Just to be clear…

    Dominance isn’t about sex.

    A D/s relationship isn’t about bondage and toys.

    TPE isn’t about keeping a sex slave.

    I post a lot of porn because, well, let’s face it: we all love porn. But the sexual aspect forms such a small part of the whole that I sometimes feel like I’m doing it a disservice with my blog.

    Dominance is being there for her.

    Dominance is working through her meltdowns.

    Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.

    Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.

    Dominance is tucking her in at night.

    Dominance is telling her no.

    Dominance is quieting her demons.

    Dominance is being her bastion of strength.

    Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.

    Dominance is encouraging her.

    Dominance is comforting her in the middle of the night when she’s had a nightmare.

    Dominance is guiding her.

    Dominance is building her.

    Dominance is love.


    On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.

    Submission is about being there for him.

    Submission is about being that consistent person for him.

    Submission is building him up and letting him know he’s loved and valued.

    Submission is about listening when you want to speak.

    Submission is about running to the drug store when he is under the weather.

    Submission is helping him get ready for work when he is running late.

    Submission is letting him lead, even when it’s hardest.

    Submission is being his cheerleader.

    Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what he deserves.

    Submission is having his back.

    Submission is being the hand that reaches for his in the middle of the night.

    Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways.


    Beautifully written.


    All of this ^^^


    You guys gotta understand I cannot handle normal doms I need a daddy dom lol

    So many “be good now or else” “no one cares you pathetic little baby” comments

    I melt for “mmhm sure princess (destroys me)” “careful, baby…(gives me THAT look)” “are you bratting for attention or punishment, sweetheart (said an inch from my face and fingers tracing my jaw)”


    Easy enough for a daddy Dom to do.


    The one about bratting for attention made my panties wet 😅 I need a daddy.



    2. Do you enjoy being fingered/fingering?

    Yeeeeessss 🥵 but my husband never does it for me.

    4. What do you do directly after sex?

    I pee and clean up so I don’t get an infection lmao 😅

    6. What’s the nastiest sexual thing you’ve done?

    Probably ate ass 😏

    12. Riding dick or doggy style?

    Doggy. All day every day, doggy.


    Wore a short skirt with no panties yesterday while I was doing some chores around the house, and giiiiiirl, my boyfriend has never fucked me harder. Literally just pushed me over the kitchen island, flipped my skirt up and went for it. 🥵😍🥵😍 I feel like I have you (and Hubs and A) to thank for that. We live together, just us and I don't think that's gonna be the last time it happens. 😁😁

    Now this is the interaction we hope to get..

    Do you both read our blog?

    I'm happy we can inspire some hot sexiness for you two. Enjoy yourselves and take your sexy opportunities when you can.

    We do. Every. chance. we. get. 😈😈


    Now THIS is what I aim to do when I live with my future gf 😏🥵❤️


    Someone do this to meeeeeee


    36 37

    36. Do you like car sex?

    I’ve never had it, but I’d 100% be down. I’ll literally have sex anywhere.

    37. You instantly get horny; what happened?

    Guys, I live in a state of constant horniness. I just masturbated 20 minutes ago and I’m already feeling the urge to do it again. Something that instantly gets me horny though is a dominant man.



    5. Cuddle with the tip in?

    Yeeeeees. I’ve never been with anyone who wanted to do this but it sounds so intimate and cozy. Make me your cock warmer ❤️

    7. Name a follower you would fuck.

    Idk if I know any of you well enough to admit I’d like to fuck you. There are a few, but I don’t want anyone to be weirded out by me 😅

    8. Name a follower you have fucked.

    Nobody recently, since I’m married. But a few years ago I had a relationship with a follower and he came to visit me for my birthday and I fucked him like twice a day.