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    Keuschheitsregeln

    √úbersetzt aus dem Englischen von rogersxworld.tumblr.com

    Quelle: http://chastitycouples.tumblr.com/

    Grundregeln f√ľr Anf√§nger. Der Schl√ľssel ist, sich strikt daran zu halten und jede Regel zu befolgen.

    1.) √úbernimm die Kontrolle seiner Orgasmen

    ·         Er muss rund um die Uhr einen Peniskäfig tragen. 24/7.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Du solltest seinen K√§fig verschlie√üen und als einziger einen Schl√ľssel haben. Du kannst auch ein Zahlenschloss verwenden.

    ·         Lass ihn nur nach deinem Ermessen raus, und nur um ihn zu necken.

    ·         Sage ihm, dass er keine Art von Orgasmus ODER Erektion (!) ohne deine Erlaubnis mehr haben darf.

    ·         Ruiniere seine Orgasmen. Das betont deine Kontrolle und stimuliert seine Frustration.

    ·         Er darf nur noch kommen, wenn er einen Buttplug und deine Unterwäsche trägt. Du kannst ihn auch knebeln.

    ·         Ficke ihn mit einem Umschnalldildo und lass ihn wie eine echte Sissy kommen.

    ·         Melke seine Prostata.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Fessele jedes Mal seine H√§nde (Handschellen oder Seil), wenn du ihn aus seinem Penisk√§fig l√§sst. Viele M√§nner widersetzen sich nach einem Orgasmus oder √ľbernehmen die Kontrolle, wenn du sie an den Rand eines Orgasmus bringst/den Orgasmus ruinierst.

    Jedes Mal wenn du ihn kommen l√§sst, musst du den Orgasmus ruinieren. Danach l√§sst du ihn sein Sperma auflecken. Du kannst ihn an den Rand eines Orgasmus bringen (engl. ‚Äěto edge‚Äú) und ihm verbieten zu kommen. Du musst ihn lehren, dass er keinen Orgasmus haben darf. Wenn doch, dann musst du ihn sein Sperma auflecken lassen.

    Ruiniert -> auflecken

    Ausversehen -> auflecken

    Nur necken und edgen! Edge ihn jeden Tag!

    2.) Keuschheitsg√ľrtel/Penisk√§fige

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Lass ihn sich einen sicheren K√§fig kaufen, wie den Jailbird, Holy Trainer oder Metallk√§fige mit einem Einsatz f√ľr die Harnr√∂hre. Stell sicher, dass er die richtige Gr√∂√üe nimmt, damit er nicht raus kommt. Du kannst viele K√§fige ausbruchsicher machen, indem du medizinischen Kleber benutzt. Die beste M√∂glichkeit ist ein PA-Piercing. Es wird empfohlen die Vorhaut mit Superkleber zusammenzukleben, damit er nicht versucht auszubrechen. Das sch√§digt nicht die Haut, aber klebt ungef√§hr eine Woche.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Die besten K√§fige k√∂nnen rund um die Uhr getragen werden und m√ľssen nur selten gereinigt werden. Er kann ihn in der Dusche reinigen, indem er Seife im K√§fig platziert und mit dem Duschkopf einen harten Strahl direkt auf den K√§fig richtet. Das reinigt den Penis gr√ľndlich und es gibt keinen Grund ihn rauszulassen.

    ·         Auch das Rasieren funktioniert während der Käfig getragen wird. Schieb ihn einfach etwas zur Seite um die schwer zu erreichenden Stellen zu rasieren.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Wenn er aus irgendeinem Grund seinen Penis manuell reinigen muss, dann beaufsichtige das oder sag ihm, dass nur du seinen Penis ber√ľhren darfst. Es ist ihm verboten allein mit ihm zu spielen.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Schreibe deinen Namen auf seinen Penis bevor du ihn im Penisk√§fig verschlie√üt. So kannst du √ľberpr√ľfen ob er schummelt.

    ¬†F√ľr ihn ist es abgefahren, einen K√∂rperteil √ľber einen Monat nicht ber√ľhren zu d√ľrfen, wenn er gewohnt war es jede Stunde zu tun.

    3.) Schaffe es in seinen Kopf hinein!

    ·         Bring in Erfarhung was ihn anmacht und was seine Fantasien sind.

    ·         Necke ihn mit seinen Fantasien, wann immer möglich.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Lass ihn st√§ndig deine Unterh√∂schen tragen. Shirt, halterlose Str√ľmpfe, Socken, alles um ihn daran zu erinnern, dass er deine Schlampe ist - egal wo er ist.

