A Comprehensive Guide to Makeup

    This is a makeup guide for sissies and crossdressers.

    No matter what stage you are at, makeup is something that every sissies and crossdresser struggles with. Many gurls feel insecure about how they look and so they don’t post photos of their face online. Learning how to use makeup not only helps you overcome this barrier, it also makes you more confident and enriches your life. 


    Everyday, I receive messages from my followers asking about how to take their feminization further without having it interfere with their personal lives. I have two suggestions:

    1. Invest in a good chastity cage and endure chastity training.

    2. Become obsessed with learning how to use makeup. If you’re in chastity, then you have more time to do other things. Before you spent all your free time jerking off that pathetic clit. Now you can put in your butt plug and spend all your free time learning everything you can about makeup and how it can help you look more feminine. Subscribe to every drag makeup artist on youtube, lurk around on forums and makeup blogs, buy makeup online. Become a makeup enthusiast. Watch Ru Paul’s Drag Race religiously and worship the makeup and outfit designs of your new role models. 

    To help you get started with the later, I will outline some basic steps you will need to master before becoming a creative makeup genius. If you get the hang of these steps, you’ll be able to progress in your understanding of makeup very quickly. As with anything you want to perfect, you have to practice, practice, practice! 

    If you don’t have time to invest in learning how to do makeup or you don’t have the privacy to practice makeup, I suggest getting in touch with transformation artists like @tiatizziannifeminization​ who can help you. You’ll be able to go and learn directly from them how to feminize your face using makeup. 

    1. Skin Care

    Before we talk about makeup, we have to talk about skin care.  Everyone’s skin is different so you have to decide what routine works best for you. Basically you’ll need a good cleanser, exfoliator, toner, and moisturizer. This will be the base for your daily skin care routine. You also have to be patient as it takes time to show the real effects of a proper skin care routine. These are really important items so don’t think about skipping to makeup before establishing a good skin care routine. After you establish this routine, you can introduce things like facial masks and pore strips. More than anything else, good diet and exercise will help you have good skin. 


    2. Shaving and Moisturizing

    If no one has taught you how to properly shave your face, well this is an excuse to learn. Watch youtube videos on how to shave properly if you want to learn more tips. Make sure your face is wet, use a good shaving cream and moisturize to prevent razor bumps. Shave in downward strokes and then go against the grain in upward strokes if necessary. Make sure you buy good razors that don’t pull at your skin and leave razor bumps. The last thing you want is razor bumps. After you apply your moisturizer, your face should be ready for makeup application. 


    3. Makeup Primer

    What is primer and why is it important? 

    Primer is a base for foundation and allows it go on smoother and stay on your face longer. It acts as a barrier between your skin and the makeup. It gives you a smooth canvas on your face by filling in fine lines and wrinkles. You can apply this with your fingers. 


    4. Beard Cover

    Even after shaving, you will still have a 5 o'clock shadow. Beard cover or tattoo cover can mask the dark shadows on your lower face. It uses colors opposite of black to neutralize it. For example: red, orange and blue. If you don’t have beard cover, you can also apply a little bit of red lipstick to cancel out the dark shadows left by beard growth. Red lipstick alone won’t give you the perfect look but it’s a good substitute if you don’t have a lot to cover. Don’t put too much because you will be applying foundation right after.


    5. Foundation

    Foundation is a skin-colored makeup cream that is applied to the face and helps even out your complexion. It can help cover flaws and even out skin-tones. You’ll need to get the right color to match your skin. 

    I recommend just going up to a makeup counter and asking for help. If you need an excuse, just explain that you’ve been asked to do a photoshoot and that you need a foundation to help even out your skin tone or that you want to mask a blemish. More than likely, people won’t ask you any questions. They’re more than happy to get another commission from a customer. Keep telling them that it’s not very manly but you thought to give it a shot. Just act clueless and they’ll probably try to push other products on you like a concealer, highlighter, etc. which will be useful. 

    Here’s a little guide on how to choose foundation if you just want to do it solo.


    6. Brushes

    Make sure you have the right brushes. Here’s a little chart of the 7 basic ones you’ll need.


    7. Eyeshadow

    You’ve done all the boring stuff. Now this is where you can start being creative and having fun! Try blending more than one color. Try matching the colors with your outfit. Also try some sparingly shimmering eyeshadow for when you’re going out.


