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    THE ART OF FEMALE DOMINATION: ROPE BONDAGE 3.0 - For the Ladies!

    Are you 50 shades of grey curious? Then don’t come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Woman to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in control professionally, thinking about becoming a Dominatrix or are a service provider looking ot expand your bag of tricks, you’ll get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

    This class in this series is - ROPE BONDAGE 3.0.

    You don’t have to have attended any of Our other bondage workshops, but If you have, you’ll be able to add several new rigs to your aresonal that you will absolutely love! The focus of 3.0 is tying people to things, bondage techniques you can use at home, in everyday situations and working with the Female body. Most of the ties can be used on men too, but the emphasis will be a bit more Feminine then Our previous workshops.

    In this class you’ll learn:

    1. About different types of ropes,their purpose and the sensations the create. How to pick and maintain the type of rope that’ most suitable for you, and basic bondage safety

    2. The difference between Eastern and Western styles of bondage

    3. Slip knots vs rigging points

    4. Basic wrist and ankle ties, basic chest and body harnesses and breast bondage!

    5. Tying people to things; chair, ottoman, coffee table and bed bondage

    6. Creating Predicaments around the house using everyday furniture and objects.

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This is a hands on class, you will be doing rope bondage. Come dressed comfortably and wearing undergarments or a swimsuit under your street clothes. No free balling or commando.

    This class is open to single women and couples

    $20 in advance single women
    $35 in advance couples

    THE ART OF FEMALE DOMINATION: ROPE BONDAGE CLASS

    Are you 50 shades of grey curious? Then don’t come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Woman to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in control professionally, thinking about becoming a Dominatrix or are a service provider looking ot expand your bag of tricks, you’ll get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

    This class in this series is - ROPE BONDAGE

    PURCHASE TICKETS

    In this class you’ll learn:

    1. all the basic techniques of both Eastern and Western styles of bondage, predicament bondage, contortion and restrictive bondage

    2. the knots you’ll get the most use of, including but not limied to slip knots and rigging points

    3. About different types of ropes,their purpose and the sensations the create. How to pick and maintain the type of rope that’ most suitable for you, and basic bondage safety

    AND, Most Importantly

    4. PUSSY POWER! How merely having a Vagina and knowing You have on gives You power over men. You learn to ensnare them in Your web with or without rope.

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This is a hands on class, you will be doing rope bondage. Come dressed comfortably and wearing undergarments or a swimsuit under your street clothes. No free balling or commando.

    This class is open to single women and couples

    $20 in advance single women
    $35 in advance couples

    THE ART OF FEMALE DOMINATION: FANTASY ROLE-PLAY & DIALOGUE

    PURCHASE TICKETS

    Are you 50 Shades of Grey curious? Then do not come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Woman to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in-control professionally, thinking about becoming a Dominatrix, or are a service provider looking to expand your bag of tricks, you will get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

    This class in the Female Domination series you will learn - Fantasy Roleplay and Dialogue

    1. The difference between BDSM/DS and Fantasy Role-play and when they overlap.

    2. What you’ll need to get started with any budget and proper impliments of this exciting fetish.

    3. Psychology, atmosphere, differnt kind of role-play scenerios; School Teacher, Baby Sitter, School Marm, Age Regressions, Infintialism, Taboo, Auntie, Mommy, Daddy, Uncle, Executive, Boss, Secretary, Executive, Sissy Maid, Cross Dressing, Police, Military, POW, etc..

    4. Come dressed for the occasion; what to wear, proprs, etc

    5. What to say; buzzwords, triggers, difference between verbal humiliation an verbal abuse.

    Instructor: Mistress Tara Indiana

    $20 in advance single Women

    $30 in advance couples and singleton

    TODAY ONLY! $50 off HUMILIATION INTENSIVE w/ Princess Kali 8.14!

    ENTER PROMO CODE: EARLYBIRD

    This class in the Female Domination series is an 8 hour intensive on Humilaition, with World renowned Dom and honored guest speaker, Princess Kali. This will be her first visit back since 2014 and a rare opportunity. Shes spoken at over 150 venues including Harvard and SXSW.

    Kali’s workshops are famous for offering specific examples of how various aspects of a fetish can be incorporated into your sex life or sessions as opposed just S/M theory. This will be her first class based on her new book  "Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation"  

    Humiliation is a complex and varied fetish that has a lot of possibilities. It isn’t just about name calling and degredation, it’s also about exploring vulnerability, trust, control, and sacrifice through absurdity, amusement, and consensual cruelty.

