Interested in chastity / sissygasm / handsfree / ruined cumming
Last update
2018-12-17 05:06:56

    Goodbye and thank you

    I just quickly want to say byebye and thank you for the great time I had on tumblr.

    Initially I created my account on July 2017 because I wanted to share some nice porn in a special way. I always loved alternative orgasms like ruined orgasms / sissygasms / handsfree orgasm since it’s special, extremely intensive and humiliating 😅. Unfortunately I always had difficulties to understand why there is so few content of this genre out there. So I decided to make an experiment and to create my own content to see if people, like you, may appreciate that kind of porn. After 1.5 years and 40k followers I am happy that I took this decision. To see that you enjoy what I do, pushed and motivated me to explore my sexuality in so many different ways… 😛 I think that I have a very special talent to be able to cum without stimulation and I love it. I have rarely seen similar porn and therefore I still think (and hope) that my content has a unique characteristic. Some of you may get tired of my outfit but I consider this as a trademark which I don’t want to change (not yet 🙄). I also hope that I could wide the sexual horizon of some of you since there are so many awesome ways to have an orgasm… so don’t waste your cum just by fapping. You can do better, I believe in you!

    If you know some alternatives which are similar to tumblr, please let me know. But for sure NSFW content must be explicitly allowed!

    To everybody who bought videos on chaturbate: Thank you so much for your support. I really appreciate that. I don’t take the money for my own but buy myself videos from other performers to support them (and to extend my own porn collection 😇). I have a very special present for you: Tip me one token and add your e-mail in the description or reply to this post. I will contact you then 😉 I added new videos on chaturbate and probably will also do so in future. Currently I am quite busy so give me a few days to reply.

    One last thing:  Don’t forget to save all the content you like before my account get shut down. Most likely you can also find it on Twitter but I didn’t upload every single picture and video there.

    So goodbye and thank you for all the kind words, appreciation and experience.

    Mary  😘

    P.S.: I will regularly reblog this post to be sure that I can reach everybody. If it get’s annoying please unfollow me, anyway you can’t expect new content here on tumblr  😌

    You can find me on:






    bdsmlr.com & humblr.social

    Just created a bdsmlr account. I must admit that I am positively surprised. It looks more or less exactly like tumblr and has similar functions. Thank you for the recommendation. I just added a few vids/gifs. Once the tumblr import function is available you can expect brand new filthy content 😛


    I created a humblr.social account but there’s quite a big difference to tumblr. If you are registered to this site, check out my profile. I will fill my profile with content soon ;)



    Add me on steam if you like games. I mostly play CS:GO but I’m not online regularly. Of course I also play other games from time to time 😉

    I want to play if you:

    - are 20+ years old (not a childish goon)

    - are from EU (for ping reasons)

    - are sympathic and funny

    - enjoy gaming and don’t care if you loose or win

    I don’t want to play if you:

    - are a toxic and salty gamer

    - have no brain and no education

    - still get pocked money from your mum :D

    P.S.: Add your nickname in the comments of this post, otherwise I won’t add you. I need to identify the people which come from tumblr.


    How often do you edge yourself and what’s the biggest cumshot you’ve ever achieved x

    Edging not so much, maybe once per week. The biggest cumshot I’ve ever achived was 7 spurts over several meters across half of the room (first cumshot). 1 minute later I came again and shot again 5 spurts 😳 That was a real mess in my room 😆 Sometimes I wonder myself how the fuck I can store all that fluid in me 😅

    What exactly is a handsfree orgasm, sissygasm or assgasm ?

    I would like to give an explanation about the different orgasm types and hope to bring some light in the dark because people often seem to mix up these expressions. First of all I have to say that I am not sure if a correct definition even exist. Everybody has it’s own understanding from these different types of orgasms. I personally use the following definitions:

    Handsfree orgasm

    The name already says that it’s an orgasm without using your hands. Originally it means to cum completely without penile stimulation. However, this definition has some space for different interpretations and I distinguish between two different types of handsfree orgasms:

    - Orgasm with penile stimulation

    95% of all handsfree orgasms which occur on the internet are achived with a preceding penile stimulation or masturbation. Jerking a cock and then just take the hands off before cumming is indeed a ‘handsfree orgasms’, but only in the widest sense. If an orgasm is achived with initial masturbation I prefer the wide spread wording 'ruined orgasm’, because it’s nothing more than that.

    - Orgasm without penile stimulation

    This is a real handsfree orgasm and can be achived by using the PC-Muscle. Easy said it’s the muscle you use to make your cock bounce. This muscle is also always strained when you have an orgasm because it stimulates the prostate. Alternate straining and relaxing of this muscle will lead to an orgasm completely without touching your cock for a single second. Of course this requires some exercise.


    How to train it ? -> Making your cock bounce is of course already a training of this muscle. But instead of quickly strain and relax it, you should strain it for a longer period of time (5 to 10 seconds) before relaxing.  When you try this some minutes you will probably already start to leak precum, depending when you had your last orgasm. Of course there are much more exercises to trainthis muscle, therefore have a search on google.


