A VERY TIMELY POST FROM AN EXPERIENCED HOTWIFE. READ AND HEED!
So I posted recently looking for a summer fling (that’s going swimmingly btw but that’s neither here nor there). In chatting with so many new guys I been asked “So, what are you into” or some variation a million times this week. I know it’s a perfectly legit question, it’s a little lazy but whatever.
Here’s the thing, when I say…being a hotwife. That’s it, end of sentence, just soley into the hotwife thing at the moment…I can practically taste and hear the disappointment. I know that as a hotwife and woman who will gladly share my sex tapes and whatnot with the entirety of the internet I’m supposed to be a right proper depraved whore who’s into D/s situation or race play and a plethora of other kinks and fetishes….silly me for not fitting the preconceived notion of what a sexually open gal is supposed to be. Truth be told, I’m instantly kinda judging you guys for that disappointment that I can sense. I happen to really like this hotwife thing and I think it’s enough and can be fun so when you instantly set the bar at “how do you feel about bukkake’ it’s hard not to assume you’ll be a little let down with when I say that’s gonna be a hard no from me. It’s enough that I’m open to fucking you, I don’t need to add whips and paddles for it to be a good time and the dudes who seem to think that just aren’t compatible with what we look for.
Now I’m down to experiment and try things once I know someone. I think it’s an understandable boundary to want to know your first name before you request that I (insert random depraved kink here). I’m not trying to sound like a prude jerk, it’s just disappointing to see so many guys that are overlooking the beauty of this whole hotwife lifestyle/fantasy.
For me, and I only speak for myself here, it’s the little things that are the best. I’m not looking to try anything crazy with a stranger because I can do wild shit at home with my husband. When I meet someone the magic is in the little details. It’s in someone buzzing you up to their place and getting the butterflies because you’re about to fuck someone new. It’s the little bit of flirting as you feel each other out. It’s in watching them be just as nervous as I usually am and shaking when they pour the wine. It’s in checking each other out, it’s in the way I get anxious the last 10 minutes driving to meet them because I can’t believe I’m really doing this…again.
The best part of a date isn’t always swinging from the chandelier, it’s in being nervous and excited because some hot dude is about to fuck your brains out. It’s in your date putting his hand on the small of your back and leading you to his bedroom…it’s in the anticipation for when he’s going to kiss you…it’s in the nerves of ‘omg, this dude is about to kiss me’. The littlest graze against your skin from a man that isn’t your husband can honestly feel like a bolt of electricity. It’s crazy and intoxicating and so out of the ‘norm’ that every little things feels electric and just a little taboo (but in a really great way). Coming home smelling like cologne that isn’t your husbands is downright panty soaking….ugh. It’s so good.
I wish more guys who are into this would appreciate those little things and not jump straight into trying to get me to show up in latex and spank them while calling them daddy and dripping hot wax all over ourselves. If you look at this fantasy from the perspective of us wives ( maybe more so the ones that have been married for awhile)…it’s a crazy little thing we’re doing. It’s supposed to be fun and different, a little exciting and a lot sexy. Now of course some of us ladies are, and have always been, huge sluts and that’s awesome. Maybe latex and wax is what they want out of their hotwife experiences and that’s cool too, but at least find that out through a conversation, work up to to a bit and feel it out before assuming that’s the case. Also maybe keep in mind that some of us really just enjoy the little things that build tension and anticipation.
I’ll add that you should take my words as the opinion of one hotwife broad out there among many. We all do things very differently and are coming to it with different experiences and expectations. I’m truly only speaking for myself and what I enjoy about this little hotwife fantasy thing I’m pretty into.
TL;DR: Make me blush before you try to make me squirt 😉