    We’ll spend time exploring & discussing your interests to get to the heart of the experience, before diving into some practice play.

    Topics will include:

    Playing at your level and with your interest Improving your verbal skills Taking your kink out of the bedroom or session room Pushing boundaries safely Developing Your MIndset Overcoming everyday obstacles to humiliation Interactive practice

    Including interests such as (but not limited to!):

    Dehumanization Sissification CFNM; Nudity Tease and Denial Enforced Chastity Verbal Humiliation Financial Domination Watersports and Toilet Play Domestic Service Punishment and Discipline and Public Humiliation.

    The day has been designed to be as interactive as possible; there will be:

    a workbook (exckusively available at this class only!), demonstrations interactive opportunities. Practice Play AND a game of Humiliation Truth or Dare!

    *Participation will be encouraged but is not required.

    This class is good for anyone, anywhere along spectrum of experience. Do you know you’re interested but don’t know what to say or do? Have you played but need new ideas? Are you a ‘hardcore’ player ready to go deeper?

    Whether you’ve beginner or you’ve been playing in the humiliation sandbox for decades, Princess Kali will be able to answer your questions and give you concrete examples of what to say and do.

    All genders and orientations welcome!

    $200 per person

    $150 early bird rate

    Limited Space!

    Instructor: Princess Kali
    Dress Code: Casual / Street Clothes

    THE ART OF FEMALE DOMINATION: SLAVE TRAINING

    Are you 50 Shades of Grey curious? Then do not come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Woman to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in-control professionally, thinking about becoming a Dominatrix, or are a service provider looking to expand your bag of tricks, you will get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

    GET TICKETS

    This class in the Female Domination series is Slave & Obedience training

    In this class you will learn:

    1. How to exert Your ownership of a man (or woman, ladies!)

    2. The Four Phases of Your dungeon; How to create erotic suspence using your voice, touch and environment

    3. Slave positioning: Gain ultimate control of Your subject with these 10 positions

    a. kneel down b. kneel up c. present wrists d. all fours e. present ass f. present ass for caning g. present ass for reminder h. stand at attention i. present to be collared j. thumb and finger k. and, as a special bonus, we will cover positions for proper foot service.

    4. Corporal Punishment as a method of teaching and behavior modification

    And, as a bonus, men will learn: Where to meet Dommes, how to tell if They are safe to play with, How to greet a Mistress in public and private settings, proper eye positioning, Greeting the foot, proper dialogue and titles, The 10 positions of a slave and why they are good for you.

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This class is open to men, women and couples!!!
    $20 in advance/ $30 at the door single Women (space permitting)
    $30 in advance/ $40 at the door single men (space permitting)

    WHAT IS CRAZY? Dealing with Mental Illness in BDSM

    Being differently pleasured is difficult enough without the stigma of mental illness, but when they are combined, the obstacles to healthy relationships and happiness can be daunting. So let’s start by looking at the facts.

    The ONE thing that BDSM and Mental Illness have in common is the stigma - and that’s it. It is estimated that 26.2% of Americans suffer from Mental Illness - that’s 57.7 million people. Furthermore 8-11% of the population engage in BDSM. So naturally, a percentage of them will suffer from mental illness.

    Correlation isn’t causation, so join us as we tease them apart in a discussion of Mental Illness and how it effects the BDSM community in terms of their access to help, treatment and gaining understanding from  family, friends and peers.

    Whether your a Pro-Domme or in the lifestyle, the odds are, you, or someone you know suffers from mental illness. If your a sufferer, you may be having problems get the health care you need. You may be having trouble confiding in people and getting support. If your in the profession, every time you do a session there is a 1 and 4 chance that the person you’re doing a session with has some form of mental illness or you may be battling it yourself. You need to know how to play safely from both perspectives.

    Come join an interesting & thought provoking discussion that will challenge your belief systems and open up new possibilities for understanding and treatment.