    8. Eyeliner

    This can be tricky and will take some getting used to. It’ll take a lot of practice before you’re confidently drawing straight lines on your eyelid and waterline. Sharpen your pencil and take your time. Try starting with the lower eyelids first. When you think you have mastered that, then try top eyeliner. When you get the hang of it test out some cat eye looks. The trick is to go slow and practice a lot.


    7. Fake eyelashes and mascara

    After you’re done with your eyeliner, coat your eyelashes with mascara. It will make them look lush and full. Don’t put too much or they will clump up and become pointy. False lashes are a little tricky to use at first but you may want to use them when you’re more accustomed to mascara. 


    8. Antiperspirant/Setting powder 

    Apply a generous coating of a loose translucent anti-perspirant powder. This will keep your makeup from melting off your face when you sweat or if you happen to get water on your face. Don’t be afraid to use a lot. A good coating will keep your makeup in place all day.


    9. Blush, Highlighter and Bronzer

    All contouring should be done now before blush. After, bronzer should go just below your cheek bones to make them look a lot higher.  Blush goes just above your bronzer, on the apples of your cheeks.


    10. Lip Liner, Lip Stick, or Lip Gloss.

    Apply a generous amount and smooth lips together to blend.


    11. Makeup Remover

    When all the fun is over, it’s time for the makeup to come off. You’ll need makeup removing agent or pads to clean your face. Also remember to use the cleanser on your face and make sure your skin is nice and healthy.

    That’s the basics! Master these 11 steps and you should be way ahead of the game. Remember you have to keep practicing. 

    If you don’t have time to invest in learning how to do makeup or you don’t have the privacy to practice makeup, I suggest getting in touch with transformation artists like @tiatizziannifeminization who can help you. You’ll be able to go and learn directly from them how to feminize your face using makeup. 


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    Femdom Punishment Ideas...

    By Mistress Kylie,

    This post contains all of the ideas I have been able to come up with or find on the internet for female-dominant, male-submissive scenes

    You’ll probably notice that a lot of the ideas are designed for use over many days and are associated with orgasm control. This theme emerged over time because orgasm control is so effective at heightening male desire. We use this list in a very simple framework when setting up scenes. First she picks one or more of the ideas below (either by hand or randomly) and makes rules and tasks out of them. Then, after a few days of suffering through them and pushing me to peak sensitivity, the frequency of rules and tasks increases (over a weekend, for example) and she adapts punishments from the list (or comes up with them on her own) to achieve a good, intense session.

    So anyway, I hope you enjoy them and they inspire ideas of your own! Please note, though, that we haven’t tried all of them. Some of them may not be practical.

    1) Hold Pennies Against the Wall

    This task is very hard: have him hold pennies against the wall using only his fingertips — one penny per finger. Depending on how you position his arms, this can be easy or extremely difficult. Arms spread wide apart forces him to get his face very close to the wall and will tire his arms quickly. Same with his hands being very high up.

    For every penny that drops, punish him. Keep the punishments severe enough that he really fears dropping a penny.

    You can also make him hold a penny against the wall using his erect cock. This will force him to keep himself hard.

    2) Controlled Orgasms

    Rules that control his orgasms are the most effective and psychologically impactful rules you can impose. These rules also become good excuses for torment and punishment. The mix of wanting to orgasm and facing big punishments feels very exciting.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He has to earn orgasms –> After you have had five orgasms, he gets one. –> He chooses to undergo a punishment or humiliation in order to flip a coin. Heads grants him an orgasm. Tails gets him another punishment or humiliation –> He earns points toward his next orgasm by acting the role of the “perfect slave.” These can only be earned by doing things for you without being asked, and acting the part perfectly. 20 points per orgasm.
  • He must ask permission prior to orgasm.
  • He is allowed to orgasm, but doing so carries an automatic set of punishments or humiliations.
  • Every time he orgasms, he owes you a favor.
  • You pretend to believe that he will take any opportunity to have an orgasm, and go to great lengths to prevent it (chastity belt, lots of restraints, careful supervision).
  • After every orgasm, he must collect his semen and do something embarrassing with it.
  • Come up with a “training regimen” to teach him to resist orgasm. He wears a chastity belt until he can resist your best efforts to get him to come while you reach two or three orgasms.
  • He is forbidden to clean up his own semen if it lands on him.
  • He gets a very short window every day to bring himself to orgasm while you watch. The chastity belt goes back on at the end whether he succeeds or not.
  • He gets a set limit of orgasms per week, which he can trade like currency. (His limit could be one. Or one every two weeks. Just because he can trade doesn’t mean he needs a lot of them.)
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Instead of a promised orgasm, he has to edge instead and thank you at the end as if he had an orgasm.
  • Lengthen the time he has to wear the chastity belt.
  • Treat pre-cum as orgasms for punishment purposes.
  • Warn him about a severe punishment if he orgasms, then tie him down and ride him until he does.
  • During the time when he is permitted to orgasm, position his body so that he can’t prevent himself from coming on himself.–>Make him put his knees on the wall behind him so that his cock points toward his face
  • If you are on top and he comes, keep going. The sensory overload is really overpowering. Even though it feels great, it’s a good “mean” thing to do to him.
  • Punishment Ideas

