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    sanescientist

    Tiegan sighed as she sat by the hotel room window and pressed play, sliding the earbuds into place.

    “Good morning, slave. I hope you slept well. This morning, we’re going to start by discussing your underwear…”

    She smiled and felt herself go blank for His instructions. Underwear was beginning to feel like such a strange concept…. If it wasn’t lacy or crotchless or edible, it wasn’t much use to her Master. She hooked her fingers into her thong and slid it down, caressing her soft, smooth mons as she listened to His silky voice change her thoughts…

    Artist Commentary:

    Patchouli's slave life

    Please enjoy Patchouli, forced to do all sorts of things to pay for taking care of her overly long hair, rent, and utilities.

    I've been drawing nothing but work-safe stuff since the end of last year, so it just exploded out of me.

    decius-c

    The enchained slave girls were helpless exposed to the endless screams and moans from next door. That gave them an impression of what was awaiting them, one after another, when the master has finished punishing their fellow sufferer. In future, they would hopefully make every effort, not to disappoint their customers again.

    via sarpedom

    keepingher

    Once a slave took Your collar, would there be sessions where she was equal to You (maybe once a month or something similar) where both of you could have honest discussions about your feelings (especially if something was truly hurting her)? And would You free her once you were sick of her, or would You try to talk to her and fix things like equals? And would she ever be released because she wanted to be, not because You chose to free her? Or would You never free a slave ever?

    Everyone does this differently, but this is how it works with me:

    I have very few explicit rules (only about 10 ground rules). Everything else is divided into to core values, devotionals, protocols, and rituals.

    A core value marks a default frame of mind that she must remain in at all times (for example, her entire purpose is to serve, obey, and please her master in any way she can).

    A rule covers some specifics of how I want her to behave (for example, she is not to pleasure herself without my permission).

    A devotional is something for her to meditate upon as she performs her duties (for example, “My greatest pleasure is knowing that I have pleased my master”).

    A protocol is similar to a rule, but covers behavior and rituals in general. They are as follows:

    High:    Speak only when spoken to. Full formality.    Complete attention and focus, no matter what the distractions.    Absolute and instantaneous obedience, without delay, hesitation or question (except to clarify).    No extraneous movement, speech, or thought.    All privileges are suspended.    Every move, answer, and behavior is being carefully scrutinized and judged.

    Medium:    Speak only when spoken to, or to request. Semi-formal.    Respectful words and tone, and deferential behavior.    Awareness and anticipation of Master’s needs, wants, and desires.    Similar to how a butler would behave.    For Master or kink-friendly guests.

    Low Formal:    Speak freely, but always be respectful.    Service in an unobtrusive fashion (service to Master and hospitality for guests).    For non kink-friendly people.

    Low:    Speak freely, even if it’s a little disrespectful.    Add a little silliness and fun.    Teasing is OK, but keep it civil.

    Free Talk:    Say anything without consequences.    For use only when something cannot be solved at any other level.

    Medium is the default protocol, except when I give the order “drop” which requires high protocol. Any other protocol will be by my designation, or as the situation requires (for example, when non kink-friendly people are present).

    So if things started going very badly, such that even low protocol isn’t enough for her to say what she needs to say, I’ll invoke free talk, and we’ll work it out.

    Whether things work or not depends on how compatible we are in the long run. Some people just can’t agree on all core principles, and that’s perfectly fine. In fact, a huge part of the relationship is discovering where we work, where we need work, and where it will never work. If we find a show stopper that absolutely cannot be fixed, it only makes sense to end the relationship and set her free rather than both remaining unsatisfied.

    keepingher

    Sir, may I ask you a question? Why are you so mean to your slaves? I'm not a slave but I know my Daddy loves me lots and don't get me wrong! He does punish me when I'm bad but it seems like you are punishing your salves and don't love or care for them at all I am sorry if I bothered you with my questions Sir - Mikey

    It comes down to a question of what turns you on. We use the broad term “masochist” to describe someone who finds sexual pleasure from pain, and “sadist” for one who finds sexual pleasure from inflicting pain.

    That would be the stock answer to questions of this nature, but human nature is not at all so simple!

    It’s not simply the infliction of pain, but rather the intent behind it, from which sexual titillation springs. It is a great mixture of attitudes and dispositions which coalesce into the more broadly defined kinks we use in our nomenclature.

    For example, there are some who crave being humiliated, being treated like shit, even being told they are worthless, and being made to endure humiliations that reinforce this status.

    There are others who crave the helplessness of being forced to endure torture at the hands of a sadist, for no other reason than that he wants to do it to her for his own pleasure. It’s the very fact that her negative reactions only reinforce his will to continue, and that she’s powerless to stop it that makes her quivering and wet.

    Still others crave being physically controlled. Grabbed by the hair, thrown around, slapped, dragged, drugged, bound, and violated. The very primalness of such an attack is what turns them on.

    Physical control can even take a slower pace. There are those who wish to be physically restrained at all times. This can go from wearing handcuffs as much as possible, all the way to being locked in a dungeon forever, with no chance of escape.

    And at the “lighter” end of the spectrum are those who just want to be told what to do, those who want to be hypersexual in a world that deplores such things, those who crave the pleasure of serving others, and those who crave the structure of a power relationship.

    The base cause for all of these aspects (and most people will get off on more than one aspect) is an emotional need, both on the part of the sub and of the dom. The sub craves the emotional fulfillment of a particular aspect, and the dom seeks the satisfaction of fulfilling it in another.

    You have “good daddies” who care for a little like a child, nurturing (often in an infantilist fashion), cherishing, even punishing when necessary. You have “bad daddies”, who create an “abusive” parent-child relationship. The former fulfills a missing love component; the latter a latent trauma that they feel compelled to address at a primal level.

    You have the creepy psycho and the victim who wants to be devoured by him. You have people who suffer from heavy anxiety at the massive choices forced upon them by the modern world. You have “brats”, who often are testing to see at what point their love will be betrayed by someone in power.

    In short, you have humanity, in all its beauty and ugliness.

    We form these relationships not to start or continue a cycle of abuse, but rather as a catharsis, or even a counter to a world whose weight is just too oppressive for some. Once your brain gets wired a certain way, you won’t ever be satisfied in a relationship until the conditions of that wiring are fulfilled. And that can take a number of forms that many people would find shocking, perhaps even horrifying.

    But it’s important to remember that we engage in these activities by CHOICE. We are functioning adults, and it is our prerogative to choose the lives we wish to live.

    slavekate-deactivated20150908

    Slave spirit is a strong spirit - born deep within every woman is the desire to tap into their true self. Put your face down, lift your ass in the air and experience the peace of becoming your true self.This is who you are.

    Sisters - this is who we are.

    oxirane

    ❤️

    m--shea

    I know that slavekate has deactivated her account, but to respond to anyone who would read this:

    It very heavily implies that all women are submissive, at some level. This is frankly untrue, and moreover is an actively harmful belief. 

    Plenty of women like to dominate, and many more don’t have strong preferences one way or the other. Everyone’s entitled to their own choices, and should be allowed to seek happiness however they desire. Trying to fit everyone into one mold brings only pain.