    GET TICKETS

    Some of the topics we’ll explore will be:

    1. Identifying and defining of mental illnesses: Depression, Anxiety, MMD, PTSD, ADHD, BPD, Bi Polar, Aspergers, Schizophrenia, NPD, Psychopathy, Sociopath, and more

    2. The difference between Mental Illness and Insanity. Dealing with the “Delusion Bubble”

    3. When is someone dangerous and how to keep yourself safe in an age of internet stalkers.

    4. Creating a “Safe Space” takes on new meaning in this context. Use the DBT intimacy circle to achieve it.

    5. What forms of therapy are best if you’re kinky?

    6. To medicate or not to medicate? Make an informed decision after your learn about the different kinds of medications and their pros and cons

    7. What is Duel Diagnosis and why is it referred to as being a “Double Winner”  

    8. How to destigmatize mental Illness. How SM can bring catharsis and healing.

    9. The  Pro-Domme often wears the therapist hat. While this gives many a sense of meaning and purpose, it also may give them “caretaker’s burnout”. We’ll give you a few tips and how to spot it before it gets out of hand and how to treat it if you’re already there.

    Moderator: Mss. Tara Indiana

    BOUND by LOVE! Rope Bondage Weekend Workshop and Party VALENTINE'S DAY

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    Do you find yourself in the predicament of being in love or wanting to be in love? Then why not join us for a 2 day intensive on Predicament bondage! Tuition includes admission to all classes and party at Sat Nite @The Den of Iniquity. Dinner for 2 at Factory Kitchen and hotel ccommodations additional. This class in the Art of Domination series is a 2 Day intensive on Predicament, Inescapable and Contortion Bondage

    CLICK HERE FOR TICKETS:

    You will learn:

    Western or English Style Bondage has become a lost art with the rise in popularity of Shibari. Yet English styles of bondage offer a much more intimate and interactive experience between the Top and the bottom.

    Predicament Bondage is interactive, meaning, it does things. the submissive is not held in one position, but rather, when struggling, the bondage sensations will change, thus causing a "Predicament"; a situation where they must make a decision, all of which have their consequences.

    Contortion Bondage is a type of predicament bondage that forces the bottom into uncomfortable positions that they must maintain or suffer the consequences.

    Inescapable Bondage is yet another form of predicament bondage. It is what it sounds like; bondage with NOW WAY OUT. They can struggle, squirm and attempt free themselves BUT THEY CANNOT ESCAPE!

    Mistress Tara had been practicing Predicament Bondage for 25 years. Join Her, one of the last truly great masters of this art in the US today for a weekend intensive you will never forget!

    BASIC BONDAGE IN THEORY AND PRACTICE SATURDAY 1-7PM

    1. Choosing your rope: The different types of ropes,their purpose and the sensations the create. How to pick and maintain the type of rope that's most suitable for you, and basic bondage safety.

    2. The theory and techniques of Eastern (Japanese) and Western (English) styles of bondage  

    3. The 2 basic kinds of knots you'll get the most use of; slip knots and rigging points  

    4. Basic wrist and ankle ties; bondage handcuffs, gauntlets, tying together, tying to and spread eagle positions  

    5. Arms ties; elbow bondage, over-arms ties  

    6. Different kinds of Hog and Frog Ties  

    ADVANCED BONDAGE TECHNIQUES SUNDAY 1-7PM

    7. Basic body harnesses; bondage bikini, chest harness, breast bondage, reverse prayer and more.

    8. Cock and Ball Bondage: English Ball Seperation, Hellicopters and more!

    9. The Hangman's Noose: The perfect Noose is the Holy Grail of rigs! Learn this knot properly and everything else will be EASY!  

    10. The theory and practice of making your bondage inescapable or into a predicament.  

    11. How to Improvise with rope  

    12. Finals: Each student will create a bondage master piece that they will be graded on in 5 categories: predicament value, inescapability, esthetic, technique and and endurability.  

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This is a hands on class, you will be bondage. Come dressed comfortably, street or preferable yogo clothes. Wear undergarments or a swimsuit under your clothes. No free balling or commando.  This class will includes all the suppies you need to do your homework assignement saturday night. This class is open to single women, and couples only.  

    WE ARE ONLY TAKING 8 STUDENTS FOR THE CLASSES!  General admission to party available 

    Call the Den of Iniquity at 213 623 1520 for more info

    Sex had never been an empowering experience -- that was until I spanked a man and made him call me "goddess"

    The ART of FEMALE DOMINATION: PREDICAMENT! A 2 day Rope Bondage Intensive! NYC 10.24, LA 10.25

    PURCHASE NYC TICKET HERE for 10.24-10.25

    PURCHASE LA TICKETS HERE for 10.31-11.1

    Are you 50 Shades of Grey curious? Then do not come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Woman to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in-control professionally, thinking about becoming a Dominatrix, or are a service provider looking to expand your bag of tricks, you will get the psychology and tools you need to get started.  

