Sometimes Bigger is Better
Sometimes, your wife wants a bigger, better dick. Donât deny her that pleasure.
Give her what she wants, cuckold. Make her a happy hotwife. Let her enjoy a man with a big, rock hard cock.
She wants someone that can fill her and stretch her. She wants someone that can reach places your cock simply canât go. Why would you deny her that pleasure?
Doesnât she deserve this? Doesnât she deserve a chance to sit on a big cock and fill it hit crazy depths? Doesnât she deserve to cum on him? Doesnât she deserve the kind of orgasm only a big cock can give her?
Does your cock fill her like that? Does your cock reach those places inside her? Does your cock make her feel stretched out? Of course not. Thatâs why youâre a cuckold. Thatâs why your dick isnât worthy of your wifeâs pussy.
Imagine her sitting on a bigger cock, cuckold. Imagine the moans of pleasure youâd hear. Theyâd be unlike anything youâve ever produced. Theyâd be loud and lustful. Sheâd cum multiple times on him. She never cums on you.
A man with a big cock can do anything he wants to your wife. Once she has him inside her sheâll be cock drunk. Sheâll do whatever it takes to get him inside her again. Sheâs been deprived, having only your little dick inside her. Now sheâs hooked on something better.
You know she deserves something better than the disappointing cock between your legs. Youâve always known it. Itâs time to admit it. Itâs time to get your wife the big cock she craves.
His Cum In Your Wife
This is what you crave more than anything. To see another manâs cum running out of your wifeâs pussy is the ultimate cuckold pleasure, and something youâve fantasized about from the start. Youâve always been turned on by the idea of her sleeping with other people, but itâs the notion of someone cumming inside her that truly makes your cock stiff. Did you ever think it would happen? Did you ever think your beautiful, sensual wife would have unprotected sex with someone else and beg him to cum in her pussy?
You fantasized about it. You dreamed about it. You never thought it would actually happen though. Then she met the right guy. He was handsome, strong, and most importantly, he was pure alpha male. He oozed confidence and she found him irresistible from the first time they met. He was happy to produce a recent clean test and easily convinced her how good it would feel to have his bare cock pushing into her pussy.
The night of their first unprotected encounter you had butterflies in your stomach. Youâd been invited to watch and you couldnât wait for the moment when he pushed his big dick into her perfect wet pussy and filled her. It was even better than you expected. As he filled your wife she moaned loudly and wrapped her legs around him. She never wanted his incredible cock to leave her body. She never wanted him to stop fucking her.
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They kissed, they caressed each other, and they made love in front of you. They made bareback love and with each thrust her wet pussy moved closer to orgasm. You had a perfect view between her legs so you could see her labia opening around him and watch as his balls slapped against her ass every time he pushed inside your wife. She treated you to a great look at her riding his cock too, and to see how much she enjoyed having sex with this man was an absolute thrill for you.
The creampie came after they moved back to the missionary position. Heâd had her every way imaginable and he was ready to cum inside your wife. His thrusts were slow and deep and as he slowly moved towards climax he announced his intention to release his seed into her body. She welcomed it eagerly, and soon another manâs cock was flooding her womb with cum. You watched him empty his balls and now youâre watching the cum leak out of her while they share tender, sensual kisses and the kind of bond that only comes from unprotected sex. Soon youâll be between her legs cleaning her up. Does that excite you, cuckold?
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Watching for the First Time
Youâre going to be excited, nervous, and a little anxious the first time. Youâve fantasized about it. Sheâs come home from being with him and told you about it. Youâve never actually watched her with someone else though.
The first big moment will be when she turns her attention to him. That will necessitate turning her attention away from you. If youâre going to feel an overwhelming sense of jealousy, thatâs when it will happen. Itâs important that you maintain control of your emotions here. Youâll ruin everything if you freak out.
Instead, enjoy this. Think about how badly you want this. Think about how often youâve fantasized about seeing your wifeâs mouth around another manâs cock. Think about how arousing it is to know that sheâs making someone else moan. Even if sheâs not looking at you when sheâs doing it, you need to sit back and enjoy it. Thereâs more fun to come.
When you watch him slide his cock into your wife for the first time youâre probably going to feel a mixture of emotions. You might feel jealous. Youâre definitely going to feel aroused. You might feel anxious.
One of the things some cuckolds struggle with is confronting a version of their fantasy where they donât have control. When youâre masturbating and dreaming about her cuckolding you, you control every detail. When itâs happening in real time, two other people are involved and you probably donât control anything.