    Remember that if your slave just had an orgasm without permission, he’s less in the mood than he was before. So instead of a regular punishment, pick one that is more severe, and execute it after he’s back in the mood (possibly the next day).

  • Make him write out a coupon for a certain number of days spent in a chastity belt. Spend it whenever you like. If he picks a number that is lower than what you picked, make him choose again and double his next result. (You can choose to have him give you a number of orgasms instead of a number of days.)
  • If he comes inside of you, sit on his chest while his semen drains out of you. Tie him up until it dries.
  • Chain a heavy weight to his chastity belt for a while, giving him something he either has to drag by his balls or deal with as he does other tasks for you.
  • 3) Edging

    Edging is the practice of bringing someone very close to the point of orgasm and then baking off. It’s usually done repeatedly, which both increases sexual need and results in the closest thing to multiple orgasms for a man. You can force your Slave to edge himself a few times to increase his sexual need. Or, you can do it to him and punish him if he orgasms. This will force him to resist orgasm.

    4) Must Volunteer Information

    This is similar to the “Must Not Lie” rule, but forces him to give you extra details whenever he’s answering a question. It can be very useful, because he has to actively think about what other secrets he can divulge. Use it to force him to keep you aware of the things he’s thinking about.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He must tell you when he’s horny
  • He must go into detail about what he wants sexually and why
  • Whenever he’s asked a question, he has to answer it, and then say “Also…” and add more details.
  • He must try to help you come up with more effective punishments, more humiliating tasks, and tell you how he might try to get out of obeying you
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

    Since you can’t read his mind, there’s no way to know if he’s holding something back. Rely on punishments if you find out that he didn’t tell you something.

    Punishment Ideas

    This is a rule that focuses on helplessness and humiliation. It’s also oral, since he has to tell you things. If you catch him leaving something out, punish him accordingly.

  • Make him write out several punishments and rank them according to desirability. Pick one or more for him to go through.
  • Make him tell you the most humiliating punishment he can think of. If he disobeys again, he has to go through with it.
  • Take away his right to speak for a while. Use a ball gag or tape if necessary.
  • Tell him to apologize. Don’t accept his apology until he recommends a good physical punishment or humiliation for you to employ.
  • 5) Must Keep Legs Spread

    Here is a very simple rule that is designed to keep things awkward for him and emphasize that his cock and balls belong to you. Usually the rule is that his legs can’t touch his cock or balls while you are in the room. Tell him that you want to see his balls hanging down.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He must keep his legs spread whenever you are within reach of his genitals
  • He must spread his legs on command
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • He must keep his legs spread at all times, just in case.
  • Tie his legs up by the knees and spread them out. Then tease him by doing things to him that would make him want to close his legs
  • Punishment Ideas

    Breaking this rule is all about not giving you access to his cock and balls, or about him not putting them on display for you. Punish him accordingly.

  • Tie his ankles to his wrists. Then tie his elbows to his knees. Last, pull his cock and balls behind his legs and tie his legs together so that they are trapped down by his butt. Now he gets to keep his legs closed, but you have full access to the genitals. Torture them for a while until he becomes more compliant.
  • Since he won’t put his genitals on display on his own, take away all his clothes and tie him up in a full-body rope harness. That way he can stay on display for you until you get tired of him.
  • 6) Must Obey

    Make it unconditional that he has to obey you, or anyone you specify, and punish him if he doesn’t do it promptly or well. This is one of those rules that you’ll talk about a lot, bringing it up to him to remind him that he doesn’t have a choice (or that you’ll punish him severely) if he doesn’t obey.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • Have him acknowledge every command with “yes ma’am,” “yes, mistress,” or similar.
  • Give him a time limit to obey. For example, he might get punished for not jumping to do what you say within three seconds.
  • If he’s being forced to obey someone else, have him ask that person to give you an evaluation of how well he did.
  • Test him by giving him a list of things to do while you are away. Demand proof that he did them.
  • Come up with a word you can use to tell him that you are giving him an order while he’s in public so that others aren’t aware that you’re giving him a command to obey.
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Dramatically increase the number of things he has to do so that he’s kept very busy
  • Use toys, locks, and complicated tasks to make obeying very hard, such as –> Blindfolding him, then telling him to get a specific item that can only be identified by sight –> Chaining up his hands and then giving him something to type (with his tongue?) –> Give him an enema, and tell him he can’t release it until a task is done.
  • Give him tedious tasks, like writing out a sentence fifty times.
  • Punishment Ideas

