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    sex-and-metaphors

    she literally tried to deal drugs to the cops I just.. fucken.. WHAT 

    chyna-ros3

    He didn’t arrest her he warned her it was illegal….. Warned !!!!!!! Wtfffffffffffffffffff

    m--shea

    I’m not at all denying that white privilege exists, but I can’t help but wonder how much of this was because she’s an attractive woman, rather than her race. 

    gingah-ninjah

    Seriously tho Did everyone just conveniently forget that James Deen is a rapist or wtf…????

    the-ladythc

    Yeah I’m getting real tired of seeing his shit on my dash. Esp when people post his rape fantasy porn. And it’s always women I see reblogging it. Like “look at this rapist pretending to rape someone on camera,” fuck I don’t want to see that…

    mirahxox

    I HATE rape fantasy to begin with but like People I follow are working with him and I’m like ??????????? WHY???????? Why would you work with a promote a rapist?? Fuck that.

    the-ladythc

    Yeah it honestly blows my mind that he’s still doing porn. He should be ostracized from the porn community, what the hell…

    mirahxox

    I completely agree ESPECIALLY by other GodsGirls, I feel like.

    And I’ve seen a few people be like “but he’s so attractive” and I’m like …….and????

    juicy--kitty

    He also wasn’t stripped of his 33 nominations and was visiting the Adult Entertainment Expo where Stoya was supposed to host a panel on consent but she opted out on going (wonder why) so the consent panel was cancelled as well. It’s really disheartening that there hasn’t been enough repercussions for what he’s done, even though from mostly what I’ve read he can’t get a contract with any other company so he’s only really left to work with his company now so I guess there is that??????????? But he still won two awards out of the 33 and everyone is just okay with someone who’s been a predator on many content creators is still being allowed in the community and at expos.

    m--shea

    I’m honestly unsure if it’s the right thing to do, but my current mindset can be summed up as: he’s a terrible person, and he’s not getting a penny of my money, but why should I let the fact that he’s scum get in the way of otherwise great pornography? I just shift my focus and mentally blot his face out of the scene, as with any number of other distracting and distasteful details in pictures. 

    I don’t know, perhaps I’m just rationalizing.

    mirahxox

    Well first of all you should be paying for all of your pornography so this doesn’t really work at all? Secondly, I don’t know how you rationalize porn as “great” if it involves a rapist.

    m--shea

    @juicy--kitty: Fair enough.

    @mirahxox: I suppose that I should have clarified. I do not go out and pirate pornography--all of the porn that I was referring to is on Tumblr. I’m having trouble finding a phrasing that doesn’t sound defensive or pissy, but generally speaking, people do not pay for porn that is posted on Tumblr (unless you want content behind paywalls, commissioned stuff, etc.) so if I reblog posts that have him in it, it does not feed him money. Do you object to all of the free pornography posted on Tumblr? As for your second point, I said “otherwise great,” as in, “I’m quite enjoying the picture until I notice his face.” Again, I’m having trouble with non-aggressive phrasing, but I was pretty explicitly saying that the pornography is great except for his presence. (Also, I’m human. We can--and do--rationalize all sorts of crazy and stupid ideas. Just look at America’s current political clusterfuck. That doesn’t make it okay, hence my uncertainty above, but it does make it more understandable.)

    gingah-ninjah

    Seriously tho Did everyone just conveniently forget that James Deen is a rapist or wtf…????

    the-ladythc

    Yeah I’m getting real tired of seeing his shit on my dash. Esp when people post his rape fantasy porn. And it’s always women I see reblogging it. Like “look at this rapist pretending to rape someone on camera,” fuck I don’t want to see that…

    mirahxox

    I HATE rape fantasy to begin with but like People I follow are working with him and I’m like ??????????? WHY???????? Why would you work with a promote a rapist?? Fuck that.

    the-ladythc

    Yeah it honestly blows my mind that he’s still doing porn. He should be ostracized from the porn community, what the hell…

    mirahxox

    I completely agree ESPECIALLY by other GodsGirls, I feel like.