    ·         Lass ihn diese Regeln unterschreiben, ohne dass er sie vorher lesen darf. Er wird wahrscheinlich Freude an der Keuschhaltung haben.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Er muss versprechen diese Regeln strikt zu befolgen. Du k√∂nntest ihm drohen ihn zu verlassen, wenn er sich nicht daran h√§lt. Dar√ľber wird er sich schnell im Klaren sein.

    ·         Erkläre ihm, dass er nur Prostata-Orgasmen haben wird. Sissys sollten wie echte Mädchen kommen.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Lass ihn sich seinen GANZEN K√∂rper rasieren! Es gibt nichts Sch√∂neres als einen weichen K√∂rper nachts neben sich im Bett zu sp√ľren. Die Haare werden nachwachsen, er muss sich also st√§ndig darum k√ľmmern.

    4.) Du musst ihn so lange und so oft wie möglich sexuell erregen

    ·         Mach ihn an. Zieh sexy Sachen an.

    ·         Rede heiß mit ihm (Dirty Talk).

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Sag ihm, dass du ihn etwas Dem√ľtigendes tun lassen wirst.

    ·         Streichele ihn ihm Schritt oder lass ihn dich im Schritt streicheln.

    ·         Lass ihn, immer wenn ihr ausgeht, einen Buttplug oder einen Prostata-Massierer tragen.

    ·         Schick ihm Textnachrichten mit sexuellen Aufgaben.

    ·         Lass ihn dir häufig Orgasmen besorgen.

    ·         Edge ihn.

    ·         Melke seine Prostata.

    5.) Lass ihn etwas Dem√ľtigendes tun und schau wann er alles f√ľr dich tun wird

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Reize ihn bis kurz vor dem Orgasmus, dann befiehl ihm etwas wirklich Dem√ľtigendes zu tun. Er wird es tun.

    ·         Lass ihn eine Zeit lang einen Buttplug tragen.

    ·         Trainiere ihn, dass du ihn mit deinem Umschnalldildo ficken kannst.

    ·         Lass ihn nackt sein, wenn du es nicht bist

    ·         Lass ihn immer, IMMER, sein eigenes Sperma auflecken nachdem du seinen Orgasmus ruiniert hast, egal wo er hingespritzt hat. Setz dich auf sein Gesicht nach dem er in dich hinein gespritzt hat, lass ihn deine Hand ablecken oder gibt ihm einen Zungenkuss!

    6.) Egal was du tust oder wo du bist, finde einen Weg ihn zu erregen

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Streichele ihn in der √Ėffentlichkeit (oder privat) durch die Hose hindurch im Schritt.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Fl√ľstere ihm sexy oder dem√ľtigende Dinge ins Ohr.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Lass ihn f√ľr dich nach Dessous oder Toys shoppen.

    ·         Hinterlasse kleine Nachrichten mit Befehlen wie: “Ich möchte dich verschlossen und plugged mit diesen Dingern sehen, wenn ich nach Hause komme"

    7.) Halte deine Schuldgef√ľhle im Zaum

    ·         Ihm sollte verboten werden jegliche Art von Orgasmus zu haben, ohne dass du es erlaubst.

    ·         Wenn du glaubst, dass er einen Orgasmus verdient hat … ruiniere ihn!

    ·         Denk dran, du kannst ihm diverse Orgasmen am Tag ruinieren, aber er kann nur einen vollständigen haben.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Vollst√§ndige Orgasmen sollten f√ľr besondere Tage aufgehoben werden (nicht mehr als 3-4 Mal im Jahr)

    Extra Sissy-Regeln:

    ·         Eine Sissy muss Damen-Slips tragen. Er trägt keine Männer-Unterhosen.  Nimm ihm seine Unterwäsche weg, und ersetze sie entsprechend.

    ·         Eine Sissy kann einen BH und pinke oder auffällig bunte Leggings tragen. Leggings und Nylons sind unabdingbar!

    ·         Eine Sissy muss in Dessous schlafen. Wenn er keine hat, muss er nackt schlafen.

    ·         Wenn alleine, muss eine Sissy als Mädchen angezogen sein. Gute Sissys tragen Lippenstift auf, wenn sie alleine sind.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Eine Sissy sorgt immer daf√ľr, keine Gesichtsbehaarung zu haben und ist auch ansonsten gepflegt. Er muss stets pr√§sentierbar und bereit sein zu befriedigen.

