no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s
no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s
everybody straight till the narrative foil walk in
dude the abyss is totally gazing back at you. she obviously wants you. go over there and talk to her! get her number
i want an ancient elaborate dagger with my name engraved into the blade as a gift. the only romantic gesture
shoutout to everyone dealing with. thhe fucking difficulty
100 days of favorite charactersΒ β Β day 38 - jack rackham (black sails)
βyou people, incapable of accepting the world as it isβ says the man to whom the world handed everything. if no anne, if no rescue, if this is defeat for me, then know this - you and i were neck and neck in this race right till the end, but jesus did i make up a lot of ground to catch you.
incredibly brave of me to get through the days
i donβt say it enough but. discipline is the good sister of chronic mental illness. at one point only your own relationship w your sadness will determine wether youβre able to stand up after crying for 10 minutes in a public bathroom, methodically dry your tears, and tell yourself βok, Iβve cried about this, nowΒ Iβll do my best to get out of here and go to my car and then homeβ knowing youβve already prepared yourself dinner, in case you got too sad after that one thing that always upsets you. itβs knowing yourself. itβs taking care of who you are, day in & day out. who else can do it this tenderly?
youβre stuck with this thing, be it mood swings or depressive episodes or paralyzing anxiety or anything, really, and yet you have to clean your house, get yourself some food, check your emails. to learn how to do all those things even when youβre in the midst of a crisis is to educate your body, and with it your mind, to justβ¦stand up, and physically do them as soon as possible. you have to keep listening to your mood, & be aware that yeah, maybe you wonβt get everything done today, but that you are starting. and it does work. itβs an act of love, in a way. and as love is, itβs messy, it doesnβt always look very pretty, and itβs also damn easy to overlook. itβs being kind to yourself, despite everything, every single time, because youβre worth the effort.Β
itβs like the poem kindness by naomi shihab nye (this is only a fragment):
Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing. (β¦) Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoes and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread, only kindness that raises its head from the crowd of the world to say It is I you have been looking for, and then goes with you everywhere like a shadow or a friend.
Armin Blasbichler,Β T III, 2009 [Inception Door] -Β 585 mounted diapositives of Pantone swatches, laminated glass, wood frame | H 211cm, W 97cm
People who love cold weather are fucking weird. You like to freeze? You like to shiver?? You like when you take a step outside and the air stings your skin???
photo: a sticker of a wizard, a white, 3 legged animal with a hairy back leg and simple smiley face, wearing a witch hat, stands in the corner of a metal bust stop window. above it, a speech bubble reads, "wizards is an animal." end ID.
little ghoul
quick who wants to confess their undying love 4 me before pride month ends
tumblr isn't a blogging website its a playground at lunch and we're all playing vampires and wizards and pirates and werewolves