    And I’ve seen a few people be like “but he’s so attractive” and I’m like …….and????

    juicy--kitty

    He also wasn’t stripped of his 33 nominations and was visiting the Adult Entertainment Expo where Stoya was supposed to host a panel on consent but she opted out on going (wonder why) so the consent panel was cancelled as well. It’s really disheartening that there hasn’t been enough repercussions for what he’s done, even though from mostly what I’ve read he can’t get a contract with any other company so he’s only really left to work with his company now so I guess there is that??????????? But he still won two awards out of the 33 and everyone is just okay with someone who’s been a predator on many content creators is still being allowed in the community and at expos.

    m--shea

    I’m honestly unsure if it’s the right thing to do, but my current mindset can be summed up as: he’s a terrible person, and he’s not getting a penny of my money, but why should I let the fact that he’s scum get in the way of otherwise great pornography? I just shift my focus and mentally blot his face out of the scene, as with any number of other distracting and distasteful details in pictures. 

    I don’t know, perhaps I’m just rationalizing.

    clubjade

    Star Wars is not here for your armor misconceptions. In a response that’s getting some digital ink, the official Star Wars page’s reply to a clueless comment on Phasma’s armor. Just say no to actually dangerous boob-plates!

    thatsthat24

    I love this.

    m--shea

    It’s a shame that the character didn’t live up to this.

    fapforworldpeace-deactivated201

    I have a thing for Keira Knightley so her being topless in September's issue of Interview Magazine is great for me. Yes I like small tits just as much as I love big tits. I just love tits period. Well not man tits

    m--shea

    And one more in color:

    Keira Knightley:

    "I don't mind exposing my tits [on screen] because they're so small — people really aren't that interested."

    Silly people, maybe. Embrace all body types. 

    ctron164

    stayingwoke:

    cassandrashipsit:

    rudegyalchina:

    rebelliousrebe:

    majestic-peanut:

    macgruberrr:

    charismablu:

    abundancechild:

    source:

    The following statistics come from the people atAre You Interested, one of the largest Facebook-based dating apps. The AYI app is a lot like Tinder. It allows users to browse, message, and tell other users if they like them or not. The AYI data team have been measuring user interaction and some of the results pertaining to race are really interesting:

    Data shows that singles searching for love are finding it outside their ethnic groupAYI.com, a leading online dating app with over 70 million installs, analyzed over 2.4 million interactions among its current user base in the United States to discover the likelihood of users to respond to other users based on race.

    abundancechild:

    source:

    The following statistics come from the people atAre You Interested, one of the largest Facebook-based dating apps. The AYI app is a lot like Tinder. It allows users to browse, message, and tell other users if they like them or not. The AYI data team have been measuring user interaction and some of the results pertaining to race are really interesting:

    Data shows that singles searching for love are finding it outside their ethnic groupAYI.com, a leading online dating app with over 70 million installs, analyzed over 2.4 million interactions among its current user base in the United States to discover the likelihood of users to respond to other users based on race.

    Thoughts?

    I’m sick

    Black women get the most shit from Anti-Blackness and misogynoir is in every race of people.

    Originally posted by realitytvgifs

    The irony of every woman in the world wanting to look like us , act like us but some how we get no play?

    Lmaaaooo ASS BACKWARDS AS FUUUCCKK LOL!!!

    I need people to think loooooong and hard before they come up with some “it’s just my preference” bullshit without examining the social structures and power that indoctrinate you in your preferences.

    The only thing that bothers me about this chart is that black women are out here preferring black men when black men aren’t even checking for us.

    SAME !

    m--shea

    This is really fascinating information.

    But let’s say that someone does not prefer African American women. Let’s also say, because it does seem likely, that our cultural racism is to blame, for--at the very least--valuing non-African American features. What are they to do now? How plausible is it to try to change their preferences? It can be done, but how well would it work?

    sub19671969-deactivated20160517

    If I am to command you, you will need to prove your worthy. To prove that, you will need to get a Kik account, or text me. Now I don't care how you text or Kik me, or even email me, but you must contact me in one of these means. Text is 253-242-5281, Kik is bacarian123, and email is monty_97355@hotmail. I don't get on tumbler that often and when I tell you to do something, I expect it done. Or I will punish you. Do as I command, and I will treat you right. I am a generous master

    Ha ha ha! Really? This may work on some subs but I refuse to be controlled or manipulated by a complete stranger.

    darksideofthemoon49

    Fuck me…..some people just DON’T get it, do they!? The unfortunate thing is that there’s likely to be some poor sub somewhere, who’ll fall for that shit!!! 😕

    droolbritannia

    What a fucking douche! He’s about as much as dom as my pet cat. That as really really angered me.

    m--shea

    This looks like a job for @toodomforyou.

    ecstagesis01-deactivated2016070

    Listen, please.