    ·         Gute Sissys rasieren ihre Beine.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Eine Sissy darf sich niemals ohne explizite Erlaubnis seines Herren oder seiner Herrin selbst sexuell ber√ľhren.

    ·         Eine Sissy muss so viele pinke und mädchenhafte Dinge tragen wie möglich.

    ·         Sissy muss ständig mindestens Damenhöschen und BH tragen.

    ·         Sissy muss unterhalb des Halses ständig rasiert sein.

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Sissy darf nicht ohne Erlaubnis masturbieren, und wenn die Erlaubnis gegeben wird, dann muss es auf schlampige, dem√ľtigende Sissyweise durchf√ľhrt werden, die die Position des Herren/Herrin best√§tigt.

    Ein paar Texte um ihn geil zu machen:

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† ‚ÄěIch liebe es an deinen Schwanz im K√§fig zu denken.‚Äú

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† ‚ÄěIch denke an dich in mir drin. Vielleicht lasse ich dich heute Abend.‚Äú

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† ‚ÄěLust auf einen Blowjob?‚Äú Er sagt ‚Äėja‚Äô. ‚ÄěZu schade, dass du im K√§fig bist.‚Äú

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† ‚ÄěWie willst du mich √ľberzeugen, dass ich dich heute Abend aus dem K√§fig lasse?‚Äú

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† ‚ÄěIch bin gerade wirklich geil. Komm, mach es mir.‚Äú

    ¬∑¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Eine Liste von Aufgaben mit der letzten Aufgabe den ‚ÄúSchwanz aus dem Penisk√§fig lassen‚ÄĚ

    lockedstudent93-deactivated2019

    *english below* Das erste Mal hab ich gestern mit meiner Kette, die mich als ‚ÄúBesitz‚ÄĚ markiert das Haus verlassen und den Unterricht der Universit√§t besucht. Ich hatte gro√üe Sorgen, jemand k√∂nnte merken warum ich sie trage und was wirklich hinter diesem unscheinbaren Studenten steckt. So ging ich, mit der Kette pr√§sent um den Hals und nat√ľrlich meinem Penis im Keuschheitsk√§fig verschlossen, nerv√∂s aus dem Haus, nachdem ich allen Mut zusammen genommen hatte. ‚ÄúDu hast ja ne schwere Kette um‚ÄĚ, bemerkte ein Kommilitone in der Universit√§t, sonst habe ich keine Bemerkungen bekommen. Entweder weil niemand die Kette registriert hat, sich niemand getraut hat mich darauf anzusprechen oder jeder einfach wusste: ‚ÄúAh, da ist wieder ein Sub mehr am Start‚ÄĚ. Danke Master, dass du mir bei meiner Selbstverwirklichung so hilfst, von heute an wird die Kette ein fester Bestandteil meines Outfits sein :) The first time I left yesterday with my chain, which marks me as ‚Äúpossession‚ÄĚ the house and attended the lessons of the university. I was very worried, someone might realize why I‚Äôm wearing them and what‚Äôs really behind this nondescript student. So I went, with the chain present around the neck and of course closed my penis in the chastity cage, nervously out of the house, after I had taken all courage together. ‚ÄúYou have a heavy chain around,‚ÄĚ said a fellow student at the university, otherwise I got no comments. Either because no one has registered the chain, no one dared to talk to me about it or everyone just knew: ‚ÄúAh, there is again a sub more at the start‚ÄĚ. Thank you, Master, for helping me with my self-realization, from now on the chain will be a part of my normal outfit :)

    boner2010

    Jetzt nimmt die Erziehung Fahrt auf.

    embarrassedboys

    Hey guys! i recently read the story "surprise me" Are there any more like this that you have?

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    Been meaning to compile a master post of ongoing series on Embarrassed Boys, and this seems like as good an opportunity as any! See below for a selection of the site’s longer tales of embarrassment!

    The Patient - Documenting the case file of a very horny patient and his unscrupulous medical team‚Äôs efforts to ‚Äúsave‚ÄĚ him from his own cock‚Ķ

    The Computer - Being caught jerking off at the computer is only the start of a bizarre chain of events that leaves an embarrassed boy enslaved to a machine…

    The Benevolent Owner - Follows the exploits of ‚Äúvisitors‚ÄĚ to the vast, opulent complex of a wealthy recluse and their decent into becoming mindless puppets for the billionaire‚Äôs amusement‚Ķ

    WAIT - One simple simple set of instructions. One rule to remember. One incredible experience…

    The Demonstration - A new wonder drug and its miraculous abilities are seeking investors for mass marketing this revolutionary product. But first, a demonstration is in order…