    This class in the Female Domination series is a 2 Day intensive on Predicament, Inescapable and Contortion Bondage

    You will learn:

    Western or English Style Bondage has become a lost art with the rise in popularity of Shibari. Yet English styles of bondage offer a much more intimate and interactive experience between the Top and the bottom.

    Predicament Bondage is interactive, meaning, it does things. the submissive is not held in one position, but rather, when struggling, the bondage sensations will change, thus causing a "Predicament"; a situation where they must make a decision, all of which have their consequences.

    Contortion Bondage is a type of predicament bondage that forces the bottom into uncomfortable positions that they must maintain or suffer the consequences.

    Inescapable Bondage is yet another form of predicament bondage. It is what it sounds like; bondage with NOW WAY OUT. They can struggle, squirm and attempt free themselves BUT THEY CANNOT ESCAPE!

    Mistress Tara had been practicing Predicament Bondage for 25 years. Join Her, one of the last truly great masters of this art in the US today for a weekend intensive you will never forget!

    BASIC BONDAGE IN THEORY AND PRACTICE SATURDAY 12-6PM

    1. Choosing your rope: The different types of ropes,their purpose and the sensations the create. How to pick and maintain the type of rope that's most suitable for you, and basic bondage safety.  

    2. The theory and techniques of Eastern (Japanese) and Western (English) styles of bondage  

    3. The 2 basic kinds of knots you'll get the most use of; slip knots and rigging points  

    4. Basic wrist and ankle ties; bondage handcuffs, gauntlets, tying together, tying to and spread eagle positions  

    5. Arms ties; elbow bondage, over-arms ties  

    6. Different kinds of Hog and Frog Ties  

    ADVANCED BONDAGE TECHNIQUES SUNDAY 1-7PM

    7. Basic body harnesses; bondage bikini, chest harness, breast bondage, reverse prayer and more.

    8. Cock and Ball Bondage: English Ball Seperation, Hellicopters and more!

    9. The Hangman's Noose: The perfect Noose is the Holy Grail of rigs! Learn this knot properly and everything else will be EASY!  

    10. The theory and practice of making your bondage inescapable or into a predicament.  

    11. How to Improvise with rope  

    12. Finals: Each student will create a bondage master piece that they will be graded on in 5 categories: predicament value, inescapability, esthetic, technique and and endurability.  

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This is a hands on class, you will be bondage. Come dressed comfortably, street or preferable yogo clothes. Wear undergarments or a swimsuit under your clothes. No free balling or commando.  This class will includes all the suppies you need to do your homework assignement saturday night.

    This class is open to single women, and couples only.

    WE ARE ONLY TAKING 8 STUDENTS FOR THIS CLASS!  
    Call the Den of Iniquity at 213 623 1520 for more inf
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    (via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6F-8QUl9rU)

    This is Dungeon George, the Bondage Bird. He's been the dungeon mascot at The Den of Iniquity since 2004. Like his Mom, Dominatrix Tara Indiana, he is strong willed and doesn't like being told what to do.

    And while this is normally adorable, it's causing some serious heath problems because HE WON'T TAKE HIS MEDICINE and has to be boarded him with the vet for daily injections.

    So Tara Indiana and Cybill Troy have joined forces in a project they call "Charity Fuck", to raise money for his vet bills. So all you have to do to save George is to buy the video and masturbate!

    http://clips4sale.com/studio/40408/

    or make a donation to our gofundme campaign:

    https://www.gofundme.com/georgeagoodbird

    anonymous

    You mentioned Frankenstein during your slave training class. How is training a slave like the story of the Monster? I've recently met a very eager and willing slave, but find myself a little confused by his willingness and desire to have me "strip him of his rights," even to the point of whoring him for money. He asked me last night what I would want to ultimately transform him into, and all I could think of (partially humorously) was Frankenstein. Then I thought of what you said in class...

    ANSWER:You create “Monsters” when You manipulate, which is quite different from what You’re describing. Manipulation is when you push emotional buttons or “trick” people into doing what you want, without revealing to that person what the behavior is you’re trying to get out of them.

