@ibismiles
Ibi Smiles
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2020-04-15 12:34:46

    I’m back!

    Since it’s been a while, I will share a little intro with you. I’m Dutch, living in Spain and we are on lock down for 5 weeks due to the Covid-19. First 2 weeks: Staying at home, not allowed to be on the streets unless you have to go out for essential needs, a ‘dogwalk’ - max 100m from your home or to go to the office. After 2 weeks there was a total lock down of 2 weeks and only essential needs were allowed. A man got a fine of €600 for buying some candies and another one for buying only beer. So buy a chicken and some beer and you’re fine lol. Since this weer we are allowed to go to the office again and they are speaking about the idea of releasing the children from Monday. Every country is different and although I live in Spain and I have to listen, I prefer the Dutch way, but that’s probably because I’m Dutch :P

    I’m happy DHL was still operating normally and so I prepared my shipping's as usual for the models. All models on BikiniFanatics can earn a new bikini every month and as being the owner of BikiniFanatics, there is nothing more fun to do then prepping and personalizing their shipments. 

    The new collection for my shop - www.shopbikinifanatics.com - is taking longer now due to the virus and also the new BF2.0 is talking longer as it’s supposed too, but we are all living in the same situation and I’m happy to get respectful and understanding messages from the models, users and clients. 

    During the lock down I watched a  lot of Prime & Netflix. My favorites are American Gods, the man in the high castle, Tiger King of course lol and currently I’m watching Startup.

    Without my shootings I have more spare time now, but I really do miss the beach. I have enough content in stock, I’m glad I just shot a lot before the lock down, but eventually I will run out of content. But it seems like I won’t have to worry about it since I have some shooting opportunities in 2 weeks :) I’ll always make sure there are new updates of me ;)

    XOXO Ibi :) http://bfibismiles.bikinifanatics.com

    Being self-secure, what is selflove and how to be confident?

    Women together are not the easiest. In general, they like to gossip about others, are quickly offended and are not quickly satisfied. This is because every woman is insecure. We women think different than men and like to be approached differently.

    Now it is not only the women that are insecure. Men are too, but they don’t have all these mood swings and are easier to deal with. They fight things out while women stay upset. We women are always busy with beauty stuff while most men hardly put any cream on their face. We women have to be smart, strong, sexy and beautiful. We want men to be smart, classy, sexy and attractive. They are not busy with make up, facials and other beauty things such as cosmetic visits at the doctor. We women do a lot and so we expect to be respected. We love to hear compliments. Of course, when a man gives a compliment it is because he thinks she is pretty or attractive and all men want is to fuck. That’s their nature. Most women see a compliment as how women give these; they are nice and friendly, but that still doesn’t mean I want to fuck with you. Men skip steps while women need more steps. Now in my world as being an online naughty girl – or as men will say, online slut – I know every comment on my Instagram is a friendly one which is a respectful way from each of them to say they wanna fuck me. Perfect!

    Him: You look so sexy in that dress. Your eyes are super pretty. Thank you for making my day! She: Oh wow I am sexy, this will build up my confidence! What a nice guy, who is he?

    Or

    Him: I want to fuck you hard and long She: Fuck off! Who the hell do you think you are!!?!! Creep!

    So educated men know the second example is rude and not how you treat women. Unfortunately many men have no idea how to treat a woman and a comment like the second one will bring the women’s confidence down. She is not some kind of sex doll and she doesn’t care what you want, you have to care what she wants!

    For me, it started when I lost weight, become stronger and fit. Then I started to cam on Streamate and that teaches me how to show myself, what is sexy and what is not, when I am at my best and receiving tons of compliments.

    I’ve done done 2 boobjobs – 2 because the first one was simply not big enough for my posture – I have lipfillers and some cheek injections. Yes, I would be very sad and less secure if I haven’t done my boob job, but the cosmetic part is simply because I believe it’s super sexy to have big lips. I will do another boob job within a couple of years, simply because I love big boobs and if possible, I will go bigger. I love a big butt too, but a bbl is not as easy to do compared to a boobjob. It is very interesting though. I am not sure if I have enough fat for it and the after treatment is pretty tough. Also people can die during surgery, so if I want a bbl? I don’t know yet.

    I am self confident, I am a business owner, I love myself and anything I want to do with my body in the future is just because I like it. Like my ink, it is an addiction to do something new every time!