    Failure to obey you should carry the harshest punishments. The point of this game is to use punishments to force him to obey you. Therefore, the punishments have to be intense enough that doing humiliating and painful tasks is less miserable than going through with the punishments. Generally, you want to pick very painful or very humiliating punishments for this kind of error. Try to get him to call out in pain several times. He’s got a safe-word if you go too far.

  • Chain him up so he is completely immobile, then leave him like that for a while, maybe periodically torturing him.
  • Take away a sense or a privilege for a long time, such as use of his hands for 24 hours.
  • Add a couple extra rules to his list of rules
  • Make him pick a few punishments he would rather not be forced to undergo and then draw one randomly
  • Add a few days of slavery to his sentence
  • 7) Must Become Hard

    With this rule, the slave must force himself to become hard. This usually carries a time-limit, or is just a way for you to keep his hands on his cock, constantly fumbling with it. This has more to do with him having to make himself hard with you watching than it does with him getting hard. He is putting himself on display. Keep that in mind and see if you can think of ways to change things up.

    Consider making him exaggerate the process so that it’s extra disruptive. Some ideas are to have him stretch out his cock, or use both hands, or kneel until it’s done.

    This rule can be fun if he can’t use his hands to make himself hard. He’ll be left humping you or the furniture to comply.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • When Mistress enters the room, slave has a certain amount of time to make himself hard.
  • On a schedule, such as once every three hours, slave has to make himself hard and present his cock for your inspection. If it’s not hard enough, or if it offends you in any way, he can be punished.
  • When seeing something arbitrary, such as a high heel, he has to become hard –> You might say, “You like skirts so much? Well, you’re going to show it!” And have him make himself hard every time he sees one on TV.
  • Upon hearing an arbitrary word, such as “songbird,” he has to make himself hard.
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Instead of just making himself hard once, he has to become hard, become soft, and become hard again –> Add a time-limit to complete this task to make it harder.
  • Make it more uncomfortable for him by keeping him from freeing his cock from his clothes or adjusting it while it’s getting hard.
  • Forbid him to use his hands to make himself hard or simply tie his hands out of reach of his cock. This will make it much tougher, but still possible.
  • Make him stay hard for five minutes before he can let go of his cock or stop stimulating it.
  • Punishment Ideas

  • If he fails to become hard for you in time (or if he forgets), change the rule so that he isn’t allowed to become hard for a day. See if you can catch him breaking that rule and slap a chastity belt on him.
  • The next time he has to be hard on command, put him in a lot of pain by slapping at his balls with a ruler or squeezing them (or similar) while he is trying to get hard.
  • Make him get hard without physical contact on his cock of any kind. (This might be very difficult.) Tie him up to be sure that he can’t move, of course.
  • 8) Must Use Specific Names

    This is a rule in every slave contract: that he must refer to you by a name of your choice. You can extend this to involve other women or other people. Common examples are:

  • Ma’am
  • Mistress
  • My Lady
  • Goddess
  • Madam
  • Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He isn’t allowed to use your name.
  • He has to answer “yes, ” whenever you give a command
  • Must call other men and women “sir” or “ma’am,” even if he knows their names.
  • Must be sure to state your special name before asking any question
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

    Once again, this rule is so common that it’s almost always in a contract. I can’t think of tougher ways to implement it.

    Punishment Ideas

    This rule is a vocal one, so punishments can involve the mouth or speech. But don’t let that stop you from popping him in the testicles for forgetting to say your name before a question. Just be sure to catch him every time.

  • Make him wear a ball gag for thirty minutes every time he forgets
  • Tape his mouth shut when he forgets
  • Make him eat or drink something (like alcohol?) every time he messes up.
  • Place a clothes pin on his tongue for a while
  • Make him hold something with his mouth
  • 9) Must Kiss

    Slave must kiss some part of Mistress under some conditions. Type of kiss, duration, and number of kisses are up to you. You could, for example, make him practice kissing until he gets it exactly right.