Your job is to enjoy whatâs happening. Itâs to watch someone else fuck your wife, and hopefully to watch him offer her the kind of orgasm she badly craves, and the kind that you likely donât provide her.
Watching your wife have sex with someone else should be arousing above everything else. Once youâve moved past the initial mental hurdles you should be able to simply relax and enjoy the absurdly arousing show theyâre putting on for you.
Should you masturbate? You should definitely decide beforehand if youâre going to be permitted to masturbate. It really depends on the couple. You should absolutely not orgasm, though. The moment you climax, every bit of lust youâre feeling will disappear. Since itâs your first time, thereâs a very good chance youâll just be left with the feelings of jealousy and anxiety that are there.
That means thereâs a good chance things get ugly. Maybe you demand he stop fucking your wife and leave. Maybe you leave the room in a jealous rage. Maybe you have a huge fight with your wife afterwards. These are all bad things that will likely ensure that your cuckolding fantasy comes to an end and could lead to much bigger problems in your marriage.
Feel free to masturbate and revel in the pleasure of her getting fucked by someone else. Just donât cum. It could ruin everything. If you end up losing control (not a good thing, but it happens) and cumming, just leave the room. Let your wife and her lover finish what theyâre doing and try not to think about it. Becoming an asshole after you orgasm is the quickest way to ensure that she has no interest in cuckolding you anymore (or, in the worst case, that she decides she doesnât even want to be married to you anymore).
Iâd recommend you keep your dick in your pants for the first time. Itâs a smart way to prove that youâre thinking about her above everything else. You can rub your dick through your pants and generate that beautiful arousal, but keep it hidden and concentrate on her.
If sheâs interested, kiss your wife as she fucks her lover. Suck on her nipples. Caress her. Connect with her. That may not be what she wants - she might just want to concentrate on the man sheâs fucking - but if sheâs interested, go ahead and indulge her.
Remember that youâre going to get a chance to orgasm. It might come later after heâs left, but your climax is an important part of cuckolding. It can be smart to work out beforehand when youâre going to orgasm. That way you donât end up denied. Your wife gets to enjoy her lover and his big cock and at some point you get to enjoy the orgasm you crave.
Remember everything you see. It will be beautiful fantasy fuel for weeks and months to come. Remember what it looked like when he slipped into her from behind and fucked her as she stared into your eyes. Remember how loud she moaned for him. Remember how she moaned into your mouth when you kissed her as they fucked.
Even remember the moments that might have made you uncomfortable. Remember when they had missionary sex and she completely ignored you as he fucked her to her first orgasm. Remember how they kissed with such eagerness and passion. Try your best to clear your mind of the distracting bullshit (anxiety, jealousy, fleeting anger) and concentrate on the fact that your fantasy is coming true, even if itâs not exactly as you imagined it.
Quick note on that: Thereâs almost no way the first time is going to play out exactly as you imagined it. That rarely happens because itâs going from one person dreaming something in his head (thatâs you) to three people participating in a real life sexual trio. Itâs also important to remember that the first time isnât necessarily a reflection of how every time will go. If there was something you didnât like, tell your wife about it and it can change for the second time.
If your wife is willing to let you go down on her after sheâs been with her lover, this is a great time to cum. Some women wonât be up for this (they may warm up to it in subsequent play sessions, though). If she is, pull out your dick and get to stroking while you go down on her.
Bring yourself to a climax as you taste the mixed juices of her and her lover. Cum while you think about the sight of his cock filling her pussy, the way she moaned for him, and the orgasms he gave her. Doing so will deepen your cuckoldry and associate your sexual pleasure with your wife fucking other men. Itâs a perfect way to end your first watching session.
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The Guide For Bulls With A Cuckold Couple
So, youâve wanted to be a âBullâ and now youâve found that perfect couple. Sheâs a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. Heâs a cuckold (or wants to be) and heâs willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.
This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. Iâve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. Iâve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.
First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real âBullâ in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is just fucking someoneâs wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.
What most guys donât understand is that itâs a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP. Â In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.
But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someoneâs wife. I donât need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you donât get it.
On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded drama queens then do read on.
Being a Bull means youâre coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO that.
Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.
The perfect relationship WILL NOT happen instantly. It takes an investment of time by everyone INCLUDING YOU. Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process. As you learn the couple, and they learn you, the relationship becomes more comfortable and the sex gets better. Eventually it will become what you/they envision, but only if everyone works together.
