ohmytinklebell

    Hiii I was just wondering, what are some safe sites to buy diapers or little stuffs from? Some of them look sorta sketchy and I don’t really know where to start? Thank you!!

    I’ll attach links to some of my faves bestie 💕

    I like shopping at Rearz , ABU , and Amazon for bags/cases and Wearingclouds and Myinnerbaby for samples/sample packs. For bottles I like Rearz glass ones. For baby powder I like This from Amazon. For bby clothes I like LFB , LKB , Rearz, and ODU . I’ve heard great things about @babyyourdollco and @lilcomforts1 clothes as well but haven’t tried yet. For cutesie clothes I love Boxlunch , shopdisney , HT , and sugarthrillz . Toys I get all sorts of places like target, amazon, the places listed above, and honestly even eBay for some vintage ones. My favorite toys atm are This and This and This ! For pacis I like Theselfb and Theselfb and Lilcomforts (Rearz has some cute ones but mine deflate too easy). For diaper stickers I love @crinklebuttart CBA (get the clear vinyl type they’re elite). Etsy has tons of other cool abdl shops but I highly recommend always peeping their socials to make sure they don’t support selling to minors as some do. Sorry this got so long but I hope it helps 💕

    anonymous

    which excites you more the thought of giving a blow job or having your girlie bottom pounded? what is the one thing that when you slip it on you immediately feel girlie? thanks

    Hmmm that's more like 2 asks ...

    I like the idea of being railed. Hehe

    acacia-charlotte

    I've seen a bunch of people do this lately so figured I might see what happens

    24/7 diaper challenge

    From now until end of January:

    1 like = 1 day

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    1 new follow = 3 days

    1 comment = 5 days

    Donations welcome, pm me for details. I don't have an Amazon wish list. Can't seem to work it. For each diaper donated it will add an extra day.

    Will be tallied end of Jan.

    Love you all 😘

    acacia-charlotte

    2 days left to continue to add to the time I'm stuck in these dips!

    Changing Schedules and Proper Hygiene

    In the beginning stages of diaper training, you’re probably used to changing whenever your diaper gets soggy. You probably do this to save money and make each diaper count. Isn’t it awesome feeling soggy? Feeling that sense of accomplishment from filling your diaper all the way? You have to stop trying to get the most value out of each diaper. Diapers are here to be used and to take care of your needs. Because of this, changing on a schedule is a fantastic idea to not only incentivize you to drink enough to fully saturate your diaper before you change, it’ll also ensure that you maintain your skin and genital health. Try setting a changing schedule no more than 6 hours apart during the day. If you have a job where you work in an office, start changing your diaper on your lunch break no matter what and then again once you get home, even if you’re dry. A potential changing schedule could look something like this. Change it to your needs and schedule as needed:

  • Wake up, shower, then change into diaper 1 for work.
  • Change into diaper 2 at lunch.
  • When you get home, shower, then change into diaper 3.
  • Train heavily in the evening and then change into diaper 4 to continue training.
  • Change into diaper 5 for bedwetting when you go to bed.
  • By putting yourself on a changing schedule, not only do you keep your skin and genitals healthy, you also keep yourself from smelling. I’ve always recommended wiping your diaper area down with baby wipes in between every change for exactly this reason and to help clean your skin of any bacteria or other contaminants. Sweat, heat, urine, and friction all combine to potentially cause infections and rashes, so the more actions you take to prevent these nasty things, the longer you can stay diapered and the faster your training can happen. In order to maintain high skin and genital health, I’ve also always recommended to get rid of the hair in your diaper area. This includes anywhere your diaper touches. I don’t recommend shaving because it can easily cut or nick your skin, leaving openings for bacteria and other nasty material to get inside your open wound. What I recommend is finding a bikini line trimmer and to gently use that to keep your diaper area neat. You don’t need to completely rid yourself of body hair down there, but you absolutely need to trim it down as short as it can go. Ridding yourself of body hair in this manner also helps you stay smelling fresh because hair holds onto liquids like sweat and pee. When body hair holds onto your sweat and pee, the chances of rashes start going up the longer you wear the same diaper, too. You should find a diaper that you’re able to use up most of the way by the time your scheduled change rolls around. This may be a diaper that’s around 3k or 4k mls rather than the thicker options. There’s no point in wearing a diaper that has a lot of absorbency left if it starts to hurt you, right? Some people like to stay in diapers past when they should have changed because they want to get their money’s worth out of it, potentially damaging their skin and genital health because they wouldn’t want to waste a perfectly good diaper. It’s just safer to change yourself. Furthermore, wearing a diaper that’s about to leak will make your bladder’s muscles clamp down because your body is afraid of leaks. Have you ever experienced this? You probably already have many times before. It’s the same feeling of being in bed with a full bladder; you know you aren’t supposed to wet in bed without a diaper so your bladder kept itself held shut on its own. Finding that perfect diaper for your needs is part of the journey, but the journey is what makes all of this fun. Lastly, introduce cranberry juice into your diet. It helps maintain bladder health and it has a nice side effect of making you pee more. Drinking more than one glass will make you need to poop, though, so be careful!

