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2020-05-06 12:24:47

    Put your submissive in his place

    One of the best ways to turn the tables on your man is to fuck his face. He probably pictures porn flicks and expects you to deepthroat his cock. Now its your turn to play pornstar and exert power over him.

    • Relax on the couch or chair while wearing your strapon. Put him on his knees and make him get to work.
    • This isn’t going to be a 60 second lick the tip and move on to something else! Think about how you need to work up to a deep blowjob on him. Spend time warming up to make sure his throat starts to lubricate itself.
    • If he’s not going deep enough grab his hair and force his face down on that dick! He can take it. Don’t be gentle.
    • Make sure he maintains eye contact like a good little porn star!
    • Yes he’s going to cough and gag, a lot, yes he’s going to have a lot of drool and mucus coming out of his mouth. That’s OK, force it in. Don’t be deterred by drool, or complaints.
    • Have him lay on his back on the bed or couch, with his head hanging over the side and cram that dick down his throat.
    • Do it over and over until he gags and is producing lots of natural mucus. He’ll be drooling all over himself soon enough.
    • Have him lie down on his back, then straddle him so the only thing you can see is his face. Put your dildo in his mouth and jackhammer that thing down his throat.
    • Don’t be scared of hurting him, even if your dildo is on the large side of realistic. He’ll eventually be able to take it balls deep. He might complain that it doesn’t fit. Well girl, its your job to MAKE it fit.
    • Also give him instructions and compliments when he starts to take it deep (“yeah, show me your tongue” “hands behind your back and open wide” “take it deeper”)

    K has already started this training


    FemDom Ideas for Couples

    From one of my readers (thank you!)…

    A list of ideas and activities for dominant women to use on their submissive male partners… to tease, humiliate, discipline, punish, and torment him.

    Ways to Tease Him

    - Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You” - Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on. - Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet. - Have him address You as ‘Mistress’ - Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass. - Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth. - Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time. - Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes. - Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails! - Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please. - Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission. - Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum. -Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty. -Scratch him with Your finger nails. -Tickle him. Pinch his nipples. -Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg. -Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do. -Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises -Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again. - Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You. - Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach. - Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator. - Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it. - Make him lick the dildo clean. - Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience. - Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor. - Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)

    Ways to Humiliate Him

    - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
    - Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes.
    - Have him pamper You, have him:
    - give You a foot/back/full body massage
    - give You a pedicure/manicure,
    - paint Your finger/toe nails.
    - bathe You/shave your legs.
    - cook and serve You a nice dinner.
    - Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie.
    - Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue.
    - Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog.
    - Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that.
    - Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
    - Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop?
    - Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!)
    - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
    - Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does.
    - Make him screw himself with a dildo.
    - Make him earn his rewards; for example:
    - Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done.
    - 1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours.  5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times.  Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum.
    - If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean.
    - Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want)
    - If he’s really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
    - Always make him lick You clean after sex.
    - When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
    - Lock a padlock on his balls.
    - Give him a golden shower.
    - Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)

    Ways to Discipline and
    Punish and Torment Him

    - Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…) - Tie him in an uncomfortable position. - Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them. - Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together) - Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists. - In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable. - Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. - Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage. - Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever. - Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on. - Enema. - Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels. - Deny him orgasms for a long period of time. - Have him lick You clean after you pee. - Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples. - Drip candle wax on him. - Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…) - Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie


    I really want someone who will use these methods with me



    This agreement is strictly between _________________ and _________________.

    The agreement fully releases all rights of ownership of the penis that was once owned by ________________ and transfers all rights to ________________. Effective immediately the following rules of agreement will be fully in forced. Failure to follow these rules will result in punishment.

    1. He will obey her fully with out question or complaint, this total obedience to her is mandatory.

    2. He will refer to her as ‘Dear’ when addressing her in public and private.

    3. He will not refer to the penis as his own by use of words that suggests he still has ownership over it.

    4. All body hair must be trimmed and well maintained.  And he must maintain excellent cleanliness of his body and the device.

    a. Weekly nude inspections are mandatory.

    5. He must sleep naked so that she has full access to his body anytime she wants it throughout the night.

    6. He will not question nor nag about the time of chastity and possible release. He no longer owns the penis all rights and ownership belongs to her. The length of time she chooses to lock her penis up and restrict it from orgasm is her right and her decision.

    7. Because the penis is now hers, he must inform her each time he experiences an erection and explain why the erection had taken place.

    8. He will be restricted from viewing pornographic material unless accompanied by her. Personal blogs and Tumblrs are showing adult interest are acceptable.

    9. He is to remain in the chastity device at all times, she will decide if and when it is allowed to be removed.

    10. He will be restrained during times of release. He will not touch the penis unless instructed by her. He will be relocked into chastity device before the restraints are removed.

    11. Sex does not always mean removal of the chastity device, for this reason he must be properly cleaned each night by 7:30.

    12. She will choose when ejaculations occur. If he feels that ejaculation is arriving he must notify her immediately.  He may be brought to the brink of ejaculation many times before being allowed to experience full release.  And she does not have to tell, and may lie about, whether she is going to allow him to orgasm or not.

    13. If ‘accidental’ ejaculation occurs he must be punished by recycling of the seed. No exceptions.

    14. His release is conditional upon completion of tasks/ chores.

    15. He must provide her with treatment worthy of a goddess and will be required to give nightly back rubs.

    16. He will focus only on her pleasure, thoughts of his pleasure will only distract him from properly performing his duties to her high standards.

    17. Time in chastity can always be extended any time she sees fit.

    a. Failure to meet her high standards of performance will result in 2 days time extended in chastity. No exceptions.

    18. Breaking any of these rules will result in punishment and/or time in chastity extended.

    19. If he misbehaves in public all she has to say is a number and he knows that is the amount of days added to his time in chastity.

    20. She has the authority to change/ add any rules anytime she wants.

    I __________________here by agree to these terms


    I __________________here by agree to these terms



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