Now, letâs start with âwhat everyone wantsâ. There are many variations of cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship. There are many studies and theories as to the motivations for the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle among otherwise monogamous couples. You may want to read up on it, to become better educated about why she wants to fuck someone else and why he wants her to do so. It is both fascinating and erotic reading. The better educated you are the better your experience can be.
The most common underlying theme for most Hotwife/cuckold couples is for the Bull to become the sex partner of choice for the wife. This can range from seeing him occasionally, all the way up to daily sexual encounters. Every couple has a different idea, and itâs important to know what their expectations are. In addition, âreal lifeâ can and does often restrict or interfere with the scheduling of play times.
As a Bull, itâs important to realize that youâre dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children, etc. Â There will be times when play will need to be canceled or postponed because of the realities of life. You should always be sensitive to that, and never become angry about last minute changes, cancellations, etc. Â Be understanding about these setbacks and youâll be rewarded with a more appreciative and willing wife!
Once you establish everyoneâs expectations about frequency, another thing to discuss is how the meetings are arranged. Some prefer regular schedules, i.e. every Saturday night for instance. Others like more flexibility, and even spontaneous meetings. Some of the hottest experiences Iâve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).
Itâs important to know what the couple enjoys. If theyâre into the wife having the freedom to reach out to the Bull when sheâs horny, or if you all agree that sheâs âsexually on demandâ to the Bull, then you can enjoy impromptu daytime, lunchtime, or late-night quickies.
Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband. Some enjoy limiting intercourse between themselves for several days before the wife plans to meet with the Bull. Others go so far as limiting the husband to handjobs, blowjobs, etc., during the entire time that the wife is seeing another man.
This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wifeâs presence (i.e., I donât want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).
The idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be fun to explore, and itâs a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole âintercourseâ partner.
Another area to discuss upfront is your communication with the wife. Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husbandâs grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.
Next you should discuss what the couple expects when it comes to you being alone with the wife. Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.
Then again, many couples enjoy the wife going out alone on âdatesâ with the Bull. Realistically, most âdatesâ consist of the wife merely visiting the Bull at his home or a hotel for a sexual encounter. Itâs not uncommon for the husband to help the wife prepare for her dates, often helping her bathe, do her hair, shave her legs and pussy, pick out sexy clothes and help her dress.
Some Bulls take advantage of this by contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife. Â Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later. In recent years some have turned to Skype, webcasting and other internet based products to share their acts with the husband watching in real time.
There is a certain excitement that can result from the Bull taking the wife out in public for dinner or a movie, etc. This can be a wise move by a smart Bull, as it not only starts the relationship off in a more traditional manner, but there is also some risk of the wife being seen in public with a strange man. While this may feel uncomfortable for the wife, she will also feel ânaughtyâ and find it exciting nonetheless, which can lead to heightened sexual response later in the evening. This also shows that the wife is sufficiently attracted to the Bull that she will go outside her comfort zone and âtake chancesâ to be with him. This is a good sign that the Bull will be able to push the wife in other areas as well, perhaps persuading her to do things that she may not do with her husband (semi-publix sex, visit a swing club, threesome with another male/bifemale, etc.).
Some couples enjoy overnight encounters. However, this is more common with couples that have already experienced some Hotwife-cuckold play in the past, and is probably not something newer couples would find appealing. However, if it is a possibility, itâs important to discuss those details too. Â There are many possibilities here, including the wife spending the night at the Bullâs home, the Bull spending the night at the coupleâs home, or even an overnight hotel stay. Some also enjoy the wife and Bull going together for out-of-town trips, short cruises, etc.
In those instances where the Bull stays at the coupleâs home, there are variations. Will the Bull and wife sleep in the guest room, or in the master bedroom? There is often significance to the wifeâs âinfidelityâ and the marital bed, and the Bull should be sensitive to that.
Some couples limit the wifeâs sexual play to places other than the marital bed, i.e. the marital bed is sacred and only for them. Other couples derive additional pleasure from the wife âcheatingâ in their marital bed, and playing there can be even more exciting for them. You should discuss this ahead of time.
Also, when spending the night itâs important to be clear about the expectations for the husband. Will he be present all night? Will he be present only during the sex, then go sleep in a separate bedroom? The couple often already has an idea of what they would prefer here, so you should find out.
Decide what other places/variations you all might enjoy. Some couples fantasize about the wife and Bull having sex in the backseat of a car or a semi-public spot. Some cuckold husbands enjoy the thought of coming home from work to find their wife in bed with the Bull, or knowing the Bull was at his house fucking their wife while they were at the office. Multiple partners, videotaping sexual encounters, outdoor sex, etc., can all enhance the experiences to be shared.
