evaluation that the relationship is not working for either party and there is no reasonable way to fix it. 2. Either party breaches the terms of this contract.

     Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery, except this contract (contract will be held onto for 1 year after service), will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings given to the slave during service shall belong to the master , to be shared or kept as they see fit. The slave owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the master, shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the master decides to give back their possessions (excluding the 10% savings and any possessions/assets/wealth agreed upon before signing this contract. These will be determined on a slave by slave basis.)

     Section 19: Survivability

     In the event that this agreement is terminated, Master and slave agree that they still have a responsibility to each other. Specifically, in the event of a termination, there will undoubtedly be some bad feelings whether they be guilt, anguish, anger, pain, or anything else. Thus, Master and slave agree that they will strive to be supportive of each other as much as possible even if it means not having any contact with each other for a while. It is hoped that the relationship that is forged will never lead to a dissolution of friendship, but as nobody can predict the future there can be no guarantee that this hope will come to pass.

                Slave's Signature

    I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand that I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and honest and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my master to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract except as stated in this contract

     Print Name:___________________________   Date: __________________


     Master Matt’s Signature

    I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

     Print Name:___________________________   Date: _____________________


      Master Joe’s Signature

    I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

     Print Name:___________________________   Date: ___________________



    This section is to only be used in the situation that this contract is terminated.

    Slave signature: _________________________________  Date: ______________

     Master Matt Signature: ____________________________  Date: ______________

     Master Joe Signature: _____________________________  Date: ______________

      Reason for termination:


    Educated, sane looking to own slaves in person but I'm also always looking for cyber slaves to give directions to. I'm rough, needy, and aggressive. I'm not always punishing my slaves and sometimes I show affection but only after its earned. I want a tight slave, I don't care if it hurts you when I stick it in. You should get the pleasure out of knowing that I'm being pleasured and from nowhere else. Not one drop of my cum is wasted, its your reward for taking my cock. I'm 100% in charge and superior no matter the location. Punishments will be carried out to the end, no stopping for any reason, including tears; an already bruised ass from previous punishment is not excuse to not be punished again. Into: chastity CBT TT anal play (the more extreme, the better) electro flogging whipping (I have a single-tail for extreme punishment) spanking (paddle, belt, brush, cane, hand, spoon) edging (blue balls) gags (ball gags should be inserted fully, not resting on the lips) muzzles clothespins hot wax blindfolds chains bondage (the more restrictive, the better) forced workouts (I have a home gym with weights and other machines) watersports (I would ideally like to train you to drink my piss) much more Your "uniform" is as follows: "Dungeon"-usually naked, sometimes a jockstrap House-jockstrap usually, sometimes tight underwear Public-street clothes, approved by me, I'll take you shopping for a new wardrobe if need be, I want a good-looking slave I will not meet up the day you first contact me. I want to know we're not wasting time so we'll need to talk beforehand because the master/slave relationship is a strong one but a hard one to conquer. If you're looking for a one-night stand or a weekend thing, this isn't for you. -------------------------------------------------------- 1. The faggot is born to obey, serve and worship Men. 2. To that end, faggots are kept in chastity as well as Male-supervised and controlled Cock denial. (Faggot is very lusty. therefore, orgasm and Male Cock access under control equals faggot under control. Simple formula.) This chastity and denial trains up Respect, Adoration, and Worship for Men in faggot's mind. And keeps faggot eager to serve Men nicely. (This normally takes gradual training and can be done with or without device.) 3. Men are more intelligent than faggots, and the faggot does not ever disagree with a Man. If it does, discipline is applied to bring faggot to the proper consciousness. 4. Every faggot has the inborn need to be under the full control of a Male. There is no other life for the faggot. Faggot is kept under the control of Men in all respects and is trained up to a consciousness of pleasing Men. 5. Faggot is stripped down at all times in the presence of Males, while Males are clothed. This communicates the subordinate and degraded position of the faggot before Males. 6. When any Male enters the room, faggot must bow down naked and offer obeisances at the feet of the Superior Male and ask how it can serve the Male. Faggot also bows down each time it renders a service to a Male. In return for full surrender, the Male provides protection and supervision for the well being of the faggot. Note to slaves and submissives: You must have the humility FROM THE BEGINNING to address me as Sir and reply Yes Sir as a PROTOCOL. That is the proper protocol between prospective slaves and prospective Masters. Do not contact me if you're not able to be humble, patient, and respectful.