    Body Parts to Kiss

  • Vagina
  • Ass
  • Feet
  • Hand
  • Mouth
  • Ideas for Normal Situations

  • You can assign different body parts to kiss under different situations. If he forgets or gets one wrong, he gets punished. For example –> He must kiss a chosen body part when you enter the room –> He must kiss your clitoris after you orgasm –> When Waking –> Before Bed –> While showering, he must constantly kiss your vagina –> When seeing something arbitrary, such as a high heel –> Upon hearing an arbitrary word, such as “songbird.”
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • He must practice kissing the chosen body part. The more disobedient he has been, the longer he has to practice.
  • Instead of a simple kiss, you can make a complicated series of kisses that he has to get right every time.
  • You can put a blindfold on him before he kisses. If he misses the spot, he gets punished.
  • Punishment Ideas

    Kissing is an oral act, so you might want punishments to involve the mouth. Here are some ideas.

  • Leave him in a ball gag for a period of time for every mistake he makes with this rule.
  • Force him to wear bright red lipstick and gloss (make his lips kissable) to remind him what his duty is.
  • Take away the use of his hands (using ropes or chains) and let him use his mouth as hands for a while. When he has had enough, give him a test to see if he has learned his lesson.
  • 10) Must Wear Collar and/or Cuffs

    You require your slave to wear a collar, wrist cuffs, or ankle cuffs, or any combination both as a symbol that you own him and so that you can quickly restrain him at any time.

    Since the collar and cuffs can’t be ignored, it will force him to remember the situation he’s in. You might want to avoid making him wear a collar while he sleeps, but that is the only one you need to be careful about. Cuffs while sleeping are just fine.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • When he gets up or gets home from work, he must lock a collar and cuffs on himself. Only you can unlock them.
  • He has to lock chains that hang freely from his collar and/or cuffs.
  • He has to sleep with wrist and/or leg cuffs on.
  • He has to lock himself to the bed when he goes to sleep.
  • He has to lock something embarrassing to his collar.
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Not only does he have to lock cuffs on himself when he gets home, he has to lock his wrists together and his ankles together. You unlock him when you get home or by telling him where the key is by phone.
  • He must lock something very heavy to his ankle cuff. Like a locked bag of bricks, or a suitcase full of heavy items.
  • Make him lock himself to the toilet or to some other immovable object by running a chain behind it.
  • Punishment Ideas

    Usually, the punishment comes from him unlocking the cuffs ahead of schedule. Sometimes this is necessary for safety or for other reasons (like a friend comes by), but you can still punish him for it. Simple restraint is perfect for that.

  • Run a rope or chain over a beam in the roof and raise his wrists as high as possible, maybe even making him stand on his toes. Tie it off so that he has to stand like that. Torture as desired. He won’t be able to stop you.
  • Before he goes to bed, make him wear short chains that either link his wrists, his ankles, or link a wrist to an ankle. You can also lock his wrists to a bondage belt.
  • Tie him in the frogtie and the chicken-wing tie at the same time. Torture him, make him walk on his knees and elbows, or just leave him stuck on the ground for a while.
  • Tie him spread-eagled on the bed. Use your imagination after that.
  • 11) Flexibility, Strength, and Weight

    I’ve combined three rules into one here. You can force him to reach (or maintain) a specific weight, achieve a certain degree of flexibility, or force him to gain strength. All of these require a test after a long period of time to see if he meets the goal. Failure needs to have a significant-enough punishment that it will push him to exercise and stretch for so many days to try to reach the goal.

    It also gives you a convenient way to punish him in a way that will hurt for a long time. You can force him to do 100 situps, for example, and his ab muscles will ache for days. However, this can interfere with other games where you are pushing his body to its limits.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He has to lose a certain number of pounds by a certain date.
  • He has to become flexible enough to perform yoga moves of your choosing
  • He must become strong enough to hold something heavy for a period of time
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Force him to exercise in a tedious and very challenging way, such as crawling to every room in the house fifty times.
  • Force him to exercise until he is too exhausted to stop you from overpowering him
  • Punishment Ideas

    These rules require him to exercise so often and for so long that you need to have punishments that will motivate him to work through the pain and boringness of exercise over a period of weeks. Pick punishments that make him pale, or that are worse than the exercise itself.