Bear in mind that most Hotwife-cuckold couples also focus on the Bull being âwell-hungâ, or at least being better hung than the husband. Ironically this is not something to be avoided around the husband, but instead should be openly discussed as a point of excitement (she NEEDS a bigger cock and he LOVES knowing she needs it). Hopefully, as the Bull, you are better endowed than the husband. However, if not, itâs still possible to build the desired relationship since much of it has to do with the Bullâs attitude and manner. If sufficiently assertive and dominant, most any Bull can still pull it off no matter what his endowment.
The age of the Bull is an area of some debate. Because most couples are seeking a Bull for the wifeâs sexual pleasure, they prefer someone with a high sex drive and good stamina. Obviously this is more common in younger men. However, some women find it difficult to be sexually attracted to men significantly younger than they are. As a general rule I find that most couples prefer a Bull to be several years younger than the husband, but not so young as to have insufficient experience to sexually please a mature, married woman. Confidence, demeanor and a good attitude round it out.
Verbal play can also be critical, with both the wife and the Bull engaging in some level of interaction with the husband. Experienced Bulls enjoy telling the husband how enjoyable their wife is in bed, in a teasing, taunting manner. Common things to say might include: Your wife has a sweet pussy; She loves my big dick; She sucks cock great; Iâm going to fill her with my cum; This pussy is going to be mine; Your wife is such a slut, etc.
The wife can also participate, working together with the Bull to stimulate her husband, saying things like: His cock is bigger than yours; He fucks me much better; I want him to cum in me; Do you like seeing me like this?; Iâm going to fuck him more than you; Heâs stretching my pussy out; etc.
Here is a list of some other Things Cucks Love to Hear From Their Hotwives. Â I often encourage a wife to say things like this to her husband, sometimes whispering in her ear and telling her to tell him, because I often know what the Cuck wants to hear more than the wife knows.
Another important issue is birth control and/or condoms. These are not necessarily the same. Some couples use no birth control other than rhythm method. Other couples use birth control, but may want the Bull to use condoms due to health concerns. This needs to be discussed upfront, and everyone in agreement. Be aware that this may be one of the few areas where the wife and husband will disagree.
The wife may choose the more conservative approach and opt for condom use, while the husband may prefer that the Bull not use a condom and ejaculates inside his wife. This is one reason that the Bull should befriend the husband, as they can both work together to persuade the wife to concede and allow the Bull to engage in intercourse and ejaculate freely inside the wife. For most cuckold husbandâs this is one of the most intense aspects of the act, and he will want his wife to get âcreampiesâ from the Bull.
This can also lead to another angle, which involves the cuckold husband going down on his wife after she has had sex. Often called âclean up dutyâ, it is a staple of most cuckold desires. This act can be an intense experience for the husband, as it totally immerses all of his senses in the undeniable fact that his wife has been âslutty and unfaithfulâ, which is what turns him on the most. Many couples do this after the wife returns home from a âdateâ, but it also can occur soon or immediately after a sexual encounter at home. See my blog on Creampies.
If the three of you play in each otherâs presence then consider including this after you engage in intercourse with the wife. The act itself can have a slight humiliation aspect to it, and some cuckolds enjoy being âtoldâ to do this by the wife and/or the Bull. It can be both a post-sexual act to bring the wife to another orgasm, as well as a means to prepare the wife for the next round of intercourse.
Also, remember that relationships evolve. For instance, at first the wife may want her husband to be present for all sexual play. Later she may become comfortable playing while her husband is in another room. That could eventually lead to her playing alone, and visiting the Bull at his home. Or perhaps the couple isnât interested in an overnight stay at first, but in time they may become comfortable with that idea. Many ideas can become more appealing as the relationship progresses.
There is one rather extreme variation of the Hotwife-cuckold theme, which is the idea of the wife becoming pregnant by the Bull. In reality almost all couples separate this fantasy from reality. No sane couple would intentionally bring a child into the world just to fulfill a sexual fantasy. But an offshoot that is a common theme is âpregnancy risk sexâ. Some couples find it more exciting if the wife has intercourse with the Bull during times when she is near ovulation. Others like to use the withdrawal method during this time of her cycle, playing with fire so to speak.