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    75 Ways to Humiliate a faggot slave

    Humiliation is an important part of every faggot’s training. When a Man humiliates a faggot, He’s teaching him humility (a faggot must remain humble and not allow his ego to get in the way of his ability to serve and obey superior Men), respect (a faggot must learn to show appreciation and esteem to superior Men) and obedience (a faggot must learn to cede all control to superior Men). Plus, it’s just plain fun to embarrass or shame a faggot sometimes — and faggots exist to amuse as much as they do to serve.

    Unfortunately, faggots have very little shame. Therefore, it can sometimes be difficult to imagine new ways to humiliate them. With that in mind, I’ve created the following list of 75 ways for Men to humiliate Their faggots. Go forth, Men, and have fun playing with your subs!

    1.    Forbid from entering Your apartment on two legs – he must always drop to all fours and crawl in.

    2.    Make him kiss Your feet as soon as he sees You and just before he leaves You.

    3.    Forbid him from wearing clothes in Your home – Your faggot slave should always be naked in Your presence.

    4.    Every visit to Your home should begin and end with You paddling his naked ass.

    5.    Make him wear a butt plug and send him to the gym to workout — ensuring that he changes and showers in the locker room with the butt plug still in.

    6.    Cum on his face or in his hair, then send him out to run errands for You; make it clear that he’ll be severely punished if he returns and You discover that he’s wiped the cum off.

    7.    Call or text him at will and order him to piss his pants and send You a picture of it. If You do it when You know he’s out in public — at a bar, perhaps, or on the train during their evening commute home from work — even better.

    8.    If You choose to feed him, always serve his “dinner” in a dog bowl and make him eat it kneeling like an animal on the floor next to You while You sit and eat Your dinner at the table like the Man You are.

    9.    Make him serve as a piece of furniture — a footrest, perhaps, or a coffee table on which people can set their drinks — during Your next party.

    10. Make him address You as “Sir” in public. He should already be doing it in private, but addressing You that way in public will take Your power dynamic to a whole new level.  To kick it up yet another notch, make him call You “Master, Sir.”

    11. Outfit him with an ashtray mouth gag and station him on Your patio for smokers to use during Your next get-together.

    12. Spontaneously order him to jerk off to completion in front of You or others while locked in chastity; punish him if he doesn’t complete in a specified period of time.

    13. Forbid him from using the restroom for the day and make him wear a diaper, instead. Let him know you’ll be inspecting the diaper later, so he’d better make use of it.

    14. Make him beg permission to use the bathroom; if approved, forbid him from standing at a urinal – he must always sit and sit directly on the porcelain bowl.

    15. Require that he always keep the door wide open when he’s using the bathroom at home.

    16. Perform an unannounced strip search and/or cavity check in an unexpected time or place — out at a bar, for instance, or in the parking lot when You’re out running errands.

    17. Piss or cum into his food; make him eat it while You watch.

    18. When out in public, forbid him to walk in front of You.

    19. Lock him in a cage naked during Your next party and let Your guests ogle at him like a zoo animal.

    20. Make him give himself an enema while You watch.

    21. Make him use the urinal in a public mensroom with his pants around his ankles; or, if he has to shit, make him do so in a stall with the door wide open.

    22. Make him wear a leash and collar in Your presence. Or, even better, out in public.

    23. Forbid him from making eye contact with You.

    24. Forbid him from using furniture at Your house.

    25. Handcuff him in places like gay bars.

    26. Make him kneel in a public restroom with the word “toilet” written on his forehead.

    27. Lock his cock in a chastity device.

    28. Lock his cock in a chastity device, then make him change at the gym, the swimming pool, the beach, etc., with the cock cage on.

    29. Make him service a set of number of Your Friends with video proof that is submitted to You before he can be released from chastity.

    30. After months in a regularly sized chastity device, make him wear a smaller one so his dicklet shrinks even more.

    31. Scold him like he’s a little boy.

    32. Reprimand him in public when he does something bad.

    33. Spank him in public.

    34. Make him wear a T-shirt out to gay bars, sex clubs or similar that says “i’m a faggot,” or “slave,” or “pussyboy,” or “cumdump.”

    35. Put him in a timeout, standing naked in the corner facing the wall for a period of time.

    36. Spit in his face especially if it’s a loogie and make him keep it there to dry. Forbid him from wiping it off. Bonus to do it in public and he is forced to wear it all day.

    37. Take him to the bathhouse with messages like “breed me” or “i drink piss” or “cocksucker” written all over his body in permanent marker.

