1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.


    2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.

    3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.

    4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend.

    5. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.

    6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority.

    7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.

    8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.

    9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.

    10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.

    11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.

    12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.

    13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.

    14. If his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.


    A list of ideas and activities for dominant women to use on their submissive male partners… to tease, humiliate, discipline, punish, and torment him.

    Ways to Tease Him

    • Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You”
    • Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.
    • Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet.
    • Have him address You as ‘Mistress’
    • Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass.
    • Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth.
    • Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time.
    • Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes.
    • Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails!
    • Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please.
    • Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission.
    • Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum.
    • Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty.
    • Scratch him with Your finger nails.Tickle him. Pinch his nipples.
    • Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
    • Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do.
    • Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises
    • Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again.
    • Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You.
    • Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach.
    • Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.
    • Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it.
    • Make him lick the dildo clean.
    • Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.
    • Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.
    • Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)

    Ways to Humiliate Him

    • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
    • Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes.
    • Have him pamper You, have him:
    • give You a foot/back/full body massage
    • give You a pedicure/manicure,
    • paint Your finger/toe nails.
    • bathe You/shave your legs.
    • cook and serve You a nice dinner.
    • Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie.
    • Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue.
    • Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog.
    • Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that.
    • Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
    • Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop?
    • Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!)
    • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
    • Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does.
    • Make him screw himself with a dildo.
    • Make him earn his rewards; for example:
    • Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done.
    • 1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours. 5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times. Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum.
    • If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean.
    • Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want)
    • If he’s really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
    • Always make him lick You clean after sex.
    • When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
    • Lock a padlock on his balls.
    • Give him a golden shower.
    • Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)

    Ways to Discipline and Punish and Torment Him

    • Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…)
    • Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
    • Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
    • Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
    • Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
    • In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
    • Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
    • Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
    • Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
    • Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
    • Enema.
    • Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
    • Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
    • Have him lick You clean after you pee.
    • Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples.
    • Drip candle wax on him.
    • Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…)
    • Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie
    • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
    • Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes.
    • Have him pamper You, have him:
    • give You a foot/back/full body massage
    • give You a pedicure/manicure,
    • paint Your finger/toe nails.
    • bathe You/shave your legs.

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