    A sissygasm is an orgasm you can achive through anal penetration and therefore frequenting penetration of your prostate.


    Your cock doesn’t necessarily need to be hard to cum like that. The fact that you can cum with a limp makes this kind of orgasm very intensive and you can milk yourself for a long period of time. I sometimes do that during 2 hours (of course with some breaks). As you know you can see the result in several videos of me :)

    Just by definition a sissygasm’ is also a 'handsfree orgasm’. You see there is space for different interpretations.

    To learn how to achive a sissygasm I would like to refer to this great guide of Jenna Chaste:


    People often tell me that they did some anal play and ask if they just had a sissygasm just because they dripped some precum. I can tell you: If you have to ask if you had one it was definitive none.

    Assgasm / Analgasm

    I personally think that it’s the same than a sissygasm. But I also know that some people say that it’s an orgasm without ejaculation, caused by anal stimulation. Maybe this is possible but at least I never experienced something like that. Maybe this happens to people who doesn’t tend to cum a lot. Since everybody is different there are people who don’t produce a lot of cum or precum. It is therefore thinkable that these people achive a sissygasm without ejaculating. Unfortunately I can’t give a real statement regarding this topic.


    Whichever of the above orgasms you want to achive, it is mandatory that you don’t masturbate and cum for at least 1 to 2 weeks to increase your sexual sensitivity. To experience these types of orgasms you need concentration and discipline. Furthermore you need time and a relaxed environment. These types of orgasms are directly linked to you mind and require devotion. If you are stressed, take medics or anything else which compromise your sexual sensitivity, it won’t work. It also won’t work if you try too hard. Often they happen when they happen and if you force it, it will never happen because your mind is blocked. If you have patience and motivation you will try again and again until you achive your goal. I personally can say that it’s definitive worth the hard work. It’s like an internal explosion which will drive you crazy. Furthermore these orgasms also last much longer than normal orgasms.

    Furthermore I would like to mention that there is the danger that you can’t go back to normal sex or orgasms after this experience. Since the above orgasms are much more intense and fun, you will start to feel that 'normal’ cumming is boring and just waste of your love-juice.

    If you have more questions you can find a lot of guides on google. Of course you can also gladly contact me if you have any questions.

    I wish good luck and a lot of fun!

    Short break

    For some reasons I will deactivate my tumblr messaging system for a while. If you are interested to get in contact with me then check out my twitter profile. 


    Nevertheless I will still be active and post some content.

    I still have a ton of unanswered messages in my inbox and I will continuously try to answer them all ;)

    I hope you guys still enjoy my content and I will upload some new stuff soon. Stay tuned!


    You are delicious and by practicing with your delights you become something wonderful. I have been able to enjoy you so much and I am very grateful to you because you fulfill exactly the best wishes for you of your master. Full of lights your magical universe of pleasures. Kisses.

    “Magical universe of pleasures“... nice wording. Thanks for the kind words and great that you enjoy my content! 


    Do you think you'll ever make any videos with a different outfit?

    Excepting minor changes I think I will keep it like it is. I like the colours and the contrast of red/black. My outfit is some kind of a trademark and I’ve rarely seen other people using a similar outfit. I like the idea that people can easily identify me, just be seeing my clothes. Otherwise my recognation value is quite low since I don’t show my face in my videos. 


    I love everything about you There will be a day (there must be) , when we can see your eyes and fall in love with them

    Aww, nice wording :) Most likely you will never see my eyes because I want to stay anonymous. So you will have to get along with the rest of my body ^^


    Do you have the videos you record available for download or for sale anywhere?

    What you can’t find on my tumblr or twitter account you can’t find somewhere else, except my harddisk :) From time to time I upload screenshots of recent shoots but if my posts don’t get much reblogs and likes, I assume that nobody wants to see the videos.


    You have created some amazing content, Mary. Your sexy moans and powerful orgasms are VERY arousing. Care if I share mine? Where to submit?

    Great that you like my content. I would suggest that you add everything to your tumblr, where else ? If you have nice content to share then let the world be part of it!


    I've always wondered what are you doing while the fucking machine is going as your always in same position? I have recently gotten myself a fucking machine but unsure of how to use it. Do i need to clean myself before use, as well as how much lube should i use when using the machine or ahould i reapply after a certain time and how long and how fast should i use the machine

    To your first question: While getting fucked I am watching my favourite porn videos or sometimes I do nothing but enjoy the feeling of my dildo. I am usually in doggy position because it feels the most comfortable for me and my dildo always hits the right spot.

    To your second question: If you plan to play a longer time with your toys you should clean yourself with an enema. It is time consuming but it will be much more fun afterwars, believe me!

    To your third question: Use as much lube as you think you need to feel comfortable. This also concerns re-lube. But caution, don’t use too much, otherwise you will have your ass full of lube which can also feel unpleasant.

    To your fourth question: To be honest I don’t understand why you ask such question. Just set the machine to the speed you like. Will you set the machine to max. speed just because I recommend that ? Hopefully not! Choose the speed of your choice and look for a speed that makes you pleasure.