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    Boys, protect girls. Call people out when they make offensive jokes. Stand up to those who treat girls like objects. Walk a girl home if she feels unsafe. Listen to them and be considerate of their feelings. Destroy that myth that women are inferior.

    Girls, protect boys. Call people out when they make fun of a boy for showing emotion. Stand up to those who tell boys to ‘man up.’ Support boys who enjoy feminine things. Destroy the myth that men can’t be victims and that women can’t be predators.

    Boys, protect boys. Protect your bros from violent relationships. Comfort your bros when they need somebody. Stand up for your bros who are ridiculed for not wanting/liking sex. Destroy the myth that two men can’t be close without it being “gay.”

    Girls, protect girls. Defend sisters who enjoy having sex. Stand up to those who define sisters for what they wear. Don’t judge your sister’s worth from how many boyfriend’s she’s had. Destroy the myth that girls have to constantly compete with each other.

    Protect everyone from the patriarchy. 

    lascumz

    Hallelujah.

    zodiac--signs

    Fucking important. Idc.

    theruleset

    I finally told my husband that what I really wanted after all of our play so far was to lick his dress shoes and like he's up for it. Why am I telling you this? I have to tell somebody. I'm shaking with excitement. He is not the vanilla man he was four years ago. I've ruined him. He used to be so shy he wouldn't even video chat with me and now he's taking pictures of me covered in his come the transformation was unreal. A Dom once lied to me and said a vanilla man couldn't be a Dom.

    Happy you could bring him out of his sexual shell.

    Of course some dry-dick rando dom would say that. It’s what he tells himself to get the confidence he has to have. “I’m 100% legit kinkster, this girl needs me to get what she needs”. It’s manipulation: partly of you, partly of himself.

    What I Mean When I Say I’m Sex-Positive

  • I think freedom of sexuality is something that we all need and very few of us have
  • I think sexual pleasure is a legitimate thing to want and ethically pursue
  • I do not judge people for the (consensual) sex that they have or want
  • I will not tolerate slut-shaming
  • I will not tolerate hatred of people based on gender or orientation (including asexual)
  • I will not tolerate hatred of sex workers
  • I believe comprehensive, honest, non-judgmental sex education is necessary for public health and happiness
  • I think understanding of sexual consent–what it is, why it matters–is sorely lacking in society and crucially important
  • I reject preconceptions of what kind of sexuality a person should have, whether these preconceptions are based on gender, age, culture, disability, survivor status, or basically anything else
  • I value people’s individual freedom of choice in determining their sex lives (including the choices not to have sex)
  • What I Don’t Mean

  • Everyone should have sex
  • Everyone should have kinky, non-monogamous, exhibitionistic, pansexual sex
  • Accepting someone’s sexuality means you have to participate in it, watch them engage in it, or hear about it in detail
  • Nothing related to sex is ever hurtful for anyone
  • Feminism should be all about sex
  • Sex fixes everything
  • epicfacial

    #SavePorn

    epicfacial

    Let’s get this up to 100k+ notes. Come on Tumblr community! Let’s make a joint effort to spread the word! All we are asking is for Tumblr to let us upload 5 minute adult video clips like we were able to in the past, we don’t want to host them elsewhere. We keep seeing more and more great Tumblr porn blogs get shut down for posting adult videos. Pretty soon there will be no porn blogs left. #SavePorn #EpicFacial

    tml17-93

    We’re onboard 100%. Without all of us tumblr would fail!

    m--shea

    But this was posted 3 years ago. I think we’re mostly okay by now, though I have noticed unfortunate shut-downs of prominent porn blogs. 

    The current status, btw, is that they’ll allow it to be embedded, but they won’t host it themselves. At least, from what I can tell.

    A meditation on Summer

    So, first off, I just wanna say, I don’t see myself stopping this any time soon.  I am taking a small break from writing right now just so I can focus on one big thing irl right now, but as soon as I square that away, I plan on returning to writing.  It is fun, and has honestly helped me put some stuff in perspective about how I view sexuality, kink, etc.  I’m putting the rest behind a cut, just because I know some of my followers just want hot pictures and possibly words that describe the pictures.  It will probably be pretty rambling.

