(G)ay of the week #tags

    Mon: #mancrushmonday, #MCM

    Tues: #toweltuesday, #toweltuesdays

    Wed: #humpday 😉

    Thurs: #thongthursday, #thongthursdays

    Fri: #fuckfriday 😉, #fuckfridays 😉, #flexfriday, #flexfridays, #fetishfriday, #fetishfridays

    Sat: #speedosaturday, #speedosaturdays, #sixpacksaturday, #sixpacksaturdays, #jockstrapsaturday, #jockstrapsaturdays (yes the rhyme is a bit tortured, but it's what we've got)

    Sun: #speedosunday, #speedosundays, #suckitsunday 😉, #suckitsundays 😉

    Tips on Fucking Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t Tell Bottoms

    Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

    • SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 
    • ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
    • PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
    • PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED.There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
    • RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
    • ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
    • REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
    • COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

    Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

    • LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
    • LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
    • LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
    • LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
    • LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
    • SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.

    Tumblr Inquisition

    When did freedom of expression suddenly become an online crime? When did an attack on a specific subset of any group ever work to the benefit of any institution?

    In this bloggers humble opinion, Tumblr’s December 17th forced genocide of Adult Content blogs is just another example of how our society is slipping backwards in its level of tolerance towards anything that is different, preferring to have this type of content hidden away, and marked with a scarlet letter of intolerance and shame.

    Are there issues revolving around certain types of blogs Yes. Child pornography and other unacceptably content is abhorrent to all. Is Tumblr going after those specific types of blogs? No. Are they setting up a system that blocks minors from accessing adult content blogs? No. They are preferring to follow a simplistic “nuke it all” approach rather than address the overall problem. Taking a M.A.D (mutually assured destruction) approach, can only end in one way, for without adult content, Tumblr will die off.

    So my friends and followers(93k amazing individuals), I challenge you to reblog this note, and challenge Tumblr’s decision. Perhaps, if enough of us stand up and protest some good will come of it. Resist, and fight the good, and honourable, fight.


    Censorship and the elimination of an individuals rights to express themselves is the first step towards a totalitarian society. I encourage all my followers to reblog this message