    38. Next time he’s eating Your ass, rip a fart in his face.

    39. While lounging on Your couch, push Your underwear down around Your ankles and make me lay on the floor with his face in there.

    40. Next time You take a dump, take Your finger — or even Your turd itself — and wipe a streak of shit on his upper lip. Demand that he wear Your shit mustache there all day.

    41. Make him eat things out of Your ass.

    42. Make him sleep on the floor next to your bed, instead of in the bed.

    43. Train him to sleep in restraints, locked in a cage.

    44. Slap him. Hard.

    45. Pee next to him at the urinal when You’re out and about; turn and face him so that You piss on him instead of in the urinal. Laugh, and make him walk around with Your piss all over him.

    46. Make him wipe Your ass for Your. Either with toilet paper, with his hand or with his tongue. All three are extremely humiliating.

    47. Give him an enema and then take him on a walk around the neighborhood with it still in.

    48. Whenever You need to use the toilet — at home or in public — escort him in with You and make him lick it clean for You so you have a pristine place to relieve Yourself.

    49. Clip a clothes pin to his tongue and make him say “i am a faggot” 10 times until he’s drooling all over himself.

    50. After you fuck him, hose him off with Your Piss.

    51. Make him approach a stranger and “confess” something dirty and embarrassing. Like, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i like to sniff Men’s asses.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and my cunt is filled with cum right now.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i drink piss.”

    52. Make him make animal noises for You on command: “Bark like a dog!” Or, “Meow like a cat!” Or, “Show me what sound a pig makes!”

    53. Make him clean his cunt every time he shits. Pre-mix a cleaning solution for him to use — Your piss, perhaps, mixed with some dish soap — and store it in a spray bottle labeled “fag bath” or “cunt cleaner.” Make him display this cleaner next to the toilet in his home, where any guests are sure to see it.

    54. Take him into a photobooth and make him pose for pictures with Your cock in his mouth, then walk away and make him leave the pictures for the next patron to find — not knowing who will find them or what they’ll do with them.

    55. Make him approach a stranger at a bar, in a bathroom or at a sex club and beg for their cock, piss or cum.

    56. Make him clean Your apartment – to further humiliate him, make him wear a bra and panties.

    57. Train him to be Your urinal.

    58. Force him to cook dinner for You and Your Friends, and then be Your waiter.  Make sure that he’s on his knees at Your side, ready to serve when needed.  To add to the humiliation factor, make him buy the food, take orders and clean the dishes/kitchen.

    59. Make him service Your feet with his mouth – especially if Your feet are dirty.

    60. Force him to service Your friends when They visit Your home.

    61. Make him wash You, shower You, towel dry You, etc.  his shower will consist of Your Piss.

    62. Strap a dildo to his face and have him fuck You until You cum.

    63. When you allow the faggot slave to serve You or give him the training he deserves, charge him for it – make him pay You for the opportunity to be in Your presence.

    64. Photo and film the faggot slave when he serves You and post the files on a site dedicated to his humiliation.

    65. Make him drink Your piss, kneeling at the trough in a men’s room; let Your friends know that he’s available for urinal service.

    66. Require that he massage Your body until You are properly relaxed; punish him if does not make You fully relaxed.

    67. Put a blackout hood on him after you place an ad for free blowjobs on craigslist – force him to suck off any of the ad respondents and film it.

    68. If You wake up before Your faggot, wake him up by farting directly into his face/mouth.

    69. If Your faggot wakes up before You, instruct him to wake You nicely by licking Your feet seductively, then service Your cock to completion.

    70. Instruct your faggot to buy You a rim seat – then make him rim You for hours while You play video games, watch movies, etc.

    71. Make Your slave do Your laundry.

    72. Make him sit on dildos while You watch and laugh at him.

    73. When out in restaurants together, order his meal for him – make sure it’s low calorie and small portioned while You order a full meal.  Make him pay.

    74. Attend festivals such as Dore, Folsom, Wet n Hot as a slave – naked, hooded, collared, plugged and chastised.  Amp up the humiliation by removing the hood.

    75. Make him wear chained nipple clamps like a woman.


    This list gets me so worked up every time i see it.


    Yeah - there are several good ideas on this list that have real impact to a faggot.


    Some excellent ideas but I always say the most important thing is to know what humiliates Your faggot. Many of these I would love and not find particularly humiliating, some I would love eg. 11. Others would mortify me eg. 56. Good reason to work Your way through the list and see what works best so it can be repeated time and time again!