    Shower Fun - ‚ÄúDaddy‚ÄĚ supervises shower time, and makes sure every part of his embarrassed boy is going to be squeaky clean‚Ķ

    Hypno Porno - a loose collection of incidents linked by a mysterious porno which has found itself being passed from one unsuspecting party to another, endlessly claiming more reprogrammed victims…

    Surprise Me - Peek at the secretive phenomenon that is ‚ÄúSurprise Me‚ÄĚ and its reluctant stars‚Ķ

    Caught in the locker room - A fan submitted story about an unlucky college kid and the unfortunate events that happen in the campus gym’s locker room…

    Homeward Bound - A lost puppy making his way back to its owner, and the adventures he has on the journey home…

    Inspected - A real life embarrassed boy recounts the time he submitted to a cam session with Embarrassed Boys…

    The dream - These dreams are always very similar but still so confusing… what can they all mean?

    The Rack - A self bondage session gone wrong, and a friend only too keen to help a buddy out… eventually…

    The Pool Boy - a chance encounter in the back yard leads to a very eventful house sitting job…

    The Hunt - There’s vulnerable prey being pursued through the forest - the odds of escape seem slim, but all the time they are able to elude capture means there’s still a chance of survival…

    Bigger Brother - A reality show with contestants visiting ‚ÄúThe confession Room‚ÄĚ to confide in Bigger Brother - Bigger Brother sees all, knows all, and controls all within the Bigger Brother house‚Ķ Who wins? Who Loses? Only Bigger Brother will decide‚Ķ

    Come On Up - A soon to be embarrassed boy gets more than he bargained for when hearrives at an apartment for a kink session and gets invited up wearing only his birthday suit…

    Spider-Sub - A trick or treat visit blossoms into a kinkier relationship…

    Guest of Honor - A willing plaything is invited over to an unexpected gathering that he won’t soon forget…

    The Maid - the story of one privileged boy’s embarrassing journey into becoming the willing submissive of his wealthy family’s employee…

    Happy Anniversary - A couple accidentally find themselves celebrating their 1st anniversary in bondage… and the unexpected direction it takes their relationship…

    As Long as There’s an Audience -  Audiences are flocking to see the hottest ticket in town… however, despite the rave reviews and critical acclaim, for the embarrassed actor who finds himself the star of the show this is no mere performance piece…

    Reluctant Model - a shy model agrees to help out with his friend’s art project, and now finds himself part of a very embarrassing photo shoot…

    The Games - ‚ÄúWOULD YOU LIKE TO PLAY A GAME?‚ÄĚ These embarrassed boys find themselves taking bondage to the next level‚Ķ whether they want to or not‚Ķ

    Hypno Houseboi - A spinoff from the hypno porno  series…a helpless tenant set up by his landlord with the mind controlling movie is now signed up to a very different sort of contract… and powerless against his master’s instructions…

    One Of The Guys - An embarrassed boy’s attempts to make friends though his more… secretive hobbies takes an interesting turn when one of his playmates discovers his kinkier interests… which is when he truly starts to become one of the guys…

    boner2010

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    m4mdiscipline

    How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

    1:  You  need to get into his head.

    -Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

    -Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

    -Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

    - Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy. ¬†Don‚Äôt hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is ‚Äúlosing the privacy.‚ÄĚ ¬†

    -Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

    - Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

    2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

    - Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

    - You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

    - Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

    - Long term bondage

    - Corner time

    - Food restrictions

    - Writing standards/lines\

    - Write a book report or essay.

    - Ground him/take away privileges.

    - Wash his mouth out with soap.

    - Make him do anything he hates.

    - Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

    - Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

    3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

    - Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

    -Humiliate him often.

    - 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

    - If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

    - Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

    - Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

    4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

    - Talk sexy to him.

    -Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

    - Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

    - Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

    - Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

    - Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

    - Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

    - Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

    - Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

    5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

    - ¬† ¬† ¬†Your sub needs You to be strong ‚Äúwith‚ÄĚ him. ¬†You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

    -      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

    -      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

    -      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

    -      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

    -      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

    -      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

    -      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

    6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

    - Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

    - Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

    - Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

    - Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

    - Teach them ‚Äútricks‚ÄĚ like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc. ¬†In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

    - Make him masturbate for You.

    - Slap him in the face.

    - Spit on him.

    - Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

    - Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

    - Talk down to him in front of others

    7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

    - If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

    - Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

    - Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

    - Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

    - Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

    - Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

    8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has. ¬†Make sure You are at the top of that list. ¬†One great way to do this is to deny him things. ¬†Yep, it‚Äôs time to say ‚ÄúNo.‚ÄĚ ¬†Subs need boundaries, and saying ‚ÄúNo‚ÄĚ is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

    - You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

    - Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

    - Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

    - You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

    - Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

    9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

    - If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

    -  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

    -Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

    -  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

    - Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

    - If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

    -Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

    - By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

    -Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family. ¬†Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he ‚Äúhelps‚ÄĚ them by being a good friend or family member. ¬†Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is ‚Äúsecond‚ÄĚ to the happiness that he brings them. ¬†Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

    Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

    domgayhusbands

    Amazing list and great advice ūüėćūüėć

    masterwalterblog

    Some really good advice and tips!¬

    torturesadist

    Many great things here to think and decide upon for us Dom, Masters and Owners.

    For me, since I enjoy things much more extreme, there is much that I would and be more extreme with. The big thing for me is that eventually I will searching for slaves and objects, which are much submissive than subs. One big thing for me is that I would search for slaves and objects that either have no family and no ties or ones that the relationships that they have need to be broken off as I need 100 percent of their focus.   Many slaves and objects are not able to discern just what their needs are or even what they are. It is job of us Masters and Owners to show it was it is and what they are and then make it the best that it can be. That being said, since I want a closed family that has practically no outside interaction, the need to accomodate family, friends and work would be zero. Finding these types of candidates are harder to find and can be much more costly. If for cost needs, I might be persuaded to have a high Alpha who helps run the household that will have a priority of some employment (not career), unless I end up finding another Master/Owner as a lover that contributes to the household.

    Yes, I agree that number 1 is essential to get inside the slave or objects head to find everything out. it needs to understand that I am the only reason that it exists and survives. slaves and objects usually have fear that prevents them from seeing what it is. Hypnosis is great for teaching and reinforcement.

    slaves and objects needs punishment and discipline. Having the punishments fit the crime is very essential for slaves and objects because each are different. objects would not get punishments that require human skills as a slave would, since they rare understand human skills. slaves have the human abilities to household serve, whereas objects serve by being inanimate, torture and entertainment.

    Yes, I do believe in keeping slaves and object in pain and horny. it has to learn that everything is because of being Owned and it needs constant reminders of Ownership. This is why it exists. For me, on objects, I prefer never to do things like amputation or castration. I may kill off the limb or keep it horny, only for it to realise what is no longer useful or has control of. It is more humiliating to know that it once had that. If the limb is gone, it will tend to forget that it had that.

    Yes, slaves and objects especially need to constantly broken down and degraded to mold it in to what it needs to be at that current moment. That will change as time moves on. So this has to be pretty much daily.

    Yes, slaves and objects need to be controlled 100 percent as most are not able to be full humans that can control their own lives. Especially objects, since it has no concept of what it really is. objects need micro-managing and that takes assistance from slaves, alphas, handlers or other Owners/Masters. slaves have the brain capacity to reason, learn and to an Owners bidding with just 100 percent supervision.

    slaves need to be grateful for being owned and has someone to serve. objects need to know that without ownership, it does not exist. This is very important as once it is fully broken as an object, it will never again be able to exist without Ownership. It is imperative that either plans are in place for objects if something happens to the Owner. This can be transfer of ownership, preferably, or just plans of what is to be done with an objects remains or how one cares for an invalid human. The longer that it is in objectification, the less that it can do for itself or regain, it is really just an invalid.

    As for the last item, Trust, slaves and objects need trust and reassurance much less than subs. Since both slaves and objects are 100 percent dependent on you and your servants, they exist to serve and serve to exist. Especially objects, when 100 percent of its humanity is gone, objects wither very quickly. Slaves do reassurance and trust in the beginning that it is doing the right thing submitting. objects, on the other, need to start seeing and accepting what it is and voluntary surrender to it. Once it sees what it is, the Owner take Ownership of the object. Keeping in mind that it may be overcome with fear realising this. This is when objects just need to be taken off the grid.

    lockedlatex

    Yes Sir. This is such a great list.

    slutmasteruk

    Forced to piss itself and then expose itself for the entertainment of real men. This little cunt has potential.

    faggotsexposure

    FAGGOT’S TOTAL PUBLIC EXPOSURE AND DEGRADATION no way to go back, to control or to stop it

    Help this fantastic filthy nasty young slut faggot to be exposed and fucked up more and more all over the web! Out and ruin it, spreading its pics everywhere!

    boner2010

    Und die Schlampe wird auch noch steif dabei. So eine Sau gehört ausgestellt!