Ensure your chastity instructions are followed

    When practicing male chastity on your submissive partner, you might occasionally be wondering whether or not he is following your orders. Trust is key to any relationship, especially one that involves one person owning another’s orgasms, so checking in on him should never be second guessed. If you feel that there is any chance of him enjoying his orgasms without you, then don’t hesitate to make him prove his fidelity.

    So how can you do this? Well, there are a few ways to do it while you’re at work or away. The easiest way is to simply make him provide you with pictures throughout the day at your discretion. This is best done if you’re using a chastity device, but can be done without it.

    If he is outfitted with a device, let him know that you’ll be texting him randomly throughout the day for proof in the form of pictures. Make sure that you do it when you know that he has down time, or during his normal masturbation times. Simply have him expose himself to his camera, with the chastity device still on and in place, and you can rest assured that it hasn’t been tampered with. Doing it randomly and expecting the pictures quickly will make him have a second thought if he’s considering sliding himself out and having a party.

    Without a chastity device, you can ask for the same thing, but you’ll want to focus on his underwear. Make sure that there are no wet spots on the fabric. One of those is a dead giveaway that he has recently ejaculated and his body is still expelling semen.

    If your partner is well versed in the ways of the orgasm, you are going to need to consider sex toys. Men crave orgasms and they have found many ways to induce them, including massaging their own prostate. If you have anything longer than the human finger that your submissive can slide into his own anus, then he can give himself a prostate orgasm.

    This is achieved by first finding the prostate, then simply massaging it until orgasm. The important thing here is that your partner can induce one of these orgasms without touching his penis or adjusting his chastity device.

    At the end of the day, making sure your submissive follows your orders is all about trust. If you have no reason to distrust him, then your relationship is in great shape.

    How Chastity Improved My Boyfriend

    My name is kiara…I always knew my boyfriend was a good person..he is fun friendly and has a nice heart. But our relationship was just ok…he never made me feel special…he was selfish in many ways…i stayed with him for over a year…what really bothered me is that our sex life was never good …and it was getting worse.

    I was ready to break up with brad ..i felt I deserved more .

    I also had 2 young boys 6 and 9….i needed a good father for kids too. But then a girlfriend of me told me about male chastity or a cage…she said it controls his cums and sex life. The longer brad goes without cumming the better person he would become.

    My friend said tbis worked wonders for the relationship…and they really had the best relationship. I was now really motivated to learn about what a cage could do to my relationship. Could having my boyfriend wearing a cage change this relationship.

    After a full month of researching and learning all the benefits that wearing a male cage could bring to the table I was now 100 percent convince brad needs the cage or this relationship is over. I invited brad over on a night my kids were with there father. Being divorce my kids are with my ex every other weekend…he is a terrible dad but that’s another story for another day. It was almost 7pm …brad would be over any minute.

    When he came in I told him that I was not happy and that we need to make huge changes or I’m moving on. Brad was so surprised. He thought our relationship was great and that I was happy. Like I said brad is a good person but he was in space. I said to him it’s not good and explained all the things wrong.he was almost crying. I could tell he wanted this relationship saved and that was a good thing. I was now ready to hit him between the lines about the cage.

    “Brad. I want you to be open about something..i want your penis in a chastity cage.in this cage you will not be able to at with yourself or have any pleasure from your penis when your in this cage.” After 4 hours of explaining to him why and what it is he agreed. He said he love me so much he would do almost anything. 1 week later his cage came in. A cb6000…that night I put it on him and took the keys.

    I told him i wanted to go at last 3 months in cage…thst means he could not come for 3 months .He agreed. Part 3 I noticed the difference in brad right away. He is a new guy completely. Just 3 weeks later he is willing to do almost anything for me. 6 weeks he is now the perfect boyfriend and famous roll model to my kids. Our sex has been amazing. He now uses his lips and tongue and yes dildo…but he can never fun.