    It is possible to be a (femme/female) sub without fetishizing essentialist notions of male superiority. You do not have to buy in to that. This does not have to be about gender roles or inherent gendered nature or any of that - frankly - bullshit, and if you honest to god believe that it does, please unfollow me now.

    Stay sharp, ladies.

    subgirlygirl

    Whoa. Looks like someone needs a very thorough over-the-knee spanking. By a man. In a suit. With callused hands. Who might allow her to leave on her apron if she promises to cry extra pretty for him…

    ecstagesis01

    Drawing gentle attention to the irony here - how do you expect anyone to respect your relationship and choices if this is how you treat theirs?

    You do not have to buy into universal male dominance in order to appreciate, desire, or participate in D/S relationships. I do not honest to god give a fuck what you do in your own bedroom, but trying to represent it as an apolitical best or neutral ideal is shortsighted at best and outright destructive at worst.

    Make your choices, but make them for you. Leave the other seven billion men, women, and others - in all their infinite idiosyncrasy - out of it.

    m--shea

    Holy fuck this. 

    Though, unless I’m drastically misremembering my blogs, that would basically have to be satire or joking for subgirlygirl to say that...

    slavekate-deactivated20150908

    Slave spirit is a strong spirit - born deep within every woman is the desire to tap into their true self. Put your face down, lift your ass in the air and experience the peace of becoming your true self.This is who you are.

    Sisters - this is who we are.

    oxirane

    ❤️

    m--shea

    I know that slavekate has deactivated her account, but to respond to anyone who would read this:

    It very heavily implies that all women are submissive, at some level. This is frankly untrue, and moreover is an actively harmful belief. 

    Plenty of women like to dominate, and many more don’t have strong preferences one way or the other. Everyone’s entitled to their own choices, and should be allowed to seek happiness however they desire. Trying to fit everyone into one mold brings only pain. 

    jenn-d

    Do these old conservative republican dudes think women take the decision to have abortions lightly and just get them all willy nilly? The way they talk about abortion makes it seem that way.

    m--shea

    Honestly? Yes, many of them do. I’ve had young males and a middle-aged woman tell me the same thing as well. 

    I mentioned all of the physical consequences, even aside from any mental ones, and they didn’t care. It’s rather baffling. 

    muffinass

    and in that moment, the entire movie theater burst into tears

    death-limes

    i think this was the moment that made most of us despise umbridge more than voldemort

    castielcampbell

    most of us?! don’t you mean ALL of us?? I don’t think even Voldemort liked this bitch!

    mlletimelord

    No one likes Umbridge.

    iminmypants

    I heard, one time, a dementor kissed her and IT died

    oldfuckingsport

    Voldemort committed genocide, but Umbridge dared to be female while she abused her power. 

    all-four-cheekbones

    The point isn’t that Umbridge was worse than Voldemort; it’s that everyone hates her more. And I think it has nothing to do with her being a woman and everything with being the sort of cruel most of us have actually experienced.

    I mean, look at Voldemort. He’s basically Wizard Hitler, which is, obviously, an incredibly terrible thing to be. But most people—especially the younger people in Harry Potter’s target audience—have not had their parents murdered by a xenophobic cult leader. Nor have they fought for their lives against giant snakes, been kidnapped for dark rituals, or watched numerous friends die in front of them. Voldemort’s crimes are numerous, but they’re distant and fantastical, like hearing about a serial killer on the news.

    But they have had that one teacher who inflicts extra punishments just because they don’t like you. They’ve complained to parents and authorities only to be ignored. They’ve sat through pointless classes and been silenced when they criticize. Umbridge is that teacher we all hated because she made our lives miserable and we were powerless to stop her. And as we grow out of school, there are still people in positions of power who act like her. The manager who denies your schedule requests and penalizes you for invented infractions. That customer who complains to corporate because their scam didn’t work, and the corporate decision to listen to their story. Cops performing illegal searches because they know you don’t have any proof.

    Yes, torturing and killing numerous people is worse than terrorizing a handful of schoolchildren, but Voldemort is the bad guy in a fairy tale. Umbridge is personal.

    beccabummie

    *drops the mic*

    fuchsimeon

    Voldemort is the villain we never hope to face.

