gerard way stan

Hey there demons it’s me ya nerd. I post whenever I feel strongly enough about something. I am a writer, and working on a sci-fi project @haven-story if anyone's interested. I’m a jacket slut, I run with the doctor and my religion is Brian May. I watch a bunch of tv-shows some faves are Legends of Tomorrow, Macgyver and Thunderbirds are go. And also watch a lot of YouTube. I like music mainly emo/alternative stuff and I'm into Queen/The Borhap movie. I like superheroes and action/fantasy and sci-fi things mainly. I’m into literature now?? But I’m bad at it and I like StarKid and Tin Can Bros Musicals and also Hamilton. I have a hope that somewhere out there there's a Dean Winchester Fan blog run by Joe Moses.

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2020-07-13 19:34:44

    Crazy how quiet everybody was and is about chechnya. Like lgbt people are being tortured and murdered by chechen officials and by their own family and people. When the news first broke out in 2017 there was barely any posts on tumblr despite the fact that we found out a literal gay purge was happening and now the documentary about it was released two days ago and im one of the only people doing posts about it here on tumblr. Honestly the most heartbreaking part about the documentary wasnt all the fucked up things but the fact despite these horrible fucking things happening nobody cares barely anybody is talking about it. Youd think a website with huge amounts of lgbt users would make this trend but no when you go in the tags theres literally less than ten new posts. Putin isnt gonna do shit about it the lgbt chechens and the people evacuating them need support from other countries russia is not gonna fucking help them. Every day this fucking site is filled with stupid lgbt discourse and shit that doesnt fucking matter but when an actual gay purge happens and actual people are being murdered and tortured yall decide to be quiet and do absolutely nothing.

    Josey was found 3 hours after they rented the boat, alone, asleep and wearing a life jacket, and he told the police that Naya jumped into the water and never resurfaced, and it's sickening that people are making jokes about it now when a four year old might have lost his mother and that will be something that will haunt him for the rest of his life!!!! Do not make light of this situation!!!! You don't have to like her, just don't say anything then, if I see one more post being like, "I don't like Naya Rivera and she is a bad person who did this and that, BUT..." JUST SHUT UP!! I hope that she is found.

    I know it's dark right now and dangerous for divers to be going out there in the murky waters, but, boats with giant police flashlights and termal equipment should absolutely, absolutely still be there? Suspending the search for 12 hours is losing 12 hours that Naya doesn't have!!!!!

    Search and rescue has been resumed!

    The situation of the lake explained, unfortunately this doesn't seem good 😔😔

    My heart is breaking for Naya, for Josey, for her family and loved ones.

    Even little kids have a wage gap

  • Boys, on average, spend two fewer hours doing household chores per week than girls do (they play two hours more).
  • If they live in households where children are compensated for doing chores, boys make and save more money.  
  • A 2009 study conducted by University of Michigan economists found a two-hour gender disparity in responsibilities per week in a study of 3,000 kids.
  • 75 percent of girls had chores, while just 65 percent of boys do
  • This disparity in chores and free time continues into adulthood allover the world.   According to the Organisation of Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD), men “report spending more time in activities counted as leisure than women. Gender differences in leisure time are wide across OECD countries.”
  • Year after year, studies repeatedly confirm these patterns.
  • The problems women face with unequal pay and housework duties actually start in childhood.
  • The fact that boys’ chores appear to be more profitable makes the childhood chore gap even more disturbing. Turns out, parents tend to value the work that boys do more. 
  • Gender stereotypes dictate these patterns. 
  • <>men who grow up with sisters do less housework than their spouses and are also significantly more socially conservative.
  • campdracula5eva

    Just had to bold that bottom point there because of the amount of misogynists who claim that because they have women in their family, they can’t POSSIBLY be sexist ever. 

    oh my fucking god

    :( Mr. Gugino 🥺

    I’m sorry... I live in Buffalo and there are TONS of people that say this man was causing trouble all day and he was on the phone with his INJURED EAR as he was getting into the ambulance.