    The longer he goes without cumming the better person and boyfriend he becomes..and the better our sex is. 3 months will be tomorrow…my goal is to convince him to do 1 year next time….how I look at it is everyone is so happy with cage why not go longer. Today was 3 months. Brad has been so good . I took the cage off but told him it has to go right back on after he cumd…he understood and agreed. Once the cage came off brad tried so hard to have sex with me.

    Brad wanted to fuck me so badly…but after 3 months in the cage he could not get hard. I felt bad. It’s very common for a guy to have a problem getting hard after being locked up for a while. I gave brad a blow job…with in 1 minute he came… sdo quick…he said it felt amazing best fun ever.

    But he and I was so sad he came so quickly. As promised I put the cage right back on. Then he asked me if he had to wait 3 months again. I said no…..this time longer…i explained since he did so good this time a full year. We argued for an hour. But brad had no choice and I one. This was the best year of my life. Brad asked me to Marry him. He is amazing with my kids. He’s great around home. And our sex life is amazing. This cb6000 male cage has made me my kids and brad so happy….im now reading about men who go permanent,,,,forever in cage…that means he will never fun again…i really want this but we will do it in baby steps.

    I know if brad goes permanent he will never cheat never divorce and always want to make me happy. Girls….trust me. Make your man wear a cage. He will in return make you so happy…and sex is better without cage. I think of sex sometimes…down the road I will get brad to allow me to have sex with someone else. Just for sex…I will let you know how that goes

    He is a new person since his cage. It saved us!

    Ensure your chastity instructions are followed

    When practicing male chastity on your submissive partner, you might occasionally be wondering whether or not he is following your orders. Trust is key to any relationship, especially one that involves one person owning another’s orgasms, so checking in on him should never be second guessed. If you feel that there is any chance of him enjoying his orgasms without you, then don’t hesitate to make him prove his fidelity.

    So how can you do this? Well, there are a few ways to do it while you’re at work or away. The easiest way is to simply make him provide you with pictures throughout the day at your discretion. This is best done if you’re using a chastity device, but can be done without it.

    If he is outfitted with a device, let him know that you’ll be texting him randomly throughout the day for proof in the form of pictures. Make sure that you do it when you know that he has down time, or during his normal masturbation times. Simply have him expose himself to his camera, with the chastity device still on and in place, and you can rest assured that it hasn’t been tampered with. Doing it randomly and expecting the pictures quickly will make him have a second thought if he’s considering sliding himself out and having a party.

    Without a chastity device, you can ask for the same thing, but you’ll want to focus on his underwear. Make sure that there are no wet spots on the fabric. One of those is a dead giveaway that he has recently ejaculated and his body is still expelling semen.

    If your partner is well versed in the ways of the orgasm, you are going to need to consider sex toys. Men crave orgasms and they have found many ways to induce them, including massaging their own prostate. If you have anything longer than the human finger that your submissive can slide into his own anus, then he can give himself a prostate orgasm.

    This is achieved by first finding the prostate, then simply massaging it until orgasm. The important thing here is that your partner can induce one of these orgasms without touching his penis or adjusting his chastity device.

    At the end of the day, making sure your submissive follows your orders is all about trust. If you have no reason to distrust him, then your relationship is in great shape.

    Femdom Chastity – The Ultimate Female Power

    So you’ve gotten yourself into a fulfilling Femdom relationship and you’re ready to go the distance and add chastity to your repertoire, but what does femdom chastity really entail?

    It doesn’t matter whether you simply want your orgasms to always be controlled by the woman on the relationship or are trying to correct a bad behavior, the methods and outcome are always the same.

    By incorporating chastity into your relationship by either employing devices specifically manufactured for it or using punishment as a means of keeping the sub chaste, the simple fact of the matter will be that his orgasms will always be at the pleasure of the Domme.

