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    bdsmgeek-deactivated20141001

    Note on Re-Blogging: make sure to re-blog as text if you want the full content of the list to appear!

    Social:

    Communities:

  • Fetlife (Facebook for Kinksters)
  • Fetlife Novices & Newbies Group
  • Informed Consent (UK)
  • Datenschlag (DE)
  • Submissive Guide
  • People:

  • Lord Morpheous - author, sex-educator, photographer
  • Two Knotty Boys - rope bondage educators, authors.
  • Midori -  educator and columnist on adventurous sexuality.
  • Fred Kyrel aka ShibariK - French Fetish photographer.
  • House of Tanos - BDSM blog, Master/slave.
  • Events:

  • Shibaricon- large rope bondage convention in Chicago.
  • Electronic Resources:

    Articles

  • BDSM Identities - My own post on
  • Darr_Syn’s Post Dump - Collection of posts by /r/BDSMcommunity’s Darr Syn.
  • BDSM for Nice Guys - be a nice guy and a Dom.
  • Restrained Elegance - slave position lexicon (nice pictures).
  • Tutorials

  • BDSM-Chicago Tutorials - collection of tutorials.
  • NLA Columbus SM101 - intro to SM by NLA Columbus.
  • Bondage on a Buck - tutorials, homemade toys.
  • DIY Tutorial Collection
  • Leathercrafting Blog - leather, howto’s
  • Make a Bullwhip
  • Nylon Whip - Part 1
  • Nylon Whip - Part 2
  • Duct Tape Flogger
  • DIY Velcro WristCuffs
  • Rope Related:

  • Be Knotty - Wiki
  • How to Tie a Karada
  • Rope & Knots
  • Animated Knots
  • Shibari Nation Tutorial on Rope
  • Wiki Article on Shibari
  • Videos:

  • KinkAcademy - Free Video’s (paysite)
  • Pleasure Shop Collection - free, short.
  • Whip Making Tutorial 1
  • Whip Making Tutorial 2
  • Rope Related:

  • Two Knotty Boy Collection
  • Rope-Topia Collection
  • How to Tie a Shibari-Style Rope Shackle
  • Twisted Monk Collection
  • Blogs:

  • Press Button For Sex
  • Podcasts:

  • Erotic Awakening
  • The Dark Side
  • Books:

  • “How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM”
  • “How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime”
  • “Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism”
  • “The New Topping Book”
  • “The New Bottoming Book”
  • “The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment”
  • “On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play”
  • “Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction”
  • “When Someone You Love is Kinky”
  • Rope Related:

  • “Rope Bondage 101” - Free PDF via kinkfriendly.com
  • “A guide for rope bottoms and bondage models.” - Free PDF via rope-topia.com
  • “Esinem Style Takate-Kote” - Free PDF via esinem.com
  • “Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land”
  • “Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky”
  • “Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage”
  • “Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes”
  • “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé”
  • “Bondage For Sex”
  • Stores/Retailers:

  • DHGate - cheap, low quality
  • Discount BDSM Gear - cheaper, okay quality
  • HalfwayCreations - leather, high quality
  • Mr S Leather - various, high quality
  • Fetish Jewelry - jewelry
  • Tandy Leather Factory - leather, leather working supplies
  • StockRoom - expensive, high quality, various
  • NorthBound Leather - expensive, high quality, leather
  • Paddles Of Distinction - expensive, high quality paddles
  • Bound to Please - bondage supplies
  • Beautiful Bondage - bondage supplies
  • Freak Clubwear - clothing, toys
  • Jack’s Floggers - impact toys
  • Rope Related:

  • EMT Shears
  • Aja Rope - hemp, MFP, paracord
  • Beautiful Bondage (UK) - hemp, synthetic hemp, cotton, accessories, bulk orders
  • BindMe.nl (NL) - hemp, jute
  • Boss Bondage - hemp, accessories
  • Erin Houdini - nylon specialist, UV reactive colors
  • Esinem (UK) - hemp, jute, linen
  • HandmadeRope (CA) - variety of handmade rope
  • HempTraders - raw hemp
  • Jade Rope (UK)(US) - variety of natural and synthetic fibers, accessories
  • Jakara Shibari (UK) - jute specialist
  • Jaoman (CA) - hemp
  • KinkyRopes - specialty ropes, jute, flax, hemp, rope toys
  • KnottyBound - hemp, jute, bamboo, bulk orders
  • Madame Butterfly - silk specialist
  • Maui Kink - hemp, jute, variety of exotic natural fibers, accessories, bulk orders
  • McHurt (DE) - hemp, general bdsm
  • Naturally Twisted (AU) - jute, accessories
  • Omega Jute - jute
  • Ouchy (NL) - hemp, jute, synthetic hemp
  • Rawganique - raw hemp, hemp products
  • Renaissance Rope - hemp, jute, bamboo
  • Rope Extremes - hemp, MFP, nylon, synthetic hemp, paracord
  • Shibari Ropes - hemp, jute, suspension rings
  • TwistedMonk - hemp, accessories
  • Venus Ropes - hemp, MFP, nylon, accessories
  • Vintage Rope - hemp, cotton, MFP, accessories
  • Fun/Fiction/Entertainment:

  • KinkForKindle - Free Kink Ebooks
  • “Nana to Kaoru” - Cute BDSM Manga
  • Sysmtoys - games, toys, ideas
  • Tentacle BDSM Chair - yup
  • Fiction Authors:

  • Cherise Sinclair - Great BDSM Fiction Writer
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 1] “Club Shadowlands”
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 2] “Dark Citadel”
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 3] “Breaking Free”
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 4] “Lean on Me”
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 5] “Make Me, Sir”
  • [Masters of the Shadowlands 6] “To Command and Collar”
  • Extra:

  • Please Punish Me! - Punishment Generator
  • The Carlilock - Chastity Belt Time-Delay Key Holding
  • MojoUpgrade - Discover your kink Questioner
  • HumanSexMap - Exactly what it sounds like.
  • foxytail11

    bdsmgeek prepared this amazingly helpful guide to BDSM.  I really, really appreciate it when bloggers take out the time to compile helpful guides and research tools for newcomers to the lifestyle.  From personal experience and observing it at live events, I will say that BDSM done incorrectly can be very painful.  But when it’s done right, it looks absolutely amazing.  Please do the right research and practice before you try this out in the bedroom!

    bdsmgeek

    Thank you and you’re welcome foxytail11!