    Yes, I’m sure he really is hurt. And yes, the cop did shove him. But he has a history of causing trouble at protests and was planning on causing trouble at this one as well.

    You're not sorry. I don't care if he caused trouble. Nothing that he did AT THAT MOMENT warranted the reaction he got from the cops. If you can really say this nonsense after watching that video of him being pushed, his head hitting the floor, his skull fracturing right in front of your eyes, him barely moving, not getting up, blood gushing out his ear and not think that it was excesive force and wasn't deserved by any means, you and everyone who dares to say he is a troublemaker so that somehow makes this whole situation less serious are full of it.

    And you clearly don't know enough about traumatic brain injuries. His ear bleeding doesn't mean THAT IT WAS INJURED. It could have been, but it likely wasn't, and him talking on the phone doesn't mean jack. Bleeding out of the ear after a serious fall involving head trauma often signifies something much, much worse - bleeding around the brain. His skulls is fractured, he can't move, so that was actually likely the case. This is the wrong hill to choose to die on.


    I don't know how to explain you should care about other people and maybe next time you think you're saying something of any value? just shut the fuck up instead?

    what really gets me about the argument that “americans are so selfish they can’t even care about others enough to stop the virus” is that we fucking did. the vast majority of americans, at great personal and financial cost to ourselves, went inside and distanced and took precautions and isolated and changed our lives to slow the spread and keep our loved ones and strangers safe. we did that for months, even when the government offered piss poor assistance and unemployment skyrocketed and food bank lines lengthened and the death counts climbed and parents with young children reached a breaking point, we still did it. the polling still shows that the vast majority of americans are more worried about easing restrictions too soon even if it hurts the economy. americans give a shit. we care. we made the sacrifices to give our government the time to figure out and implement a plan — to find a way to keep us safe and as healthy as possible and to use the power of the federal government to protect small businesses and feed our children and put a roof over our heads and create education campaigns to get people to socially distance and wear a mask for fucks sake. we did that, and at the end of months of sacrifice they decided that it wasn’t worth the trouble and have left us at the whims of our governors and local officials, left us at the mercy of our employers, left us to die.

    americans aren’t selfish — our minority-rule government is — and it’s left us to die.

    Also, don’t mistake the minority of stupid and careless Americans for the majority just because they’re yelling really loudly.  Because they prop up the narrative of the minority-rule government, they get more air time and more exposure than the rest of us.  Hundreds of thousands of people are protesting for BLM across America and the news is cutting back coverage, but when these assholes went out protesting for haircuts?  It was EVERYWHERE.

    Even if you’re not IN America, please examine the narrative about America you’re being fed.

    Buffalo PD pushed a protester to the ground. His head hit the concrete so hard that he instantly stopped moving and blood started pouring out of his ear. Instead of stopping to find the man help, they left him on the ground, kept walking, and then proceeded to arrest another protester.

    The official report states that the man tripped. Meanwhile there is video evidence so clear you can read the name of the cop that pushed him.

    Fuck. Cops.

    <>Update: the men responsible for permanently injuring Gugino are still employed and rejoining the police force. Also, for those saying that it’s just these two that are the problem, the ENTIRE SQUAD QUIT IN PROTEST OF THEIR SUSPENSION<>. It’s not a few bad apples, it’s the whole fucking bunch.

    God, the sheer number of men who respond to the slightest possibility of having their authority threatened by immediately getting into my personal space and ~looming~ pisses me the <>FUCK off.

    Simple fucking requests. "Sir, I'm sorry, you can't smoke in front of the clinic, would you be able to move just a few feet over there?"

    Next thing I know this fucker, a full head taller than me and an extra half my weight is chest-to-chest in my breathing room, unblinking, mouth tight, dead eyed, smiling empty. "No actually, I think I'll finish it here. That okay with you?"

    God, do I hate it.