    This article was written two months ago in my diaper training discord server. Subscribe here to read all of my new unreleased articles and learn everything you need to become diaper dependent. =)

    As always, all of my articles are posted here and you can find all my content here.

    acacia-charlotte

    I've seen a bunch of people do this lately so figured I might see what happens

    24/7 diaper challenge

    From now until end of January:

    1 like = 1 day

    1 repost/share = 1 day

    1 new follow = 3 days

    1 comment = 5 days

    Donations welcome, pm me for details. I don't have an Amazon wish list. Can't seem to work it. For each diaper donated it will add an extra day.

    Will be tallied end of Jan.

    Love you all 😘

    acacia-charlotte

    Oh goodness!!! You've surpassed all my wildest dreams!! Sitting at 1465 days!! 😶😶😶😘

    So.... Basically forever 😶🥰😘🍼

    I've seen a bunch of people do this lately so figured I might see what happens

    24/7 diaper challenge

    From now until end of January:

    1 like = 1 day

    1 repost/share = 1 day

    1 new follow = 3 days

    1 comment = 5 days

    Donations welcome, pm me for details. I don't have an Amazon wish list. Can't seem to work it. For each diaper donated it will add an extra day.

    Will be tallied end of Jan.

    Love you all 😘

    One Year Anniversary

    I cannot believe it, and yet, here it is: I've spent one full year messing my diapers and I still have two full years to go before this challenge expires. I haven't touched a single potty other than my own for cleaning purposes for my guests and I have not once ever used a public bathroom other than to change myself.

    Since I'm at my one year anniversary with two more years ahead of me, I would like to say I'm a third of the way there but I have a feeling that even if I neared the end of this challenge, more and more time would just get added on. That's just how it's always worked throughout this last year, and thanks to a select few of you, I have a feeling I'll never be stopping this fun challenge of mine.

    In the beginning, I thought this challenge would be a month long tops, but little by little, more and more time was put on. Once I hit the six week mark, I saw that I had nearly two whole months to go. I was afraid. I was nervous. And you know what? That's okay. It's okay to feel these feelings; we're only human. None of us can be perfect. I remained strong because while I hadn't enjoyed messing myself in the past, I had made a commitment to this challenge and to all of you to not only mess my diapers regularly and exclusively, I also made a promise to document my journey. I'm documenting all of this not only because I find it rather kinky but also to share my knowledge and experiences in the hopes that it can help someone going through the same things I am. It's also a great way to explore my feelings, too!

    Believe it or not, after a year, I find the act of messing enjoyable. It's something I look forward to in the mornings because it keeps me from spending a lot more time on the potty on my phone. All I have to do is squat down, make pushies in my bedwetting diaper, then wipe myself clean with some wipes. Sounds easy, right? That's because it is. Once you get into a new routine and stick to it for many weeks, that new routine becomes normal and your body gets used to pooping on a regular schedule.