    That is different then training or, I prefer, teaching someone what you want, what pleases you, etc.. The obvious difference is in the later example there is consent. The person knows what You want and willingly fulfills that desire. You are “leading” them in the direction You want to go. 

    Don’t confuse issue of consent with what would be considered “reasonable” in the vanilla world. The great thing about being a Dom/me, is you don’t have to be reasonable or even fair, for that matter; as long is there is informed consent.

    In the Marines, you’re trained “to serve willingly and with enthusiasm”. Both of which the submissive is displaying. In fact, he’s actually leading You! As these are his desires and ideas. It is not S/he that holds the whip that is the Dom/me. It is S/he who controls the scene that is the Dom/me. So you may want to consider W/who is really in charge in this dynamic and if this is something You want to do.

    It’s okay if You do want to “strip him of his rights” and “whore him out”. Just know this is HIS idea. It was NOT Frankenstein’s idea to be created of the body parts of different cadavers.

    Another thing to consider is if he actually really wants this or it is just a fantasy. What you describe is actually a quite typical fantasy amongst certain types of submissive men. The obvious choice to ask him may not work because when men are in the throws of arousal that naturally come in their fantasy life, they themselves are not always able to distinguish fantasy from reality. You will only be able to discern this with time as Y/you both get to know E/eachother better.

    DATING AND ROMANCE SECRETS OF THE WORLD'S GREATEST DOMINATRIX

    PURCHASE TICKETS

    Are you 50 shades of grey curious? Then don't come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your power as a Female to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you. Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in control in both your personal and professions life, or even thinking about becoming a Dominatrix or, you'll get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

    In this class you'll learn:

    1. What is a Dominant Woman & are you one? The good, the bad & the ugly.

    2. Beauty Secrets of a Dominatrix

    3. Psychology of a male slave. HINT: All men are slaves when they aren't getting this.....

    4. Where to find man slaves in both Vanilla and Fetish setting

    5. How to flirt like a Domme - make him come to you

    6. If You don't know what your want - You can't get it. Figuring out what You're looking for, what makes you happy, what role you want a man (men) to play in your life. Is monogamy a cage? Is Polyandry is for you? How to manage a stable of men

    7. Training a man to be Your slave. What is and isn't a healthy relationship. Establishing Boundaries. AND, Most Importantly,

    8. PUSSY POWER! How merely having a Vagina and knowing You have on gives You power over men. You learn to ensnare them in Your web with or without rope.

    Instructor: Tara Indiana

    This class is open to women only!!!
    $20 in advance/ $30 at the door space permitting
    For address call the Cyn Studios at 212-244-7801

    PROTEST 50 SHADES of GREY! S&M is NOT a MENTAL ILLNESS!

    Many in the SM community have begrudgingly embraced "50 Shades of Grey", hating it secretly, but profiting from it financially.

    I have even thought at times, "Well, anything that makes our lifestyle more socially acceptable is good for us in the long run. Or is it? Think about it. The book has sold 100 million copies and who knows how many millions more will see the movie.

    So what? You're saying. So this: Each and every vanilla person who reads or sees it is going to think that this is what S&M is about.

    It's depiction of our sexual orientation feeds into EVERY WRONG STEREO TYPE of our Community. That woman prefer to be sexually submissive, that rich powerful men are sexually dominant and WORST of all, it depicts the Dominant character as damaged and mentally ill, and only through the love of a woman is he finally "cured" of his demons.

    Is that really the way you want people to see you? I don't. So if you care about how the world sees and even at you don't - you should protest this movie in any and everyway possible.

    You may not care about what people think of you, but you will care how they treat you. And if they treat you like a damaged lunatic in need of help and treatment, then we might as well go back to the days when Psychology treated gay people based on the theory that homosexuality is caused by an over bearing Mother and an absent Father.

    But here's the other disturbing part of this equation, While E L James makes MILLIONS of dollars by co-opting our culture, fashion and sexual identity, MILLIONS of us (Yes, there are millions of us) live in fear that we will lose our job, our home, our family, our children and even our very freedom simply because we LOVE DIFFERENTLY.

    What can you do? You can speak out on your social media with the hashtag #protest50shades. You can demonstrate at any theater showing this movie and you can blog about it. Every little bit counts!