    Very few things in the world can match that level of control or the level of trust that’s needed in order to properly enjoy and carry it out. Here are all of the ways that chastity can add to your relationship.

    Femdom Chastity Devices

    You can’t really talk about Femdom chastity unless you talk about all of the devices that are available to you in your quest to keep that penis safely locked away where it can’t get any of the naughty pleasure that it’s been ordered to stay away from.

    Back in the days of sexual repression, most chastity devices consisted of painful spikes than were designed to press into the penis as it enlarged and forced it to essentially deflate since mind shattering pain and erections typically don’t go hand in hand.

    While things like this can still be created, they’re typically reserved for only the most experienced couples to use.

    Aside from the fact that pain isn’t necessary with modern devices, these devices were also incredibly dangerous and could lead to, among many other things, cuts and infections.

    If you really want to incorporate pain or discomfort into your play it should be done sparingly and with the utmost care.

    Chastity cages and belts are far and away the most common method of ensuring a total lack of orgasms. These essentially wrap around the penis and keep it where it should be and out of anyone else’s hands.

    There are many different variations to be found, including ball stretchers and models with butt plugs and you can certainly custom fit your device into your lifestyle.

    Most come with a lock and key as the only way of removing them and guarantee that nothing can happen in the absence of the Femdom.

    Pride and Punishment

    Although common, devices aren’t always necessary to ensure chastity. For the right couple, the threat of punishment can be more than enough to keep the submissive male from touching himself.

    It’s typically required that at least a few punishments must be doled out before the total obedience is gained, but it’s more than an attainable goal.

    Depending on how much time the Femdom and her submissive spend apart, she can employ many methods to make sure that he hasn’t enjoyed an orgasm. One thing to always keep in mind is that the penis will be emitting ejaculate long after the orgasm has been reached. It’s next to impossible to keep your underwear from getting a stain after a masturbation session.

    No matter how much a man tries to get everything out, there will always be a tiny bit of seminal fluid left in the shaft.

    Once it begins to go flaccid after an erection that fluid will ooze out as it sits behind the underwear. All the Domme need do is force her sub to prove his innocence with clean underwear. If there’s any wet spot at all, then chances are that he took some liberties with himself and had an orgasm behind her back. This is exactly where the punishment would come in.

    As long as it’s intense enough, it’s unlikely for the submissive to try his luck again in exchange for a few short seconds of self-satisfaction.

    Male Chastity And Sexual Frustration

    With any kind of chastity, sexual frustration is practically guaranteed to be a big part of the experience. This can be used to the Domme’s benefit and be utilized as a system of punishment and reward.

    Men have never been known for their ability to stave off sexual excitement and tend to simply feel like they must orgasm. The longer they go without an orgasm, the more they’ll crave it until it becomes something of an obsession.

    This is where the Femdom finds most of her power. Especially when devices are used, the sub’s orgasm can and should be used against him to ensure that he is acting in accordance with the Domme’s wishes.

    If he is good and does everything exactly as he was told, then he might be allowed to experience an orgasm once every few weeks or months.

    It’s always best to make him wait until his desires are at a fever pitch to make sure he understands that he’s not being given the allowance because he wants it, but because he’s finally earned it.

    How the Orgasm Works

    Once he’s finally given the permission to orgasm, how he gets it will also directly play into his understanding of his place within the relationship.

    Actual sex with the Domme should be such a rare occurrence as to be practically non-existent. Her body is meant to be a divine place that something like a sub should never deserve to touch.

    After the permission is given, many Dommes choose to use their feet to bring their subs to orgasm. This reminds them of their place on the floor while the Mistress stands above. Other opt to simply allow their submissive men to masturbate in front of them.

    This is typically seen as the strongest choice because it can cause humiliation in the sub and feed back into his place within the relationship.

    No matter how you choose to go about your chastity, you’re likely to find it both rewarding and fun. Just make sure that safety is always your primary concern and an open and honest relationship is always a must for both partners.