    It's hard to really pin down why messing has become fun for me and I know it sounds weird to say that messing is fun. However, one of the reasons why I enjoy it so much is because it introduced kink back into my diapers, something that I've been missing for a while. Wearing diapers for fun every now and then won't minimize your kink and attraction to diapers, but if you wear them long enough or if you need them, they start to lose that kinky attraction. I've been wearing them for need for many years now, so I was grateful and happy to find something that made diapers kinky and naughty again.

    I found it hard to switch diets and start eating better food in the beginning, but you know what? I have a lot more energy, I sleep better, and I'm not wasting money buying food that's nothing but fat and empty calories. I started out small, introducing more fruit and vegetables into my diet in place of chips or another unhealthy snack. The more healthy food I ate, the easier it became to stay on the straight and narrow path of good food. I've done my best to only eat whole foods. If it came in a bag ready to eat, I wouldn't buy it. I learned how to cook a lot of amazing meals, mostly Mexican-inspired dishes. A lot of my recipes are easy to make, healthy, and it's a great way to bond with your friends, too! Who can say no to some awesome home-cooked Mexican food? My favorite is steak fajitas!

    In order to keep my messes easy to clean, I have to drink more water than I usually would. This helps keep my poop more uniform and easy to clean. I've also been including a lot more fiber into my diet to make it easier to poop. Junk food and overeating always leads to mushy messes, messes that are extremely difficult to clean. I've learned a lot from doing this challenge and I'm still learning. I've adapted to a tough situation and I've come out stronger for it.

    I became a better person because of this challenge and I'm still improving myself every day. I learned what foods I could and couldn't eat. Remember how I talked about getting stomach aches in public and barely making it back to my car before I had to make a mess in my diaper? (Those weren't fun drives home!) I've found that I've grown sensitive to certain foods, foods that I no longer eat. While I do miss those foods sometimes, I do not miss the sudden onset of needing to poop immediately.

    Can you imagine how uncomfortable I felt when I knew my body was going to poop in minutes, especially since I can't stand using public restrooms? If I didn't find a bathroom within a few minutes, I would have to use my diaper against my will. Feeling that anxiety and stress sure didn't help me, either. However, since the whole point of this challenge is to use my diapers exclusively, there was never a point in trying to hold it to get home when it'll just end up in the seat of my diaper. It was only a matter of time until I could get somewhere safe and away from other people to let my body take care of its needs and for my diaper to take care of me. I always carry the necessary supplies with me in case of accidents like these in a bag that's always in the trunk of my car.

    It's a strange feeling giving up control over something so intimate. To give in to the waiting embrace of your diaper for such a private act is surely a display of submission to my diapers. What can I say other than I love it?

    It was hard to get over the idea that it was okay to use a fresh diaper to mess if you had to. Diapers are a few dollars at most, so if you can't help but feel that you have to make pushies in your fresh diaper, then that's what has to happen. I used to feel regret when I did this, but now it has become a calm acceptance of something that must happen. I always asked myself if I wanted to try to hold it and deal with the discomfort until I reach the point where I felt like my diaper was wet enough to make it okay to mess or was the cost of one diaper worth my immediate relief from the pressure building up inside?

    Of course, when put in simple terms like that, the answer was always use your diaper. I wear them to keep me cozy, comfortable, and above all, safe. That's what they're made for. They're literally made to hold all kinds of body waste, regardless of what it is. They're designed to provide relief for when you just can't hold it anymore. I learned to give in and accept the inevitable mess, and looking at how much time I have left, I wonder how my level of control will be once a couple of years have passed. Currently, I'd say I'm at a 6.5 out of 10 for my level of control, though it varies based on what I eat, how much I eat, and other day to day variables.

    About a week and a half ago, I had woken up feeling amazing. Don't know why. As I was stretching, I felt like I had to fart but when I pushed to help things along, I felt something else slide out between my butt cheeks. It was small, but I still had an actual accident while I was still in bed, barely awake. I gave in and pushed as hard as I could, thinking that since I'd just messed myself a little bit, I might as well finish it rather than waiting to get out of bed to finish the job.