Some wives are reluctant to openly discuss this fantasy, as they find it too close to reality. After all, pregnancy COULD happen. Yet, the idea can still turn them on and a smart Bull can use this to create intense sexual experiences. Natureâs urges can be strong and therefore exploitable. I know wives who get extra wet at the thought that they could get pregnant from the good looking guy pumping his sperm into them. Many wives have fantasized about a man refusing to pull out when asked (forceful insemination), or had thoughts of becoming so aroused that they lose the willpower to ask the Bull to pull out at all. Keep this in mind if you want to enhance your encounters with a Hotwife. It can be a powerful addition to the experience as long as you use subtlety and innuendo. Â
After discussing all of those important issues, you should have a good idea whether or not your desires and those of the couple are a good match. If they are, then what you need to do is craft a plan that has one important goal: Â You must become the Alpha Male in the relationship.
All social mammals have Alpha Males. They are the fastest, strongest and/or smartest males in the pack. Females are instinctively drawn to the Alpha Male because they have the best genetic material. Human females are no different. If two men are in her life, a woman will instinctively become more attracted to the Alpha Male.
When you come into the relationship, remember that you are altering an existing bond between two people. There is an emotional bond and a sexual bond. You donât EVER want to do anything that interferes or hurts the emotional bond. If you do, both the husband and the wife will react negatively. In fact the strong emotional bond is required to give them the comfort to include a third person in their relationship. If you weaken their emotional bond then insecurities and Â jealousy will emerge and ruin everything. NEVER ever make a play for the wife as anything other than a sex partner. If you do then everything will come to an end.
However, their sexual bond is entirely different. Not only CAN you break that bond, you MUST break it. Breaking their sexual bond and then bonding sexually with the wife is your goal. Â When it comes to sex, you want her to think of you.
When you first meet the couple, know that the wife loves her husband and looks to him for sex. If you do everything right, in time she will still love him but she will LUST FOR YOU if she begins to view you as the Alpha Male.
Becoming the Alpha Male in the wifeâs eye is easy, but only if you follow a certain path.
First, you must befriend her husband. Thatâs right. He needs to become your buddy. This should involve some light male bonding, such as watching a few ball games, drinking some beer together, a fishing trip, whatever. In addition, the first time or two you are together with the couple you need to play the role of buddy with the husband (even if youâve already started having sex with the wife).
After all, you and he are on the same team. You want to take his wife away, sexually speaking. He wants the same thing, because more than anything he wants to see her become an insatiable slut again and he knows she needs someone new to do that. So make him a friend and keep him a friend. There WILL come times when youâre trying to persuade the wife to do something, and having her husband as an ally can be very helpful!
By the second or third visit, you should begin to assert yourself. Ask the husband to get your drinks and refills AND ask him to get the wifeâs drink too! This is very important, as it shows that youâre looking out for âYOURâ woman. You can bet that the wife will notice this too, although she probably wonât say anything.
If youâve already started having sex with the wife, take this same attitude into the bedroom. At first, suggest that the husband sit and watch you two have sex. You want to mostly ignore him but you can still talk to him and have his wife talk to him at times. But I mostly act as if heâs not there and at times I honestly can forget heâs there. The wife should be your focus. But at some point act like youâre thirsty and ask him to go get drinks for you and your lady. Ask him to get a towel or lube or whatever else you can think of. Make up tasks if you have to. The point is to have him do things when you ask.
During later visits this should progress to you telling him what to do in the bedroom. You should get no resistance if you progress slowly from being his buddyâŠ to asking him to do thingsâŠ to then telling him what to do. It will seem like a natural progression for everyone involved, including the wife (who will be noticing everything).
Many wives get aroused watching this progression. That arousal is going to benefit you. In her eyes you will be emerging as the Alpha Male. Eventually, you should be able to tell the husband to do anything non-sexual, and he will oblige.
Next, take it to the sexual level. You want to get him involved and excited, while making it clear that youâre still in charge. You can âallow himâ to suck his wifeâs breasts or rub her clit when youâre fucking her. Have him grab her ankles and pull her legs wide apart when youâre pumping your cock into her. Have him go down on her before you fuck her, or even between fucks, to keep her wet and ready. Have him kiss his wife deeply while you make her cum.
You can do anything you want, as long as he gets involved occasionally to experience his wifeâs sexual intensity when sheâs with you. You want him to smell the sex, hear her gasps and feel her hot, sweaty skin. After a while tell him to stop and go sit back down. Show him that you will allow him the occasional joy of touching his wife, but that youâre definitely in control.
