@m--shea
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2020-01-29 04:34:35
    fawnstarflare

    This is how I already keep my toys @dragonflyfawn, @sextoy, and @playtoystarflare. These toys are used to it for a long time now. However judging the toy by its words of desire and longing, I imagine I can entice @hedonistfucktoy into one of my storage cases.

    I love the detail of this lovely drawing.

    hedonistfucktoy

    I do love fucktoy storage. Being put away until useful.

    another-filthy-toy

    Oh, this is beautiful!

    jgfuhfhjjfhh-deactivated2021052

    Sir, may I ask you a question? Why are you so mean to your slaves? I'm not a slave but I know my Daddy loves me lots and don't get me wrong! He does punish me when I'm bad but it seems like you are punishing your salves and don't love or care for them at all I am sorry if I bothered you with my questions Sir - Mikey

    It comes down to a question of what turns you on. We use the broad term “masochist” to describe someone who finds sexual pleasure from pain, and “sadist” for one who finds sexual pleasure from inflicting pain.

    That would be the stock answer to questions of this nature, but human nature is not at all so simple!

    It’s not simply the infliction of pain, but rather the intent behind it, from which sexual titillation springs. It is a great mixture of attitudes and dispositions which coalesce into the more broadly defined kinks we use in our nomenclature.

    For example, there are some who crave being humiliated, being treated like shit, even being told they are worthless, and being made to endure humiliations that reinforce this status.

    There are others who crave the helplessness of being forced to endure torture at the hands of a sadist, for no other reason than that he wants to do it to her for his own pleasure. It’s the very fact that her negative reactions only reinforce his will to continue, and that she’s powerless to stop it that makes her quivering and wet.

    Still others crave being physically controlled. Grabbed by the hair, thrown around, slapped, dragged, drugged, bound, and violated. The very primalness of such an attack is what turns them on.

    Physical control can even take a slower pace. There are those who wish to be physically restrained at all times. This can go from wearing handcuffs as much as possible, all the way to being locked in a dungeon forever, with no chance of escape.

    And at the “lighter” end of the spectrum are those who just want to be told what to do, those who want to be hypersexual in a world that deplores such things, those who crave the pleasure of serving others, and those who crave the structure of a power relationship.

    The base cause for all of these aspects (and most people will get off on more than one aspect) is an emotional need, both on the part of the sub and of the dom. The sub craves the emotional fulfillment of a particular aspect, and the dom seeks the satisfaction of fulfilling it in another.

    You have “good daddies” who care for a little like a child, nurturing (often in an infantilist fashion), cherishing, even punishing when necessary. You have “bad daddies”, who create an “abusive” parent-child relationship. The former fulfills a missing love component; the latter a latent trauma that they feel compelled to address at a primal level.

    You have the creepy psycho and the victim who wants to be devoured by him. You have people who suffer from heavy anxiety at the massive choices forced upon them by the modern world. You have “brats”, who often are testing to see at what point their love will be betrayed by someone in power.

    In short, you have humanity, in all its beauty and ugliness.

    We form these relationships not to start or continue a cycle of abuse, but rather as a catharsis, or even a counter to a world whose weight is just too oppressive for some. Once your brain gets wired a certain way, you won’t ever be satisfied in a relationship until the conditions of that wiring are fulfilled. And that can take a number of forms that many people would find shocking, perhaps even horrifying.

    But it’s important to remember that we engage in these activities by CHOICE. We are functioning adults, and it is our prerogative to choose the lives we wish to live.

    kittydenied

    It has been decided that if I want to have my pussy used at all, it needs to be trained as thoroughly as my other holes.. :)

    So, now I have a special new toy!(http://www.minnalife.com/products/kgoal

    This toy is intended to be used by vanilla people for kegel exercises.. But has been repurposed by Sir to train and objectify his slut’s holes. He says that if he bothers to take my belt off, it better be worth the hassle. ;)

    How it works: The big part goes in my pussy, and when I squeeze it, it vibrates. The harder I squeeze- the more it vibrates (yay!).. And if allowed- the handle can be toggled on and vibrate for clitoral stimulation (double yay!).

    This toy has bluetooth and an app for my phone, and can record  how hard I’m squeezing. It fits under my metal belt, and you can still hear the vibrator depending on how hard I squeeze. 

    I can already imagine some scenarios where I’m muzzled, locked up, and unable to communicate except for making noise with the vibrator. I can also envision some tasks where I’m not allowed to squeeze at all. Sooooo much fun to be had!

    My only complaint is that it’s kind of a big toy for me and somewhat difficult to get all the way in my pussy. Thankfully, I can deflate it a little, and its pretty soft. 

    I’m sure this will not be a standard part of my uniform because I’m WAY too excited about it.. :)

    femsubdenial

    This sounds (and looks) awesome! I love the idea of this toy! I hope you give plenty of updates on it’s use!

    beautyinperversion

    Something about this tantalizes me and turns me on. I do have quite a few fantasies around chastity, and I suppose those are at the heart of this: the idea that if I am just a series of holes owned by someone else, they may also decide to plug up those holes as they see fit. I might not like it, but I have no choice. I have no rights to my body any more, it is his, and he can do whatever he likes with his property. It does look nice, though.

    I think the other part that gets me is how it’s metal, locked on and seemingly permanent. Goddess, I’d love to have cuffs permanently closed around my ankles and wrists, just a modification to a toy for better, easier use. Mmmmm.

    jgfuhfhjjfhh-deactivated2021052

    how many do you keep?

    The most I’ve had at once is two. More than one slave actually presents a whole slew of challenges and headaches. Your attention is divided, which brings problems of neglect. Furthermore, you have to deal with jealousy issues, which may or may not be solvable, depending on the people involved. Honestly, I don’t know how the sheikhs managed…

    I’m not saying it’s impossible, but I’m in it for the long run, so I’m not interested in something that will fall apart after a few months or even a few years.

    My current thinking for a successful mix, although I haven’t done this, would be to have one “love slave”, who has explicit, preferred status, and then one “object slave”, who finds fulfillment in being nothing more than an object for others (including other slaves) to use. Someone who would be perfectly content with being locked away for days at a time and essentially forgotten, except for feeding and other bodily functions.

    As for now, I have one slave under consideration, and I might consider an “object slave” once I have more space (or maybe just keep her in the cage most of the time?)

    Decisions, decisions…

    m--shea

    This is much the same that my s and I have considered, for when we go about trying to find a second. Except not nearly so extreme as keepingher, here. 

    No offense is meant, but different strokes for different folks, and we’re not going to be looking for someone who wants to be objectified to that level. On the bottom tier? Absolutely. Just...not that far.