    Like, what, a tiny lady young enough to be your kid has the balls to request you go slightly out of your way for a second, and you feel outraged? Feel like you need to muscle down and prove you don't listen to anyone? Fuck you.

    Like, shit, you think I need a ~reminder~ that you could kick my ass if you wanted to? You think I'm not aware of that every second of my goddamned day?

    Just about every adult man I meet could plough me into the ground. You think that makes you special? Think that makes you tough?

    I spent the first fifteen years of my life with a bastard like you. Spent a decade and a half with a grip on the back of my neck and tight, gritted teeth asking if I could "meet them outside for a second".

    Do you think this is new to me? Do you think nobody's ever tried that before? That I grew up in some vapid, oblivious bubble where my every wish was granted until I met *<>you<>*, and hero that you are, you're going to be the one to finally give me a reality check about naggy little women who can't mind their on business?

    <>You think you're the first one to ever "Put me in my place"?

    God, you're pathetic.

    See, some of us don't have the option of being big and scary and automatically feared and respected.

    SOME OF US have to be patient, and considerate, and polite, and hold our ground and hope to Christ that we can trust the bigger, stronger, more powerful people to be reasonable, be considerate, be merciful.

    You shitless son of a whore. You think you can scare me? You don't know what fear even is. You've never been small and helpless a day in your life, have you?

    You wouldn't be able to handle it, being like me. Being weak, being second-best, being ignored and ogled and treated like a fucking decoration, until I say or do something that isn't cute or funny, and then I'm no better than a child having a tantrum.

    I would carve out your eyes to have you understand the shit I've been through. I would dangle you off a ledge and have you beg, knowing worse than the fall would be surviving, knowing how it feels to be at the mercy of someone who has none. I would have you live the rest of your life feeling that piece of you that goes missing.

    I hate men like that. I loathe them. Big and loud and brainless animals, all puffed up like roosters in a henhouse.

    The entitlement.

    <>The arrogance.<>

    Big, strong, manly-man. What exactly do you bring to the table? Can you cook? Clean? Mend clothes, fix furniture, build a house? Do you make beautiful art or music? Do you bring joy and wonder to the world? When you die, will those who survive you mourn the loss, celebrate the life that made theirs brighter?

    Or are you just some oily, swollen fuck, here to turn food to shit and drink to piss, stick your dick in something and die, like an animal?

    Get out of my fucking face.

    not a dream

    this might be a little different, but today I am here to expose vile behavior of a white tiktok user that has gained 30,000 followers on harassing Korean men, and getting away with it by trying to appear/be cute

    although she’s deleted most of her videos by now (she probably got called out before or received rightful backlash), her account used to be full of proof of such behavior, and she recently went back to posting similar content (does she think people forgot?)

    grabbing random people you don’t even know and forcing your touch and hugs on them is sexual harassment and abuse

    her @ is 8_alesha

    this screenshot of her account was sent to me, and that’s how I became aware of her vile behavior

    she’s catering to her fellow koreaboo young audience by continuing on to do stuff like this, and I don’t think she should be allowed to get away with it anymore

    before she deletes her most recents, here she is grabbing a random boy on the streets, making him uncomfortable, posing with him and trying to appear cute while he is trying to get away

    here’s another example - it’s clear that the boys and men in her videos don’t know how to react and are uncomfortable, but she’s getting away with everything because she knows they’re all too polite to make a scene and are caught off guard

    this is so messed up

    does anyone have any idea what can be done? can her account be reported? I’ve heard this kind of behavior is a trend among some white tiktokers living in Korea and Japan and that they have a niche audience of kids who eat this up, which is so messed up, we should not be normalizing this kind of abhorrent behavior

    It’s also worth acknowledging that she’s violating social distancing with strangers and risking other people, imagine you’re trying to go somewhere without getting sick and some stranger with their mask not covering their nose starts grabbing you

    But how would they know she is as cute as she is if her mask wasn’t low enough to show her cute nose uwu (sarcasm)????