Another thing to consider is telling him to take out his cock and masturbate while he watches. You could tell him to cum while watching his wife getting laid, or go the other way and tell him to masturbate but not to cum. Again, use your imagination, as long as youâre telling him reasonable things to do. Remember, the wife will be watching too, and she will notice how much more dominant youâre becoming over her husband.
Once things have progressed to this point the wife should really be into you, and she should see you as the Alpha Male. In her eyes, you should have completely replaced her husband in the bedroom. If she still seems to split her allegiance between him and you, or if you just want to take it to a higher level of dominance, consider making the husband put your cock in his mouth.
Believe it or not this has nothing to do with gay or bi-male sex. Itâs strictly about domination. If youâve ever watched wildlife footage of a wolf pack, then you noticed the body language of other males when theyâre around the dominant Alpha Male. They maintain a low body stance, and physically roll over showing their underbelly. They submit completely. Not only does the Alpha Male see this, all of the female wolves notice it too. Thatâs why the Alpha Male gets the females.
If you really want the wife to be âyoursâ sexually, let her see you being dominant over her husband. She will be impressed and aroused. Plus, itâs one hell of a power trip. To learn how to make this happen, click here, How to get him to roll over.
Once things reach this point, the wife will see you as the Alpha Male whenever youâre together. When she gets horny, sheâll think of you. Sheâll fantasize about you, and do anything within her limits to please you sexually.
With married women itâs ALL about the sex. Theyâre not into drama and theyâre not seeking commitment. She wonât be stalking you and you wonât find her crying on your front doorstep. When she calls or texts you that means she wants to fuck. When you need sex you can call or text her and sheâll come running. Better yet, her husband will encourage it all and help with the arrangements. Youâll get more sex and better quality sex from a willing, married woman than you will with most single women out there.
Thatâs why itâs so worth the time investment to build and cultivate the ultimate Bull-Hotwife-cuck relationship!
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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Manâs Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a âHotwifeâ is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of âswingingâ and the modern âopen relationshipâ. Â Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship â the woman â going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and âgetting someâ for himself? Â
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. Â They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate â this isnât so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Â Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the âbest mateâ or the âmost attractive womanâ. Â With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partnerâs Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow âweakerâ than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Â Is this really true, though? Â Could the truth lie somewhere within todayâs manâs loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or âmonogamyâ? Â Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence? Â
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a âwoman ledâ relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to âcaptureâ the best mate and even when sheâs out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own â a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed â their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. Â While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being âat homeâ, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the âwinâ in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men. Â
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. Â This is why the desire for âreclaimingâ a Hotwife after a date is so strong â itâs actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. Â So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women weâve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating â before weâve found our âpersonâ. Â We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessingâŠwhy? Â Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. Â So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldnât it work once weâre married? In contrast, women typically donât respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy â we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be âjust not that into usâ. Â Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once weâve committed to them, because we, ourselves donât want to feel as though weâre in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Â Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Â Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. Â It doesnât take a lot to feed the fantasy. Â Itâs not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, itâs also about the little things â the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the âteaseâ of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much weâre looking forward to doing it again. Â Remember, this ignites the âcompetitionâ element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, âBut Iâm doing it for him, Iâm not doing it for myselfâ (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this âother guyâ did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the âother guyâ. Â I know it seems crazy, because we donât want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their âothersâ were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we donât. Â Thatâs because we donât have that âcompetition driveâ like our men do.
Letâs face it, despite what our men tell us â âItâs all about your pleasureâ or âI donât get anything out of it unless youâre enjoying it, because I love you so muchâ â this isnât some ultimate âunselfishâ thing our men are doing for us. Â These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is âI want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to meâ. Â Itâs their kink, and we have to understand it. Â
So, if youâve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, youâre going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Â Whenever you think âBut Iâm only doing it for himâ, follow that us with âIâm doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed itâ. Â Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. Â This may require a little bit of embellishment, and thatâs OKAYâŠtrust meâŠembellishment is your friend in this situation. Â Tell your man about your Bullâs amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. Â These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire. Â
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, youâre playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things hereâŠ Â The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. Â His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that heâs ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. Â I have experienced this firsthand many timesâŠif I am completely honest about an âencounterâ and admit to âDâ that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didnât quite âget thereâ, he isnât nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. Â I donât like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truthâŠmaybe your lover wasnât the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be âhe was amazing with his mouthâ and leave the rest up for interpretation. Â
Weâre women. Â We are strong and capable and we are smart. Â And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Â Where do we want to be? Â We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to âcompeteâ they will need to step up their own game in order to âkeepâ us satisfied â be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above. Â