    Umbridge is the villain we face every day.

    relahvant

    thank you all-four-cheekbones some people on this website need to realise not everything is a matter of sexism or gender discrimination omg

    sazquatch

    Yeah forget all this bullshit. Snape was abusive, and petty, and small. He was a villain of the sort we are faced with in schools, in hospitals, in the workplace. He was genocidal. He was discriminatory, and he took pleasure in expressing cruelty towards those he didn’t like, and elevating pupils he favoured. That is relatable, and common in unpleasant people we have to deal with in our everyday lives. Despite all of that, half the fandom fawns over him because he was in ‘love’ (more like pathetic, selfish infatuation), anyway whatever. We are expected to forgive him, to find him a hero. We are expected to think he’s brave, when he was an abusive liar. The point is, the fact the whole fandom hates Umbridge, but gives Snape a free fucking pass, proves that yes, this is about sexism. This IS about how female villains are demonised far more than their male counterparts. This IS about misogyny, and this is a problem. So shut the fuck up with your dismissiveness.

    nankingdecade

    I respectfully disagree with the feminist interpretation. Umbridge is such a despicable villain not because she’s a woman who dared to abuse her power, but because of the banality of her evil. She is the Eichmann to Voldemort’s Hitler, the petty bureaucrat who makes genocide possible. We discover that she is motivated not by ideology (Voldemort) or revenge (Snape), but by institutional loyalty. We can almost imagine her defense before she’s sent to Azkaban for her crimes against humanity: “I was just following orders.” That is infinitely more terrifying than a mopey middle-aged man who hasn’t outgrown his emo hair.

    m--shea

    I’ll add an entry from somebody else before my own words, even if I dislike the language in the last line:

    justsjwthings

    It might also be due to the fact that we are only told about the horrible things Voldemort has done: Umbridge does all of them onstage, making sure you hate her. We are told what Voldie does, but we are SHOWN what Dolly does. PS the one who tortured Neville’s parents into catatonia and insanity was Bellatrix Lestrange, who is probably the most popular of all the Death Eaters, besides Voldemort herself: most of her villainy (her treatment of the Longbottoms, her torturing Hermione) was also offstage and we are only mostly told about the horrible things she has done: hell the narrative doesn’t even say that she was the one who murdered Tonks (another thing Jojo revealed in an interview afterwards, apparently no one has ever told her to show not tell). But please, tell me how the only reason to hate a woman ever is because she has a cunt, not because she is one.

    As for my own view:
    Snape is given redeeming situations and qualities, he’s a pathetic bully but (assuming that the memories presented to us are true) he’s a bully that works hard on the side of the light. Umbridge is given none of that, none at all, and in fact she’s set up to be brutally gang-raped by centaurs by Hermione, who later mocks her for it and then giggles over her traumatic flashback, all of which is played for laughs.

    They’re both terrible people, but their treatment and presentation by the author herself is very different. Don’t just blame the public for taking in the lesson presented in the book.

    bimbosminder

    Since you are tipsy: If you could choose different effects that different alcoholic beverages have on a dummy, what would they be?

    I apparently drank more than I thought because I’m having trouble understanding this question.  But if you’re asking what I think you’re asking…  When I’m drinking, I get this well-spring of confidence just in general.  And confidence can be sexy, so that’s a start.  And I’m gonna share a story.  When I was a freshman in college (I only really partied hard in the freshman year.  Its hard to party hard when you got thirteen pages of linear algebra problem sets) I got fucked up, krunk, whatever.  And I woke up in the wrong dorm without a shirt on. So alcohol can lead to people taking off their clothes.

    And I’ve got a huge hard-on for public nudity.  Like maybe my biggest turn-on behind mind-control/bimbofication.  So ideally, my ideal bimbo would be the girl gone wild when she’s drinking who loves the attention.

    likethemsoftanddumb

    I was thinking

    gin->dumber

    brandy->exhibitionist

    beer->easy

    rum->sleazy

    whiskey-> experimental

    Vodka-> flip sexual orientation

    etc etc.    then you could mix-up combinations, and conCOCKtions that have more complicated side effects. 

    bimbosminder

    oh, that makes sense. I did have quite a bit of gin tonight.  Gin is doing the lion’s share of the work tongiht. I’m gonna save this, ‘cause when I’m sober, this might work for a story.   Though obviously, for a story, the one that makes ‘em dumber should be water, so the girl has to make a choice.

    bimbosminder

    Or shit, is that too dark?  Whenever I’m slightly out of it, my mind goes to the dark places.  I swear, there’s like a monster in me that is always looking to get out.  Like, remember like two weeks ago when I was saying that I came up a story idea that scared me?  IT was the original draft for the story about the girl on the phone that I posted earlier this week, right?  And the original draft idea (which was only like two sentences long), the girl didn’t work at a customer service line, she worked at “crisis hotline” which was my only note.  And that shit is fucked up.

    m--shea

    I wouldn’t worry about having dark thoughts. We all have them at times; there’s no shame in just having ideas that stray outside of acceptable limits. What matters is how you act on them. 