    She really should not be getting away with any of this!

    This is literally sexual harassment so yes I’m pretty sure she can be reported for this. Especially as Koreans even under normal everyday circumstances highly respect personal/private space touching especially from strangers is extremely unwelcome! To the point even taking pictures with someone you know and have a friendship with, it would still be uncommon and rude to even place your arm or hand on the shoulder for a picture (think floating hands with celebrities) the reason a common pose for photos is the peace sign is partly because of this.

    Another problem we don’t talk about enough is when people move to other countries and have no basic respect for the culture and customs of the people native to that country. It’s disrespectful, inconsiderate and disgusting to push your norm onto others. You have to educate yourself and recognize that some things that might be everyday occurrences to you, are not everyday occurrences in other places and YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT AND RESPECT THAT. She’s wrong on many, many levels and should not be allowed to continue harassing men just because she is a somewhat cute girl.

    I’ve seen people on twitter already talk about her and looks like she already deleted some videos because theres more of her doing this. this woman is super weird and creepy

    She really deleted those videos after getting backlash, waited a few weeks and then went back to doing the same thing thinking people, what, forgot? She should not be having a growing platform, she should not have a platform whatsoever. Her behavior is repulsive! I’m so disgusted.

    <>Unarmed Black Man With Hands Up Shot By Police.

    <>Charles Kinsey, 47, a behavior therapist from South Florida was shot in the leg three times by the police in North Miami while laying on the ground with his arms up and trying to help his patient with autism who had run away from a group home.

    It all started when someone called 911 and said there was a man walking around with a gun. However it was Kinsey’s patient who was sitting on the ground cross-legged, playing with a toy truck.

    Charles got shot by police despite telling them he was only trying to help his patient.

    <>The police shot him, handcuffed him and left him on ground bleeding.

    North Miami police have not released much information at all. They haven’t released the officer’s name, they haven’t given us an update on the investigation. However, they did say that the state attorney is now a part of this investigation.

    <>#CharlesKinsey   #BlackLivesMatter 

    <>#StopPoliceBrutality   #NorthMiamiPoliceDepartment

    “Sir, why did you shoot me?”

    “I don’t know.”

    “I don’t know’

    Ridiculous! I guess that’s what we get for having less training than most jobs.

    not a dream

    CBS LA included clips form Naya Rivera’s arrest/arraignment/trial in a segment about her going missing while out on a lake with her four year old child and I’m sick to my stomach, there’s a traumatized four year old out there who had to witness his mom going into the water and never resurface again, there’s a young mother still missing and the search for her has been called off and they do something like this, they see a WOC with an arrest on her record and they immediately reduce her to just that and it’s unacceptable, it’s immoral, it’s tasteless, it’s wrong. You don’t have to like Naya Rivera to offer her basic human decency in a situation where it’s a matter of life and death. Out of respect for her and for her child at least, don’t do that. Why couldn’t they use any of these photos? I am not saying this to undermine her past wrongdoings, but this situation is not about that whatsoever.  And this works on the opposite side too, people are now trying to villainize her ex, pointing their finger at him and saying he was violent, when HE never had any sort of accusations of domestic abuse before, not even rumors. People are straight out lying. Speculating she has committed suicide, too, how can anyone do that? Do you think she’d take her son out on the lake with a boat, put him in a life jacket and just leave him there in the sun while she committed suicide? Use your brains. Just don’t say anything if this is what you’re going to be bringing to the table. Absolute garbage takes. 


    Josey was found 3 hours after they rented the boat, alone, asleep and wearing a life jacket, and he told the police that Naya jumped into the water and never resurfaced, and it's sickening that people are making jokes about it now when a four year old might have lost his mother and that will be something that will haunt him for the rest of his life!!!! Do not make light of this situation!!!! You don't have to like her, just don't say anything then, if I see one more post being like, "I don't like Naya Rivera and she is a bad person who did this and that, BUT..." JUST SHUT UP!! I hope that she is found.