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    I woke up (very late since I worked the night shift instead of the morning shift today) today with a frantic message on my tumblr asking where Summer was.  We found out collectively what happened right before I had to leave for the night shift at work, and I spent pretty much every spare moment at work thinking about what had happened. 

    Pretty much just as I started, two other authors in the genre decided to call it quits (at least for the moment),BubblesForAlgernon and AmieeBimbo, both of whom produced some very nice work.  And both of whom said that it wasn’t a healthy thing for them to be doing.  Which scared me a little, but I pressed forward.  

    But having Summer leave for the same reason is way more scary for some reason.  I had a tumblr account before this one. It was safe for work for the most part, and well, I think I had about 1/10th the number of followers and 1/100th the number of notes.  It wasn’t until I saw a link to Summer’s blog on TSD’s Yahoo Group that I knew this part of tumblr really existed.  It wasn’t until I saw her blog (and through her’s, blogs like Candy’s and Cookie's) that I knew that this bimbofication  thing was like a thing.

    TSD is great, don’t get me wrong, and I love his stuff (and I always thought it was a touch smarter and intentionally funny than what some critics on the MC forum thought), but I always felt kind of ashamed about liking it.  On some level, I thought only really perverted losers liked this.  And then I see this link where suddenly I find a number of women confessing to like it, to like the idea of being mind-controlled, of being changed.  And my jaw drops. 

    And yeah, there’s always been at least a few authors on mcstories and whatever who are women, but I guess that I always assumed that they were lying about their sex/gender.  And, well, there’s a couple hundred authors on mcstories, and there’s only a handful of writers that both write male-dominant fiction and have a psuedonym that implies that they’re women.  Seeing all this blogs, run by women (and occasionally get messages and likes from women) who like this aesthetic, who like some of the kinks I like, suddenly I didn’t feel like a gross perverted loser who was destined to die alone.   I don’t really expect to ever really be in a relationship like Cookie and Mr. C’s or Summer and the Fella, but suddenly I feel like its possible someday, and I feel a lot better.

    So without Summer, there’s absolutely no way that I’d have this blog, and probably no way that I’d be honest about some of my tastes, and I’d be way worse off.  Writing these stories (and having this account where I’m free to follow who I want) has helped me really come to terms with parts of my sexuality that I thought were shameful.  I’ll just admit right now that my dating history hasn’t been 100% heterosexual, and I thought that my bimbo/mind control fetish was preventing me from being a member of the LGBT community, because I was, like re-inforcing gender roles and being chauvinist or whatever.  Being a part of this little fetish subcommunity has helped me realize that having a certain attraction to something is really out of your control.

    And then there’s the fact that Summer was awesome.  She wrote some obscenely hot stuff, (hotter than my stuff by far and on a much more frequent basis) and I’m kicking myself that I didn’t reblog more of it just to save it. But more than that, she always seemed to be a kick-ass person.  She always came across as very real, and funny and nice, which can be hard to do over the internet and only through text.  There are some blogs here that revolve around the same thing that sometimes come off as a little fake, and y’know that’s fine, people role-playing is harmless fun.  But Summer always came off as very grounded which also helped me realize that you can be a perfectly normal person that is into weird shit, and that doesn’t make you a bad person.

    Now, absolutely, she made the right call in taking a break if she felt like she needed one.  If your hobby isn’t fun, or if you’re starting to concern yourself mentally about your obsession, then, yeah, you should take a break.  Maybe for good if that’s what’s best.  So, if you’re reading this, Summer, don’t think of it as plead to come back. Do what you need to do to be happy and well-rounded and mentally sound. 

    This is just a tribute to Summer and her simple idea that Bimbo Is Better. You were my favorite blog and you have left an absolutely giant hole to fill.

    repeat after me

  • there’s nothing “slutty” or inherently wrong about posting nudes for attention
  • wanting attention is okay
  • being proud of your body is a beautiful thing
  • let’s stop perpetuating the idea that being open with your body/sexuality is somehow a shameful or negative thing because it isn’t
  • and if that makes me slutty or shameful then good i want to be the sluttiest slut of them ALL
  • kiss my cute butte
  • love-and-bdsm

    “See, to actually fight rape culture you need to say “Sex is always optional. You are never obligated to have sex.” You must always be concerned with consent, and that means you must accept that the answer may very well always be no.”