  • Add a period of slavery for every pound he fails to lose by the deadline, maybe a week per pound.
  • Put together a list of extreme hard labor that he must do if he fails to make his goal. Make him do the work naked, in chains, or while wearing uncomfortable toys like a large butt-plug.
  • 12) May Not Flinch

    Slave is punished for flinching. Pulling away counts as resistance, just like saying “no.” You have free reign over the slave’s body. You can even make him act like he is happy when you touch him. But he can never show you the disrespect of moving away when you want to touch him.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • Once he realizes what you’re reaching for, he must try hard to put that body part in your easy reach, either by moving closer, removing clothes, or assuming an agreed-upon position (like putting his hands behind his head).
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • Add a line in your notes or itinerary to try to get him to flinch a certain number of times each day. Once he passes the test, this rule can be dropped. But be convincing!
  • Tie his hands behind his back, and tie those ropes around his balls. Then try to get him to flinch. If he moves, he will yank on his balls. Train him to hold very still by trying to get him to flinch.
  • Add extra physical punishments or humiliation if you catch him flinching. (Two punishments instead of one, etc.)
  • Punishment Ideas

  • Tie his hands and legs very securely so that he can’t flinch. Then give him several reasons to flinch while he’s unable to. That way, he can tell the difference between when it is appropriate to flinch and when it isn’t.
  • Tie or wrap his hands (which are primarily used to protect body parts) in very awkward orientations so that they are not only useless, but uncomfortable or awkward. For example, tape his thumbs together and secure them to the back of his collar with a short rope.
  • 13) May not Say a certain word

    This is both a teasing rule and a very serious one. Consider these two situations:

  • He is not allowed to say “no” to anyone.
  • He is not allowed to say the word “is.”
  • In the first example, you make it clear that he’s expected to do whatever anyone asks. This is a straight-forward and common rule.

    In the second example, you pick a common word and wait for him to forget the rule, giving you frequent opportunities to punish him.

    Ideas for Normal Situations

  • He may not use the word “no.”
  • He may not use personal pronouns (me, my, our) and instead has to substitute “the slave” for them.
  • He may not speak unless addressed by someone (asked a question, etc.)
  • You force him to use an embarrassing word for his cock.
  • When a Slave’s Been Bad

  • He has a limit of words (or sentences) that he can say, after which he must be absolutely silent. (If you have a hard time keeping track, just count the number of times he starts talking.
  • He may only speak while wearing a gag or with something held in his mouth.
  • Punishment Ideas

    This is simple: if he speaks out of turn, focus on oral punishments. Bad tastes, gags, extremely hot foods, and so on.

  • Gag him for a while, possibly sacrificing a meal.
  • Make him hold something in his mouth. (Your freshly-worn panties, a jalapeno, or a piece of soap.
  • Make him conduct a complicated task with his mouth (such as sorting the sex toys, sorting your panties by color, and so on.
  • Thanks to Mistress Kylie, Her slave &femaledomination

    “Fashion is something that I love, and I find it to be so expressive and creative, and it’s obviously a way into my characters, so I’m always deeply engaged with it. What I find difficult about photo shoots is the line between playing a character— you’re being asked by the photographer to take on a role like you would in a movie— and being a fancier version of yourself. It’s about finding that line between being spontaneous and open to direction.”

    “Switch presents the viewer..

    ..with what initially appear to be pairs of classic studio portraits of heterosexual couples. Upon closer examination, however, each diptych is comprised of two models, not four.

    I dress each model as a man in one image and a woman in the adjacent one. By staging the same models twice in each pair of photographs, I don’t give any clues as to the subjects’ lived genders, therefore challenging the idea that gender is stable, consistent, or single.

    A parody of traditional portrait studio images of couples, the project specifically challenges the gender roles espoused by such photographs, subverting imagery of so-called normative existence. Through this project, I aim to reconstruct relationship dynamics with a queer and camp sensibility.

    How to make a gaff, a step-by step tutorial for transfeminine people

    You will need:

  • Scissors
  • A sock OR Length of pantyhose
  • A pair of underwear
  • Step One: Cut a 6-inch/15cm segment of the sock or pantyhose. You can throw away the rest, or keep it to use in making another gaff.

    Step Two: Cut off the elastic waistband from the underwear. Throw away the rest.

    Step Three: Thread the waistband through the sock.

    The gaff is now complete! To wear it, put your legs through the waistband on either side of the sock and pull it up like a pair of panties - lots of other posts have covered tucking, but even if you can’t tuck “properly” (i.e., with the testicles in the inguinal canals), it still works if you just kinda smush everything under. Put a pair of panties on over it, and you’re done!

    cc @transgenderteensurvivalguide, @relatabletransgirlthings