    I know my audience who reads this is 90% men, but if you are a woman, I hope this article helps a bit and my advice is; start working on yourself. Sport regularly, learn how to do your make up, go to the hairdresser every month and shine! Smile, as often as you can! xxx

    Why I had to learn to about self love

    Where I come from we never spoke about love, sexiness, or discussed anything. Discussions turned out into fights. When I had the age to learn anything about sex, my parents had a lot of difficulty explaining me facts about it. I had to figure out everything myself about my body.

    My parents had a lot of fights and they are water and fire, they are so different from each other. Love was never there. At least, me as a kid never saw any love, only a standard kiss when dad came home from work.

    My parents had just enough money to provide the family decent food, clothes and education. We hardly ate any junk food for lunch or dinner and clothes came from average shops, so this was all good. It was okay, nothing more, nothing less. But what I know now about food, sports, diets, is nothing compared to where I come from. My parents never did any sports and so I only did what I liked; horse riding. That’s not really a sport. At least not for your stamina or strength.

    When I moved together on my 19th I cooked how mom cooked; basic and recipes from grandma. Nothing special, I just made sure I cooked my veggies and added carbs and protein to complete the meal. Now I know I always cooked too much and the sauces I used were really not necessary!

    When I was 23, living in Spain and gained weight from all the new Mediterranean foods, I started to do bootcamp. To speed up this article a bit; I lost weight, built stamina, added the gym for strength and got my first dietitian. I learned to cook differently, more healthy leaving product out and adding others instead, if I wanted.

    Sport and a good diet are key to a healthy life. To understand your body, to have a body with maintenance. A toned body doesn’t have to be with 18% body fat, a 6 pack or needs to contain 5 days a week the gym or 1 cheat day. It is important to maintain your body from when you are young. When you start at an older age, you first work to shaping up the body and then you maintain it. Like we do with everything. Without maintenance your body feels heavy, ugly and out of proportions.

    I learned a lot in the last 10 years and I finally love my body; curvy, thick, toned, strong and preferably tanned ha ha! I went from chubby to slim, from slim to curvy. Of course, I never have the perfect body, unless I’m going to do the Brazilian Buttlift. But the risk of dying during surgery holds me back. It will remove some fat I obviously don’t want on certain places and will give me a bigger booty. Sounds perfect, but a very heavy surgery. Without a surgery like that, I have the perfect natural body. Except for my titties, they are extremely gorgeous, but not natural. I would be heavily depressed if I was unable to do my boob-job. Nobody is perfect, but it is important to be able to love yourself. When you love yourself, when you feel sexy, then you are able to give the same to others!

    My first micro bikini!

    From a ‘normal’ bikini to a thong bikini, that was already something! The first thong bikini I bought was not really micro, at least not as micro as I wear them now. My first thong bikini was black and white, a mega soft fabric and with perfect elastic; it won’t cut into the hips like many bottoms do. My first micro bikini happened by accident. I got a second breast enlargement and suddenly my small bikinis became micro :P So what actually my first micro bikinis was, I have no idea, but I know my bikini fetish was born!

    Why micro bikinis?

    Of course, when I was younger, I worn normal bikinis. Like any teenager does. Not a thong, and a top that cover almost everything. I hated the tan lines. It took a while to get comfortable not wearing a top and remaining with a white booty was not pretty, at all. Ha ha. I found a micro bikini website and bought my first thong bikini. The top was a triangle and covering very nicely. I could even wear this one at the pool! I started to order more and more and when I had my second breast surgery, my L bikinis suddenly were a lot smaller lol. I actually didn’t mind. It was sexy! Specially here in Spain it is ok to wear almost nothing so from micro came sheer and now I have over a 100 micro bikinis!

    Because I found different brands and I loved to show off on my Instagram (that account got reported lol), I started my own bikini community called BikiniFanatics. The place where all bikini fanatic babes, just like myself, can upload all their sexy bikini content, without limitations!
    http://tf.bikinifanatics.com

    Micro bikinis are sexy, leave small tan lines and are a wonderful fetish!

    I am not a pornstar, but I do make porn clips

    I often get the question if I’m a pornstar. The answer is; no, I’m NOT. Girls that upload explicit content are not necessarily pornstars. Pornstars shoot for studios and often some home made stuff on top. I don’t shoot for studios. I am a naughty bikini milf that loves to shoot in and out bikinis and love to shoot hardcore content with her husband. Many women love to share their nudes and explicit content online. Since I am a bikini fanatic, I ONLY share ALL my content on http://tf.bikinifanatics.com the bikini community online!

    Women that shoot porn content are not necessarily a porn star!