    — Sex Positivity is Rape Culture in Disguise (via ninjabikeslut)

    submissivefeminist

    I’m sorry, is this implying that sex-positive feminists say that sex is always necessary? Because that is just bullshit. Being sex-positive is about giving people the option to explore their sexuality without shame. This in no way overrides one’s right to say no. This is no way shuns asexuals from our movement. The movement is centered around freedom of choice, and has no bearing on what that personal choice may be.

    In no situation has a right-minded sex-positive feminist said, “No, you must have sex because sex is completely good and pure and absolutely no sex is problematic.” That is completely ridiculous. 

    xx SF

    quietobservation

    Whore/slut/cunt, etc all exchangeable here…

    asubmissiveintraining

    Being a whore and being his/her/their whore are both completely fine, just that being someone’s whore is within the context of D/s while being a whore just means you love sex. Related but one doesn’t equal the other, etc.

    zayoken

    She’s cute

    excusemyhubris

    she’s just saying that because it’s probably difficult to reach her vagina.

    housewifeswag

    you obviously have no idea how the female anatomy works and I’m assuming that’s because you’ve never touched a vagina in real life so why don’t you pipe the fuck down. pro tip: you can use your tears as lube while you’re masturbating tonight.

    likearadiowave

    excusemyhubris: ”she’s just saying that because it’s probably difficult to reach her vagina.”

    Why, is your dick .5 inches long?

    Hey! i’m gonna do something that some guys like to do all the time to women who complain about things:

    Y SO SENSITIVE?!?lol

    Actually, it’s only the insecure idiots who suck at sex who feel the need to make these kinds of comments. Men who actually KNOW WHAT THE FUCK THEY ARE DOING, wouldn’t be so insecure.

    See, when you make stupid comments, make sure you don’t set yourself up. Cause see, although your comment was meant as a dig on her weight “hur hur, so fat, penis can’t reach her vagina lol”, it sounds much more accurate as “my penis is so small and short, I can’t reach her vagina”

    … go get bent, by yourself (as if you have a choice.)

    fuckdolls4use

    Wishing she had paid more attention in school, this was all she could do now

    rabbitsnwolves

    While this photo is hot, I’m specifically reblogging it to make a comment on this horrible, idiotic caption. Is it the contention that girls who enjoy sex or giving blowjobs are only doing so because they’ve somehow failed in their lives? That because this girl didn’t study, she is forced to degrade herself to such a low level that she has to have sex (or make pornography if you want to be more literal). I think it says much more about the pathetic values and views of the commenter, than it does about the girl. If porn and/or sexuality are such lowly vile things to you, why are you wasting your obviously GRANDLY educated and successful time looking at, and sharing it?

    yoursexcrazedsub

    1.) The girl practiced safe sex and used condoms. SMART. AS. FUCK.

    2.) I’ve seen this reblogged with notes calling her a “whore” and a “skank”. Fuck that noise. Over half the girls on tumblr will, or have, sucked the dick of a guy they just met, only hung out with a few times, or barely know, and then stress because he hasn’t called them back or he’s treating them like shit. Meanwhile the same girls go to work at a minimum wage job where they don’t even make $920 in 3 months, much less a day. 

    Good for this chick. She’s on her hustle and I ain’t mad at her. Make that money, girl!

    basedhiyoko

    you go girl

    suck them dicks

    achieve your dreams

    m--shea

    1) Seriously, the importance of this can hardly be overstated.

    2) Look, I get how 'whore' is used derogatorily, but 'whore' at its base is just slang for 'prostitute,' which means 'to engage in sex acts for money,' which is exactly what this woman is saying that she did. You can argue that it is a good thing or a bad thing--so long as she's safe and it's not making her unhappy, I personally think it's fine--but technically, this was documenting her being a whore. That just doesn't have to be a bad thing. 

    TORONTO (AP) — Canada's highest court struck down the country's anti-prostitution laws Friday, a victory for sex workers who had argued that a ban on brothels and other measures made their profession more dangerous. The ruling drew criticism from the conservative government and religious leaders.