    It felt great to mess my diaper in bed. I didn't have to leave my bed's warm embrace and I was able to relieve the pressure in my tummy without a second thought. Making pushies into my diaper has become second nature at this point, but not in my bed. I was surprised at how easy it was to mess myself; maybe it was because I wasn't really paying attention to my body's signals because I was still kinda sorta half asleep? Could it have been a result of that night time messing hypnosis that I've been using? Maybe!

    Will I be able to achieve my kinky dreams of waking up messy? Perhaps. I saw an interesting post the other day about someone taking Miralax and NyQuil in the hopes of waking up messy for their caretaker and they did, making me wonder if I can achieve the same thing. With all the time I've spent playing with my butt plugs and thicker toys combined with a full year of me messing my diapers as soon as I felt the need, surely I would find it easier than most to accomplish what that couple did. I feel a little apprehension though, mainly because I'm not familiar with how either drug affects my body.

    I haven't been sick in years (knock on wood!) so taking a drug to help me sleep while also taking a drug that'll make me poop is something that makes me feel a little uneasy. I think I'd have to first experiment with each separately so I can get a sense of how they'll affect me before I'd combine the two and really give waking up messy a real shot. I've been using the night time messing hypnosis from Baby Pants on and off as my mood and desires swing in regards to waking up messy, but with this new idea in hand, I might just actually achieve my goals and make a lot of you happy and proud of me.

    I cannot have done all of this and gone so far without your support, so I wanted to extend my deepest gratitude and thanks for your gifts and for your motivational comments. I truly love reading what you think of my journey and your words of support have been a significant factor in keeping me motivated. Even liking and reblogging my posts have been very helpful, too!

    As I'm sure you know by now, this journey of mine is not without its costs. I've had to use many more diapers because of this challenge and it's hard to shoulder the costs, especially when you're diaper dependent as I am. Any kind of support would be immensely appreciated and I would be sincerely grateful. As the pinned post says, anything and everything adds time onto the timer. Once I receive stuff, that item's time gets added onto the timer on my Tumblr's pinned post and on my Twitter bio.

    Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/10MYHI152VZRT/

    I also sell the biggest diaper training guide ever! It's over 34k words long and is 57 pages. It is the most up to date training guide around, complete with topics like bedwetting, messing, dating, how to adjust to living your best life back in diapers, and everything in between in order to help you become the person you know you really want to be.

    Patreon helps fund this journey of mine, so a little support truly does go a long way. https://www.patreon.com/DiaperTraining

    Lastly, I want to thank you, the reader, for taking the time to read this. I know it's long but I wanted to make sure that I did a great job on my one year anniversary. Hope you loved it!

    mindlessdiaper

    Do you only mess ag home?

    Well, not necessarily! I can’t always control when I have to go messy in my diaper, so when I travel or go out in public, if I realize I have to go, usually I have like 30 seconds or so before I am physically unable to hold it, so I excuse myself as quickly as possible and hurry to the nearest closest restroom! Once in the restroom, I use my diaper and then change it, I put the tied up messy diaper in a plastic Walmart bag, and then I will place it in the bathroom trash can since those get changed usually very often. (I am rarely in a place where I am unable to discreetly get rid of it) I do this all just because it would NOT be cool for me to poop my pants in public around other people. Worst case scenario, I have a messy accident in my diaper while I am rushing to get to the bathroom, which can’t be helped, but the important thing (to me) is that I do everything in my power to make sure that I do not inconvenience or cross the consent of other people simply by me having this lifestyle.

    dipsandlife

    A lot of girls undergoing diaper training mention that the fact that they aren’t able to feel sexy anymore is one of the biggest drawbacks. A chance to overcome this problem is a professional  photo shooting (which is also a good example for a reward!). Make sure she is wearing one of her favorite diapers (e.g. one with prints) on that certain day. This has two big advantages which will help with her training: On the one hand, seeing herself in a diaper on a photo helps to normalize diaper wearing for her. One the other hand, putting the sexiest pictures in a frame and telling her how cute / sexy she is every once in a while gives her further encouragement to consider her diaper as her regular underwear, after all, as soon as she realizes that you as her boyfriend think it is sexy, there is nothing left to worry about.