Basic Advice

    It’s simple.  To be girly-fit, a boy should not only drink lots of water and stay well-hydrated, he should also wear padded sports bras.  There would certainly be many great tips and tricks for a girly boy to lose fat, get healthy, or become more athletic, but at the ground level, these two things should be basic.

    Obviously, panties, leggings, cute shoes, etc. etc. should be considered.  Clean eating and portion control as well as a healthy balance of resistance training and cardiovascular exercise would be essential.  But again, think of the basics and implement them as often as possible.

    Let’s all drink lots of water and wear padded sports bras tomorrow! :)

    CandieHart

    Sexism in Autism Spectrum research.

    Besides the fact that many research projects end up with a bigger proportion of autistic men participants, there's also this new trend of separating "male autism" from "female autism".

    These (inaccurate) stereotypes talk about how autistic women seem to have more feminine interests and are better at camouflaging and portray men as isolated nerds who only care about science.

    There are many reasons for why this is harmful.

    1. Many men have "female autism" and many women have "male autism". I'm a girl, yet I (kind of) fit the male autism stereotype better. This is proof that the stereotype isn't as accurate as some people think.

    2. This view of gendered autism ignores the experiences of many gender non comforming, transgender and intersex autistic people who may have had a less binary experience when it comes to gender expectations and gender roles.

    3. As far as I know, there's no scientific proof of this phenomenon being real. Another likely explanation for why many women go undiagnosed is that certain autism traits (i.e. being shy, being bad at sports, being sensitive, etc) are seen as typical "girl stuff", while the same traits may be seen as unusual in boys.

    4. I have the theory that saying "hey the reason why she didn't get diagnosed is because women have different traits!" is sort of a scapegoat to ignore the sexism that some professionals perpetuate. It's easier to blame autism itself than someone's incompetence.

    5. Some men with "female autism" might go undiagnosed, since many professionals might only consider "female autism" traits to be an "only girls" thing.

    6. This could potentially create unfair expectations in therapy. I was expected to be able to "camouflage" with other people (especially other women) and since I wasn't able to do so, I wasn't "trying hard enough".

    I think this new trend is as harmful as the stereotype that mostly men are autistic. Sexism in neurodivergent spaces is still sexism.

    anonymous

    Sweetie when we saw the the name of your blog we laughed, it's long story I'm quite sure your not interested, my name is Cassandra, her name is Rebecca, our last Bear .

    Its my nickname lol and I'm always up for a good story even if it's long lol.

    I’m a Leo, and normally I dont get into the whole reblog thing but 7years of bad luck,not into that,so here’s what its about.

    1.. ARIES- the liar

    (the Ram - 21 March 19 April) * Outgoing. * Lovable. * Spontaneous. * Not one to mess with. * Funny. * EXCELLENT kisser. * EXTREMELY adorable. * Loves relationships. * Addictive. * Loud. 16 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    2. TAURUS - The Tramp

    (the Bull - 20 April 20 May) * Aggressive. * Loves being in long relationships. * Likes to give a good fight for what they want. * Extremely outgoing. * Loves to help people in times of need. * GOOD kisser. * GOOD personality. * Stubborn but a caring person. * One of a kind. * Not one to mess with. * Usually are the most attractive people. 15 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    3. GEMINI - Irresistible

    (the Twins - 21 May 21 June) * Nice. * Love is one of a kind. * Great listener. * Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. * Trustworthy. * Always happy. * Loud. * Talkative. * Not one to mess with. * Freak. * Outgoing. * VERY Forgiving. * Loves to make friends. * Has a beautiful smile. * Generous. * Strong. * The Irresistible one. 9 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    4.  CANCER - The Cutie

    (the Crab - 22 June 22 July) * Most AMAZING kisser..Very high appeal. * Love is one of a kind. * Very romantic. * Most caring person you will ever meet! * Very creative. * Extremely random and proud of it. * Freak. * Spontaneous. * Great at telling stories. * Not a fighter, but will knock your lights out if it comes down to it. * Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    5. LEO - The Lion

    (the Lion - 23 July - 22 August) * Great talker. * Attractive and passionate. * Laid back. * Knows how to have fun. * Is really good at almost anything. * GREAT kisser. * Unpredictable. * Outgoing. * Down to earth. * Addictive. * Attractive. * Loud. * Loves being in long relationships. * Talkative. * Not one to mess with. * Freak. * Rare to find. * Good when found. 7 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    6. VIRGO - The One that Waits

    (the Virgin - 23 August 22 September) * Dominant in relationships. * Someone loves them right now. * Always wants the last word. * Caring. * Smart. * Loud. * Loyal. * Easy to talk to. * Everything you ever wanted. * Easy to please. * The one and only. 7 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    7. LIBRA - The AWESOME One

    (the Balance - 23 September 23 October) * Nice to everyone they meet. * Their Love is one of a kind. * Independent, yet likes company * Great kisser. * Always smiling, loves to laugh. * Silly, fun and sweet. * Have own unique sex appeal. * Most caring person you will ever meet! * However not the kind of person you want to mess with…you might end   up crying. 9 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    8. SCORPIO - The Addict

    (the Scorpion - 24 October 21 November) * EXTREMELY adorable. *Good Lover * Intelligent. * Loves to joke. * Very good sense of humor. * Energetic. * GOOD kisser. * Always get what they want. * Attractive. * Easy going. * Loves being in long relationships. * Talkative. * Romantic. * Caring. 4 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    9. SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One

    (the Archer - 22 November 21 December) * Spontaneous. * High appeal. * Rare to find. * Great when found. * Loves being in long relationships. * So much love to give. * Not one to mess with. * Very attractive. * Very romantic. * Nice to everyone they meet. * Their Love is one of a kind. * Silly, fun and sweet. * Have their own unique appeal. * Most caring person you will ever meet! * Not the kind of person you wanna fuck with because you might end up   crying. 4 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    10. CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover

    (the Goat - 22 December 19 January) * Love to bust. * Nice. * Sassy. * Intelligent. * Sexy. * Irresistible. * Loves being in long relationships. * Great talker. * Always gets what he or she wants. * Cool. * Loves to own Gemini’s in sports. * Extremely fun. * Loves to joke. * Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    11. AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water

    (the Water Bearer - 20 January 18 February) * Trustworthy. * Attractive. * GREAT kisser. * One of a kind. * Loves being in long-term relationships. * Extremely energetic. * Unpredictable. * Will exceed your expectations. * Not a Fighter, but will knock your lights out if it comes down to it. 2 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.

    12. PISCES - The Partner for Life

    (the Fishes - 19 February 20 March) * Caring and kind. * Smart. * Center of attention. * High appeal. * Has the last word. * Good to find, hard to keep. * Fun to be around. * Extremely weird but in a good way. * Good Sense of Humor!!! * Thoughtful. * Always gets what he or she wants. * Loves to joke. * Very popular. * Silly, fun and sweet. * Loves being in long relationships. 2 years of bad luck if you do not reblog.