It's a Bu's life

the random happenstance that comes from a life lead by me.

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2021-06-17 04:02:40

    Weird peeve time. Calling lab grown gemstones "fake" is stupid because it's the same shit just not formed naturally. An artificially grown diamond is the same shit as a natural diamond it is the exact same material bro it's all fuckign carbon


    It's carbon it's pretty and it didn't involve slave labor what's not to love??? Hi I'm having geology opinions tonight apparently. And I'm right


    There is so much bullshit in the diamonds industry to be mad about tbh. It also ties into the bullshit of the wedding industry as a whole but we don't have the time to unpack all that


    not even going to lie, the day i learned i could get like 15 lab grown rubies the size of dimes for $20 is the day i spent $20 on rubies, and i have never once said to myself "man, i wish this cost $1,600 and the lives of eight children to produce"


    We are a pro-lab-grown mineral blog here, not only is it massively cheaper but massively more ethical as well in many cases.


    another very cool lab grown gem is Moissanite. It has a 9.25 on the mohs hardness scale where diamond is a 10. Moissanote also has a 2.69 refractive index in comparison to diamond’s 2.419 and here is the difference 

    and the best thing about moissanite? It is all lab grown and it costs only a fraction of what diamond costs. So fuck the diamond indsutry and buy lab grown gems which cost significantly less

    This year’s Virtual Pride at Scarleteen will go two days this year – that’s right, we’ve got two days worth of accessible, online content and other fun stuff this time! – Friday June 25th and Saturday, June 26th!

    We’re looking forward to bringing you drag, LGBTQ+ histories, skillshares from our staff, volunteers and friends of Scarleteen and more, all from the independent queer-founded and queer-led place that’s been place that’s bringing needed online support for young people and #QueerSexEdForAll to the internet and the world since 1998. We got you! Happy Pride, everyone!


    Okay but after seeing this I started doing it too and it’s amazing how many men I’ve run into bc they expected me to move


    Gotta try it


    I work (and walk) on a college campus. I’ve lost count of how many men I’ve smacked shoulders with.


    Recently, I was standing outside my son’s classroom waiting to talk to his teacher. I stood on one side of the hallway, not even close to the center. At some point, a man came walking along. I was standing right in his path, but the hallway was empty, so I logically expected him to swerve around me. Instead he kept walking right toward me, got to me, and stopped, as if waiting for me to get out of his way. I didn’t; I just smiled politely at him. He finally walked around me, clearly annoyed that I hadn’t leapt out of his manly path.

    Now I’m wishing I’d leapt aside, taken off my jacket and laid it on the floor before him, then bowed deeply and said, “My Liege!”


    I also work at a college campus. I smack shoulders sometimes, but I find that if I stare straight ahead and follow the advice below, people get the heck out of the way.


    Honestly this post changed how I carry myself when walking alone in public, or in a situation where I’m the one leading. People definitely move for the murder gaze.


    Confirmed. I once had to rush back inside a convention hall as the con was closing in order to a retrieve a sick friend’s medication, and I didn’t understand why people in the crowd were jumping out of my way (literally—one guy vaulted a table) until I realized I was dressed as the Winter Soldier and doing the Murder Walk because that’s just how I walk in those boots. I got the meds, got out, and made a mental note.

    I repeated the experiment later, wearing the boots but otherwise my usual clothing and mimicking the expression I thought I’d had at that moment. People parted like I was Charlton Heston.

    I now wear that style of boots whenever possible. I recently had a man do a double-take as I walked by and ask me, politely, where I had served because I “looked like a soldier.” I’m not current or former military. I was wearing a flowy purple peasant top and looked as un-soldierlike as possible.

    Moral of the story: wear comfortable shoes, square your shoulders, and walk like you’ve been sent to murder Captain America.




    It’s called the Murder Strut.


    IT’S BACK!!!!!! I was searching for this to show my daughter the other day and couldn’t find it. I’m so glad IT’S BACK!! I will always reblog the Murder Strut!!


    A guy on a bike went around me because he could tell I had no intention of moving. Thanks to this post.


    One day and I bumped into a guy while doing the Murder Strut and he apologized to me even though I was the one who had bumped into him.

    It works wonders.


    In case you were wondering, yes you can do this in a wheelchair. Same look in your eyes and let ‘em know you will run them down. Just picture yourself in a sports car accelerating towards someone with the intention of flattening them.

    If there’s anything more satisfying than watching Abled men leap out of my way when they realize I’m not moving for them, I can’t think of it atm.


    Walk like you’ve been sent to murder Captain America.

    Wheel like you’re gonna win the Indy 500 and don’t care how.

    Your crutches are short swords; walk like you can see them buried in the bodies of anyone who crosses (in front of) you.

    Tumblr: teaching women how to be Moses and part the fucking Red Sea with the power of their minds.


    I had never seen these updates to the Patriarchy Chicken Game before and they are all a goddam DELIGHT