    You know, if you are still worried about this after…the better part of two years. 

    submissivefeminist

    Gross things my psychiatrist said today:

  • “You don’t think you’ve gained weight?”
  • Two partners? Oh, is this a polygamy thing? That’s a fad now, you know.”
  • “So, it’s not threesomes?”
  • “Did you do this so you’d have one on each coast?”
  • “This newer person–he’s not serious, though, right?”
  • “So you don’t have a concentration problem anymore? Were you lying when you said you did six months ago?”
  • (January 29, 2016)

    girliegrrrl

    I really hope and wish there is someone else @submissivefeminist can see in this capacity. I would have been MORTIFIED to hear these things and have left a practice before because of them. Some people should never interact with others as a provider. This is why all mental health providers undergo my short but very telling questionnaire when I see them the first time. What bullshit.

    m--shea

    @submissivefeminist: What the everloving fuck. Please say that you have the option of finding somebody else. This is unacceptable. Especially the comments that aren’t about poly--what the hell is their excuse for being so terrible about those?

    @girliegrrrl: Questionnaire? Consider my interest piqued. Would you care to share it?

    baby-pig-deactivated20160526

    When Daddy has to work away but makes his friend drive you to work and pick you up again cause it’s too stormy and he wants you to be safe 🙈

    baby-pig

    So he picked me up again and was waiting at the front door at my work and delivered me to Daddy’s house safely 🙊

    m--shea

    Sorry, I guess I’m a bit confused. 

    Do you normally walk to work?

    fuckyeahnerdpr0n

    whelp, I can now turn off the internet, I have seen everything

    eldritch-elegy

    He also wore sweaters because of tattoos I believe he got in the Navy.

    mu5icliz

    All this time i thought he was the image of suburbia. Turns out he’s more street than i am

    m--shea

    Aaaand this is entirely wrong. You can check out this page for more details, but here are some highlights (including a video explaining the above gif for those who don’t bother checking the link):

    Not only did Fred Rogers never serve in the military, there are no gaps in his career when he could conceivably have done so. He went straight into college after high school, he moved directly into TV work after graduating college, and his breaks from television work were devoted to attending the Pittsburgh Theological Seminary (he was ordained as a Presbyterian minister in 1963) and the University of Pittsburgh's Graduate School of Child Development. Moreover, Fred Rogers was born in 1928 and was therefore far too old to have been a draftee during the period of America's military involvement in the Vietnam ground war (1965-72) and too established in his career at that point to have run off to enlist.

    Fred Rogers never served in the military, and he bore no tattoos on his arms (or any other part of his body). He wore long-sleeved shirts and sweaters on his show as a stylistic choice, in order to maintain an air of formality with youngsters. Although he was friendly with the children in his viewing audience and talked to them on their own level, he was most definitely an authority figure on a par with parents and teachers (he was Mister Rogers to them, after all, not "Fred"), and his choice of dress was intended to establish and foster that relationship.

    [the pictures of Mr. Rogers flipping off the audience are] actually screen captures from a harmless moment in 1967 when Fred Rogers led some youngsters through the familiar children's song "Where Is Thumbkin?," which is traditionally accompanied by participants' holding up the corresponding fingers as they are each named in the song:

    ticklishlilmiss

    New Year's Edging

    Hey guys! Starting tonight, every ask I’ll edge to before the clock strikes 12 New Years Eve. If I can’t finish them, we’ll figure out a punishment for me c; Messages and submits do not count but I’ll reply still.

    Asks on Christmas will be worth double~ Make them good!

    femsubdenial

    Until the end of the year, @ticklishlilmiss will edge multiple times (up to ten, she said) if you ask her to. ;-)

    m--shea

    Up to ten at a time, that is…how interesting.

    At the time of writing this post, she’s at 147 edges. 

    Let’s add to that, shall we?

    m--shea

    At last check, almost 24 hours ago, she was up to 691 edges. It doesn’t even seem possible at this point...

    So who wants to add to it further?